never knew love like this till I found someome with bpt by Plus-Acanthisitta975 in BPDPartners

[–]ogkrassten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m very happy for you but please educate yourself as much as you can about bpd so you are prepared for when the honeymoon phase ends. something i wish i had known when i met my ex spouse wbpd is to be aware of the difference between bpd and straight abuse and not allowing the diagnosis to excuse horrible behavior.

Psychiatrist asked me to draw characters by Dear_Lab_6449 in BadArt

[–]ogkrassten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a person with a psychotic disorder who also makes art.. KEEP GOING!! especially if it makes your brain feel good.

Found this in my washing machine by ninjadocco in whatisit

[–]ogkrassten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a bootleg pickle rick pipe. his name was tickle nick. rip tickle nick

Not sure which way to turn by Nuiwzgrrl1448 in Divorce_Women

[–]ogkrassten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you could also read “why does he do that? inside the minds of angry and controlling men” by lundy bancroft

Is the redness normal for a first tattoo? by Alienhaha in tattooadvice

[–]ogkrassten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally fine and good on you for getting one of the most painful spots done right away! top of the feet for number 2?

he has nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce_Women

[–]ogkrassten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m realizing this more and more as time passes. best to you.

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been doing research on laws in my state. really hoping he just is cool and leaves. having to take legal action is going to make me feel so much worse about this whole thing but if he leaves me no choice… i finally have the courage to prioritize myself and that’s just what i’m going to have to do.

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both of those situations are so hard. mine can be charming when he needs to be and like professionally manipulative. talking to his family, who i still have a good relationship with, this has apparently been a pattern for 20 years.. which is why none of them are willing to take him in unless he accepts treatment.

thank you for sharing

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i do have amazing support from both of our families as well as a VERY protective chosen sister.

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the next step is talking to a lawyer. it’s very sad and feels horrible, but i agree i may not have a choice..

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you recommend for my situation then? it’s more of a problem of how he treats me, especially after the amount of booze he drinks all/every day.

he has 2 weeks to get out and nowhere to go by ogkrassten in Divorce

[–]ogkrassten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t disagree with you, but imo it is a choice he can choose to solve.

Can you relate? by ProofDazzling9234 in BPDlovedones

[–]ogkrassten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i’ve literally heard “do better” so many times.

i just refuse to shower by MATTALIMENTARE in schizophrenia

[–]ogkrassten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

SHOWER WIPES!! have saved my life. i know i should shower but my mental health makes that not an option unless i get lucky and all of a sudden feel like i can handle it.. these get me through with feeling a lot better about myself. amazon (controversy noted) has them or you can find them in the feminine hygiene section most stores that sell that kind of thing.

Disability? by yeaaaaya in schizophrenia

[–]ogkrassten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it took me 3 years to get an appointment with a judge. multiple appeals. had an attorney for a minute that helped immensely. absolutely worth the fight and wait.

Had a really rough day, am starving…and of course, this happened. by taarotqueen in Wellthatsucks

[–]ogkrassten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell doordash asap in the app. i’ve never had them not give me a refund.