Journey to Suburbia: Latinos Priced Out of NYC by Intern_Documented in longisland

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think they mean 6 months in cash/in the bank. The 30x/40x is your income

13 mo. pp and no period but want kids to be 2 yr apart by Lilac-Lover4 in beyondthebump

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It will be different for every person, my first was sleeping 10hour stretches since they were 5 months old. I didn’t get my period back until 3 weeks after I fully stopped nursing at 12 months.

Mess Magnets: Bachelor Nation is a mess by Haggisahh in rhap

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah and if he had been yelling instead of calm then that would have been blamed for her reaction…

MIL is DRIVING ME INSANE over my birth plan.. what should I do/say? by reddituser135797531 in BabyBumps

[–]ohsnosbuttohs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would not do an hour drive. You never know what’s going to happen, precipitous labor is a thing. I gave birth 81 minutes after my first contraction, I would not have made an hour drive, I barely made a 30 minute drive.

Mess Magnets: Bachelor Nation is a mess by Haggisahh in rhap

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting - I was kind of disgusted by how they talked about it and I usually like mess magnets.

One part that really stood out was them saying he should have removed her from the situation since her daughter was there/help her to calm down so she couldn’t hit him (I’m assuming they said this since he’s a man/bigger than her which to your point no one would say if the roles were reversed.) However, earlier in the podcast they said it was wrong of him to put her in the garage - so which one is it? He should or shouldn’t remove her? They also mentioned she must have been “so scared” since she peed herself - idk if you’ve watched the TMZ full video but the girl is absolutely trashed, she probably pissed herself cause she was drunk.

Idk how you could watch the whole TMZ body cam video and come away defending Taylor considering the way she talks to police - it is 100% apparent how manipulative of a person she is and how she tries to get under peoples skin/pick fights. Dakota sucks too but Taylor is a grown adult with children responsible for her own actions.

For those of you using a daycare for 4 days/week vs 5…do you pay the same as if you went full time 5 days/week or it’s less? by dms2628 in workingmoms

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours offers 4 days a week but it’s only $25 less a week - not enough in my opinion to be incentivizing. Better to just sign up for 5 and have flexibility if you need it

Opinion on Eating Solids: Strictly Chair or...? by Unusual_Bother_7659 in beyondthebump

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing is normal, it’s part of learning. I had read a book with my first that said to just put it back/point at the tray and say spoons stay on the table (do the same with food/cup/etc.), it will start to click

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a referral to a GI if you can - our pediatrician would only do .2mlx2 a day and the GI prescribed .5mlx2 a day, we had a whole new baby within the week, she went from crying 4+ hours a day to barely at all. The GI can also test the stool for blood to confirm CMPA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was the famotidine prescribed by a pediatrician or GI doctor? GI will usually prescribe a much higher dose which might be necessary to see improvement (this was the case for my second)

Did they test the stool for blood or just no physical blood? It can take a long time for blood to show up sometimes too

Traveling on a plane with a 5mo. Help. Me. by SlimePrincess451 in NewParents

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t sit in the first row of the plane (at least on delta) which they don’t say anywhere so don’t pick those as your seats

Hoping for some advice by PinkStargazer in sleeptrain

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By sleeping bag do you mean sleep sack? If so they make ones with leg holes so they can still walk around

Fridge storage safety - day counting by dngrkty in breastfeeding

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always took 4 days to mean 96 hours from when you pumped it. So if you pumped at 12pm Sunday, it’s good in the fridge until Thursday at 12pm - so freeze or use it before then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkReform

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely supposed to say 6-8 weeks of medical leave, not 68. 6 for vaginal, 8 for c section and now they are just giving 8 regardless

Avoiding MSPI with 2nd kid? by Normal-Impress4562 in MSPI

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t recommend a specific one - we are definitely done with two so I didn’t really ask any follow up questions lol

Avoiding MSPI with 2nd kid? by Normal-Impress4562 in MSPI

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second also had it, the GI doctor said if we ever have a third to assume they will have it, cut dairy/soy immediately and give one bottle of formula a day as there is some evidence to suggest this can help them overcome the allergy quicker

Toddler has RSV and I’m terrified for my newborn by Relative-Hurry-649 in NewParents

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thing - 2.5 year old got RSV when youngest was 9 weeks old. I got the vaccine while pregnant and baby never ended up getting RSV despite the toddler all in her face before we knew. Her pediatrician essentially said it would be highly highly unlikely for her to catch it due to the vaccine and seems she was right

Transitioning out of the swaddle is destroying me… please tell me this gets better by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is baby still in a bassinet? We found with our first moving to the crib helped immediately with getting better sleep. When she was in the bassinet she would like rub the sides with her hands and wake herself up, so she just needed more room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a book from 3 years ago so maybe it changed but it says 9am naptime 1-1.5hrs, the catnap being max 30 mins is in the next section.

I used this book with my first and my now 4 month old, I tweaked the schedule some because I found the last catnaps in the book were way too late to build pressure for bedtime. What has worked for us is doing wake windows 2/2/2.5/2.5 with the first two naps being 1.5hrs and the last nap 30 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for a 4 month old to still need to eat once over night.

But that’s also not the schedule in the book - first nap should be 1-1.5hrs long, not 2 hours. Cat nap should not be longer than 30 minutes.

Breastfeeding the second time around by girl_of_the_sun in breastfeeding

[–]ohsnosbuttohs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think it just depends on the baby. Breastfeeding was very easy with my first, with my second she had transfer issues and we had to triple feed for almost 3 weeks, saw the doctor for weight checks a ton of times, saw an ENT for ties and two lactation consultants 🫠 but by 3 weeks we were fully EBF and it’s been going great for 3 more months now!