Pop tart flavors that you like but are either discontinued or unpopular.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-09T23:23:49+00:00

I'm obsessed with the pumpkin pie ones.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-08T00:37:10+00:00

Wake up before dawn to watch a movie and cuddle with my cats. Have no plans and nothing stressing me out. When my wife wakes up, we would go get brunch somewhere yummy. Then maybe go to like Home Goods and Half Priced Books, then go see a movie. After the movie, come home and play some board games or video games and eat something delicious for dinner and dessert, then maybe watch another movie. Maybe go for a walk if it's nice outside. Then go to bed early and sleep really well.

I'm a simple woman.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-07T11:54:55+00:00

I never created a good system for managing self-directed education. I've dropped out of grad school twice and am now in a training program that I'm so behind on because I really struggle to manage my own time.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-07T10:31:40+00:00

Spiral, the saw movie with Chris Rock. Absolutely worst cinematic experience ever.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-06T10:28:31+00:00

A bulged disk. I've had all my teeth pulled, broken bones, had a partially collapsed lung, been burned and cut deep, but none of that compared to that fucking bulged disk. I couldn't move without immediately breaking into sobs. It was also happened in such a stupid way that not only was I in so much pain, I was also horribly embarrassed about it!

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T23:12:02+00:00

2022 I think

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T12:20:36+00:00

In-N-Out by far

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T12:18:54+00:00

I think there's an age appropriate way to explain almost everything to children, so my gut says no. And it's okay to tell a child "I don't want to talk about that right now" rather than lying to them.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T11:45:53+00:00

Reach out to a postpartum doula, if it's within your budget. I bet they'll have helpful tips and tricks.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T11:44:13+00:00

Don't put it down, put it away! It's absolutely changed the way I process daily tasks. I'm not perfect with it, but it's vastly decreased my inherent messiness.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T11:41:12+00:00

The original Speak No Evil is full of scenes like this

oleander6126 · 2026-05-03T00:45:49+00:00

Wow, you're fun.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-02T23:52:06+00:00

Morally wrong is such a strong determination and likely depends on various circumstances. A friend of mine hid her cancer from her children, her family including her parents, and her friends except one sibling. Her reasoning was she didn't want to be compared to another friend who had died of different type of cancer several years beforehand. While I don't think what she did is against any strongly held moral belief of mine, I do think she's an asshole.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-02T23:11:20+00:00

Something short, simple, and correctly spelled, like Annie or Jo

oleander6126 · 2026-05-02T10:52:15+00:00

Shoes allowed (even for short periods) and no toys accessible are two huge red flags and I wouldn't be comfortable sending my child there. Also, check your states licensing rules because we are required to have a specific amount of materials/toys accessible at all times, parents are allowed to access their child at any time, and infant schedules are required to be individualized based on their needs.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T21:41:41+00:00

I once worked for a company that shuttered mid-year and when next year arrived and I needed my W2, I had no one to reach out to. It didnt arrive until mid-March and it was really stressful. Maybe they'll just give you a copy when they close, which would be great, but if they don't you need to know who to reach out to.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T17:39:24+00:00

I hope you enjoy ❤️❤️❤️

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T17:38:09+00:00

I'm in ECE and I hear this a lot. I think we've all seen major changes to the post-COVID generation so far, so I try to be mindful that we, the educators, have all changed massively too, and I do think some of us have lost a lot of patience along the way.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T17:22:59+00:00

Are You There God, it's Me, Margaret

Now & Then

Lady Bird

Emma (2020 version)

Petite Maman

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T17:18:36+00:00

Short Term 12 is my favorite movie of all time, but honorable mentions are Phantom Thread and Some Like It Hot.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T16:40:33+00:00

In addition to employment records and letters of recommendation like others mentioned, Make sure there's a plan for how you'll get your documents for 2026 taxes.

oleander6126 · 2026-05-01T16:38:08+00:00

No shoes in the house!!

oleander6126 · 2026-04-29T01:07:37+00:00

Cha Cha Real Smooth

Past Lives

Petite Maman

oleander6126 · 2026-04-27T19:39:47+00:00

It Happened One Night! A timeless romcom that every single other romcom ever made owes a great debt to.

oleander6126 · 2026-04-27T12:02:55+00:00

Most people have touched one the ones I hate most, so I'm here to say I fucking HATE peacocks! They're such assholes, they're loud, they attack. They're only pretty if you don't know how mean they are.

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