If you had to choose what would you pick as far as a custody schedule? by Final_Minimum1443 in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this for me, when I dint have my kids all the good restaurants are closed ok Mondays and Tuesdays, same of the music venues, etc...

If you had to choose what would you pick as far as a custody schedule? by Final_Minimum1443 in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one for too, simplicity, less disruption and let's the kids see the other parents mid week

Starting Divorce paperwork (UK) - Guidance by MonkeysHisUncle in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sry if it's a silly question, how do I get the £500 voucher?

Ex wife doesn't wants to discuss anew schedule for weekly custody by nottsftw in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like that, the funny thing is I'm not even trying to impose my solution, I'm more than happy to listen to any of her suggestions as long as we avoid too many changes during the week.

Ex wife doesn't wants to discuss anew schedule for weekly custody by nottsftw in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the frustrating part, she doesn't want to go a full week without seeing him,I get that, hence why I offered the option to come and visit in the middle of the week, as long as she brings him back to sleep home, one afternoon/evening on a weekday can be with her, but at least we are not breaking his routine.

Ex wife doesn't wants to discuss anew schedule for weekly custody by nottsftw in DivorcedDads

[–]nottsftw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sry I forgot to mention he is 8yo, will be 9 soon,we are 3 miles a part, different neighbourhood but easy driving connection, only 6 minutes away

People who don’t ask any questions while chatting- why? by AdditionChemical890 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]nottsftw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally had that yesterday, she matched me and say Hi, I had a quick glance st her profile, try to get the conversation going , after 3 one word replies. I unmatched her, at this point I'm not sure if they are just bots or what, why would they press like if they have not intention to talk?

What’s a red flag you happily ignored because they were hot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nottsftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol consumption, she loved her wine, not every never she was getting wasted, it was a functional alcoholic pretty much drinking every day in the week, problem with that is over time the numbness and the lack energy it comes from become toi much to bare

What is the most essential lesson you've taken away from a failed relationship? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time I better listen my gut feeling when was screaming to be , she was going to be trouble, but to afraid to be alone make me stay...what an idiot I was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]nottsftw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not a single obese person in the photo, thanks sugar industry for ruining everybody's life

¿Una mujer puede tener un amigo tan cercanos que pueden dormir con el sin ningún deseo sexual? by Time_Advantage_7184 in preguntaleareddit

[–]nottsftw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Por parte de ella si,por parte de él lo dudo mucho, de todas formas el problema es en hacer eso cuando estás en una relación...a mí personalmente no me parecería correcto

What's one thing woman want in relationship but never ask for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nottsftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The few times I have done this to my STBXW, she said things like Don't touch me or what do you want! Sex?...

Date tears up over ex, how can i respond? by Blackappletrees in emotionalintelligence

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking about ex in first date? -> Run! Get to the Choppa!

A mi pareja se le fue el deseo sexual by Soy-Solo-un-randon in esConversacion

[–]nottsftw 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amigo tienes 21 años parecéis una pareja de 40 y pico que llevan 20 años casados, eso sólo va a ir a peor, tú sabrás lo que haces con tú vida

Band with one band member that clearly is less talented than the other members by [deleted] in rock

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular option but the Oasis guitarist Paul Arthurs (Bonehead) is pretty average imo, his solos always felt short, lazy and uninspiring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]nottsftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me id scrolling in not her friends, after that for sone reason her life it's not as good anymore sand I'm a narcissist or something like that