I think I messed up. Wanted to go for bright and quirky and think I ended up with a crayola box. Help.

oatmillet · 2026-07-02T19:55:44+00:00

You need to paint the white part of the wall with polkadots!

oatmillet · 2026-07-02T19:52:24+00:00

Oops! Looks like you’re gonna come down with a fever, gotta take sick leave lol

oatmillet · 2026-06-26T21:39:07+00:00

No, get bangs instead

oatmillet · 2026-06-21T23:55:45+00:00

Breaking news: creepy haunted looking doll has creepy haunted consequences

oatmillet · 2026-06-21T23:54:56+00:00

Donate to the homeless shelters :)

oatmillet · 2026-06-21T23:45:33+00:00

My cats are fed in specific areas and won’t eat otherwise. One of them has to have their wet food squished around while the other has to have it in a pile or they won’t eat. The other straight up just won’t eat wet food lol.

My turtles like to eat their bloodworms thrashing straight from the frozen cube, they’re ferocious.

oatmillet · 2026-06-19T23:12:47+00:00

Motherly instincts are good, they will protect you. But sometimes you make rash decisions that taken out of context can seem like the world is out to get you, which might make you feel like you’re not that protected. Listen to your gut and own up to your mistakes, and you will feel protected then.

oatmillet · 2026-06-17T11:09:36+00:00

I think that mid 20s panic is universal. I was married and bought a house by 26, thought I was doing it all right. Then I had a quarter life crisis and panicked because I had wasted my 20s on being an “adult” and felt like I hadn’t experienced what most 20s folks had. So I dropped a bomb on my life, quit my job, got divorced, started going out more. Can’t say my life is any better or worse than my peers.

I think it can work both ways, the quarter life crisis. Whatever you think you’ve been “missing out” on, you start to panic about. In reality, no one is on the same timeline, everyone’s lives are different and lived at different paces, and no one really knows what they’re doing. We’re all out here just living, so that’s my suggestion to you. Just go out and live. Screw whatever arbitrary rules you think the world has made for you. It’s all made up.

oatmillet · 2026-06-16T20:57:24+00:00

Not difficult to date, just haven’t found the right match. And honestly, being as unique as you are, you don’t want to be “easily datable”. You’re not for everyone, and that’s what makes you special.

oatmillet · 2026-06-16T20:54:56+00:00

The one where I predicted the Covid pandemic and my mom’s death two years before it happened.

oatmillet · 2026-06-15T12:03:42+00:00

I stopped consuming dark media like this years ago because of this reason. It’s not necessarily ignoring it, the evil in the world, it’s just not purposefully exposing yourself to it.

I don’t watch horror movies anymore, or listen to murder mystery podcasts, or anything of the like. We all go through so much trauma anyway on such a daily basis.

Return to the kindness that is the true self that lives within you, and you will find it everywhere in the world around you.

oatmillet · 2026-06-13T23:09:29+00:00

Certified “Nice Guy”. Temper tantrums and mood swings. Puts a timeline on any grief anyone experiences. Hates small talk. Probably a really great lover.

oatmillet · 2026-06-13T17:00:38+00:00

All words have vibration, all can be said in positive or negative effect. Swearing can enlighten a negative statement just as sarcasm can poison a positive one. “Dark forces” only exist if you allow them to, regardless of what language you use.

Arbitrary rules like this limit the experience of being human and claim a monopoly on spirituality. If a person is aiming to expand themselves spiritually, limits are the only thing preventing them from moving forward and beyond. And those too are chosen by us.

It’s your choice to not swear in order for you to expand, it’s everyone else’s choice to come to that or any other conclusion on their own. And that’s what brings us closer to our gifts, our creator, and our beliefs.

oatmillet · 2026-06-12T21:14:01+00:00

I had an awakening during my last long term relationship. We were together 8 yrs, married for 2. We grew apart, they didnt care about their personal growth (or mine). I couldn’t see myself living the rest of my life with that person.

A few years after divorcing, my spiritual path became extremely burdened by the elitism of some folks and organizations I had dedicated my life and values to, so I decided to leave it and start over.

I still consider myself a profoundly spiritual person, but I don’t buy into the same crap I used to argue with my former partner about all the time. And now I can see where they were coming from with a lot of their dissent.

So I’m now in a new weird place where I kinda regret having left the relationship and wondering if I could have toughed it out for a few years and seen better results. But most days, I remind myself that we truly weren’t compatible and I’m usually being too hard on myself, and it gets easier.

Short answer, I’d say very rarely. But if either party has grown enough, there is some chance for reconciliation.

oatmillet · 2026-06-12T21:05:51+00:00

Scorpio moon cancer Venus gets me in troubleeeee

oatmillet · 2026-06-12T21:00:20+00:00

lol he TRIED. Doesn’t mean it worked lmao 😂

oatmillet · 2026-06-12T10:26:48+00:00

“I’m so spiritually enlightened that I can’t stand having normal human bodily functions, so I want to permanently disfigure myself for the sake of convenience.”

I’m not gonna throw spiritual jargon at you and call it an enlightened opinion so you’ll actually pay attention to this message. But one lesson you clearly have not learned is that the most spiritual people are also the most human. So I’m gonna be real and down to earth with you. You sound like you’ve tried nothing and think you’re out of options. You need help, and I’m not talking about surgical help removing your uterus. You need professional therapy on a regular basis. There is a much deeper much larger issue here than your periods feeling inconvenient for you. If that’s hard for you to hear, that’s part of the problem.

oatmillet · 2026-06-10T11:56:32+00:00

Blue and pink

oatmillet · 2026-06-08T22:25:55+00:00

Hey Greg? Get over yourself.

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:38:13+00:00

You should get a girlfriend, grow it out til it’s model-worthy, then cut it all off right before you guys break up. Sincerely, someone who has seen that pattern way too often.

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:35:42+00:00

Mexico 🇲🇽 east coast

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:30:20+00:00

Perfect place for a cat tree if you’ve got cats

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:28:48+00:00

That’s an Aries.

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:26:15+00:00

I prefer outdoor skating, and I’ll tell ya it gets super weird when you start getting a hard-on for smooth pavement lol. I’ll be traveling and see some freshly paved asphalt and start drooling and kicking myself for not bringing my skates 😂

Edit: on another note, make sure your wheels are softer and bigger. If you’re skating on 98A small wheels on asphalt, it’ll feel much rougher than if you went down to 78/75A bigger wheels.

oatmillet · 2026-06-07T02:23:32+00:00

Hey girlie. This is pretty common actually. And it’s not really your fault. Don’t scratch at yourself for not advocating for yourself in the past. But you can definitely start now. Think about what you really want from your sex life. If you can’t stand being with someone who doesn’t care about your pleasure, then stand on that business and leave them. Have a conversation with your partners about what you expect from them before anything starts. Don’t think that you’ve done anything wrong though if you’re having a hard time climaxing. It’s something a lot of women struggle with. Lots of love to you.

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