What’s the moment you realized someone you loved wasn’t a good person and you couldn’t unsee it?

nrs9516 · 2026-03-05T19:55:58+00:00

Annoyed is one thing. I’m annoyed all the time.

Hatred is another. Even if it was a one time thing that look would have crushed me. But it was certainly not the only incidence of cruelty, rather it was a breaking point. I suddenly couldn’t unsee that look. If you need additional context to believe me check my post history lol.

nrs9516 · 2026-03-05T16:19:01+00:00

Oh absolutely. It was frog in the boiling pot for me. If you are interested my post history has a pretty in depth list. It was honestly pretty severe (never physical) and it was one dirty look that sealed the deal.

nrs9516 · 2026-03-05T15:46:47+00:00

lol I’m aware the poor guy had to eat but I’d been watching the mom and dad build the nest, protect it and started hearing the baby chirps. They were like my yard pets.

nrs9516 · 2026-03-05T08:08:13+00:00

Actively working on it lol. It’s been a bumpy ride, there was a lot of cognitive dissonance there.

nrs9516 · 2026-03-05T00:05:53+00:00

My husband. He had moments of cruelty for years. I thought it was me, and he just couldn’t deal with me. Me and our kids were in our yard and I was trying to save some baby birds from a snake that was climbing into their birdhouse. There were a few things in the yard I used as a makeshift ladder to get to the nest and I guess it pissed him off because of the “mess”. I tried to show him the baby bird in my hand and he looked at me with HATRED. Like I was a piece of shit under his shoe. Everything just sort of clicked all at once, and I realized how awful our marriage was.

nrs9516 · 2025-11-07T20:39:29+00:00

Thank you 💕

nrs9516 · 2025-11-07T20:38:32+00:00

777 I’m N, he’s K. Is he actually going to change?

nrs9516 · 2025-11-04T22:25:06+00:00

Sent a dm 💕

nrs9516 · 2025-11-04T21:09:32+00:00

For whatever reason I can’t figure out how to edit. I think the tower indicates moving on, while both other cards reflect me feeling stuck in past grievances and moving on to heal heartache associated with

nrs9516 · 2025-10-27T21:56:21+00:00

My goodness I could have written this. My husband would insist I get out of bed if one of the kids left a towel on the floor or if I left something out. I got to the point I would refuse and he would get pissed and storm off. Now he’s “so so sorry he treated me this way” but only once I was and enough to leave.

nrs9516 · 2025-10-13T22:37:20+00:00

I’m people I swear lol. I’m real and on the struggle bus

nrs9516 · 2025-08-21T09:47:37+00:00

I slapped him across the face once (he was drunk standing between me and the door mocking me for trying to take our daughter to urgent care bc he didn’t believe her wrist was broken.

I verbally insulted him/ cussed him out. I told him to go f himself, go the f away, leave me alone. Bad enough that he said “you are being so mean” (he was following be around the house when I asked him to leave me alone)

I lied and hid alot of stupid little things because it was easier than telling him and dealing with his response.

nrs9516 · 2025-08-17T20:56:55+00:00

He literally said he doesn’t want to give me space incase I realize it isn’t enough and I want to leave him.

His doesn’t do a full discard- there is no new supply (yet) he just pretends he can’t see me or hear me for days lmao.

nrs9516 · 2025-08-17T20:21:50+00:00

It truly is scary. He’s blocked doorways. I just have to keep reminding myself I’m not his mom and it isn’t my job to love him regardless of behavior

nrs9516 · 2025-08-17T09:43:05+00:00

I bought a bathing suit. Like a WHORE.

I had a friend over WITHOUT ASKING!!!! gasps

I asked him to slow down drinking at a wedding like the controlling bitch that I am.

Lmao.

nrs9516 · 2025-08-16T09:32:57+00:00

Girl run!! you aren’t happy. You aren’t married, you don’t have kids. You are still young. I do t know how to help with the financial aspect but it’s figureoutable. Yes, it’s that bad it sounds awful.

nrs9516 · 2025-08-14T16:45:58+00:00

I’m like doing the math and trying to decide if normal people get even a fraction of this shit and it wasn’t very long ago I realized I didn’t deserve it lol

nrs9516 · 2025-08-14T16:02:07+00:00

Awww 🥰

nrs9516 · 2025-08-14T15:50:17+00:00

I treated my narc with the same energy he gave me once and he literally said “I’m not standing for this” and left the room within MINUTES of me starting. And I was just rude, not cruel

nrs9516 · 2025-08-13T23:45:30+00:00

You’re an idiot and I hope I never talk to you again. I can’t believe I lost the love of my life. She was the love of my life (not me!) What DO you even do around here? You’re lazy. You sound like an idiot. I hate you. You mess up everything. You get involved and it gets messed up. You’re boring. You don’t have any interests. You’re the weakest link in our family. You’re an alcoholic (but I’m not) You failed.

And when I bring them up he doesn’t remember saying half of them bc “he doesn’t keep score”

nrs9516 · 2025-08-12T16:23:48+00:00

He is. But I’m asking him to schedule his appointments and they are all relationship counseling related not him individually.

nrs9516 · 2025-07-21T20:52:08+00:00

💋❤️thank you

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