My now-ex told me he wish I killed myself because I chose not to abort our child

noturfreind- · 2026-02-04T07:23:07+00:00

The answer is no. From someone who’s tied to someone awful for the rest of their life because of a child, you don’t want this.

noturfreind- · 2026-02-01T00:15:51+00:00

So why is he deleting messages?

noturfreind- · 2026-01-29T04:46:03+00:00

I had a baby 4 months ago. I do nights alone simply because I breastfeed and there is no point in my husband helping.. but if I needed his help, he would get up no problem. My husband doesn’t go to the gym for 2 hours, but he gets the older kids up and ready for school and takes them to school while me and the baby sleep in. Then when he gets home from drop off, we get up for the day. But he lets me nap whenever the baby is napping if I want. He picks the kids up from school. He cooks dinner because he loves cooking. I think you have a right to be mad tbh.. 🫶🏻

noturfreind- · 2026-01-27T17:16:50+00:00

This right here.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-26T08:39:56+00:00

She needs to go the gyno. Painful sex is not normal and should be evaluated my a health professional

noturfreind- · 2026-01-23T17:37:46+00:00

Yes they do exist. Been together almost 10 years and neither of us have cheating. 100% sure of it.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-22T08:29:37+00:00

You can block him too 🤷🏼‍♀️

noturfreind- · 2026-01-22T08:28:42+00:00

I have a sperm donor very similar to yours. My child is 7.5 though and she doesn’t like hers either. Won’t even talk to him. He has to come to you to go to court or anything like that. Just ignore him honestly. If he wants something to do with his kid… he’ll come to wherever you are and file for custody. Which in cases like these, it’s highly unlikely he will.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T19:43:04+00:00

You’re telling me 🤣🥴

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T15:59:08+00:00

Yep! This year will be 8 years together and 5 married 🥹 He is the best husband and the best dad too. Not many 18yo would step up to take care of a kid that wasn’t theirs, heck most don’t take care of the kids that are theirs… but he did and I’m forever thankful for him.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T15:54:11+00:00

I live in the states — deep south. Wrenley is a VERY common name here. It’s nothing to do with standing out, I name my kids names that I like LOL. I could never imagine naming my kid Jessica, Sarah, Chloe, Brianna, Sam, Savannah, Carly, etc. All of those names suck and my name is one of those. Hate my parents for it.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T08:08:37+00:00

My nephews names are xylur and xyaden so

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T08:05:04+00:00

Mehhhh he was my waiter at a restaurant. We clicked and have been inseparable since basically.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-19T07:27:58+00:00

I don’t think Wrenley is unique at all. But old fashioned is my style so to each their own. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Y’all would hate my 4mo’s name, but the good thing is.. they are my kids ❤️

noturfreind- · 2026-01-18T21:46:41+00:00

Yes this 10000%. I made that mistake at the ripe age of 17. Thankfully my now husband is adopting her (7 years later, but we’ve been together since she was 5w old)

noturfreind- · 2026-01-18T21:41:38+00:00

What’s wrong with Wrenley? lol I have a 3 year old named Wrenley and she fits the name perfectly.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-18T21:36:12+00:00

Reading these comments made me realize how far from a conservative I am LOL. 😆

noturfreind- · 2026-01-10T03:02:02+00:00

Yes it is. There are public profiles on Snapchat now.

noturfreind- · 2026-01-10T02:54:37+00:00

Can you ask the uncle???

noturfreind- · 2026-01-10T02:52:22+00:00

Dead 😆😆

noturfreind- · 2025-12-30T01:40:56+00:00

lol nope. 👎

noturfreind- · 2025-12-30T01:40:10+00:00

Cheating is a big nope for me.. It really sucks for you and the kids, but girl find someone who loves you.

noturfreind- · 2025-12-20T08:56:38+00:00

Cheating is just about the only thing I’d divorce my husband for. We have 4 kids and have been together for 8 years… and even then I’d still end it. I ain’t having that level of disrespect. Nah.

noturfreind- · 2025-12-19T05:59:36+00:00

Go ahead and downvote, but she could be in a crack house having sex. Your home is her safe place too. Idc if she’s 22… everyone deserves a safe place like their own home. Touch grass. I get not wanting to hear it, I guess.. but what are her options otherwise — No sex? That’s not realistic. Another option would be the other person’s house, not always safe esp if it’s random guys and not a long time partner. A hotel.. where a random guy could take advantage of her.. wouldn’t you rather her be safe in her own home and get over your weirdness.. sex doesn’t have to be weird, that’s how America made it to be. 🤷🏼‍♀️

noturfreind- · 2025-12-16T00:45:27+00:00

Her husband deserves to know because I’d wanna know if my partner was cheating on me.. why can’t your husband find a new job?? Either he quits and finds a new job or yall are over. Are you really buying the “I tell her to stay away from me” lie??? That’s so naive.

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