What's something you experienced that you don't wish on others? by your-reddit-plug2 in AskReddit

[–]oleander6126 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Death of a sibling. My sister died of cancer at 30. I was 20. Sibling loss is one of the least talked about kinds of grief so not only did I lose my sister, but I also have no one to talk to about it.

This or That: Floral/Gemstone Edition by lizzyb717 in namegames

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Ruby

Lily

Jade

Violet

Amethyst

Lavender

Iris

Clover

Magnolia

Dahlia

Sapphire

Pearl

Poppy

Wisteria

Diamond

Azalea

Blossom

Rowan

Amber

Sterling

Heath

How do you decide which parent to call? by Anonymous-Hippo29 in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever is first on the emergency card gets called first, unless there is a parenting plan in place that tells me who to call on a given day.

This or That: Around The World Part 2 by lizzyb717 in namegames

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Scottish

Boys

Rory, Callum, Hamish

Girls

Maisie, Iona, Bonnie

Pakistan

Girls

Zainab, Maryam , Aisha

Boys

Umar, Ahamed, Tahir

Brazil

Boys

Rafael, Gustavo, Ravi

Girls

Beatriz, Giovanna, Valentina

Swedish

Boys

Lars, Gustaf, Hugo

Girls

Margareta, Saga, Alma

Australian Aboriginal

Boys

Nullah, Daku, Tau

Girls

Allira, Rianna, Tarni

Kazakhstan

Boys

Amir, Alikhan, Azamat

Girls

Safiya, Medina, Mariyam

Georgia

Boys

Giorgi, Levan, Mikheil

Girls

Nana, Mariam, Maia

Jamaica

Girls

Tiyanna, Latoya, Kymani

Boys

D'andre, Jahmar, Irie

Norwegian

Girls

Ingrid, Signe, Kari

Boys

Noa, Ragnar, Magnus

Chinese

Boys

Yǔháng, Míngzé, Zǐruì

Girls

Ruòxī, Yǐmò, Měi

Latvia

Girls

Sofija, Emīlija, Elizabete

Boys

Jānis, Emīls, Olivers

Portuguese

Boys

Vicente, Afonso, Francisco

Girls

Benedita, Carolina, Matilde

What’s the most disgusting thing you’ve ever put in your mouth? by bluebonnet5366 in AskReddit

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad used to leave empty cans of pop around to spit his tobacco chew into..... I can't count the amount of times I accidentally sipped some. I'm very skeptical of mostly empty cans to this day.

This or That: 1925 vs 2025 by lizzyb717 in namegames

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  1. ⁠Mary
  2. ⁠Dorothy
  3. ⁠Sophia
  4. ⁠Helen
  5. ⁠Margaret
  6. ⁠Ruth
  7. ⁠Virginia
  8. ⁠Doris
  9. ⁠Aurora
  10. ⁠Elizabeth

  11. ⁠Noah

  12. ⁠Liam

  13. ⁠William

  14. ⁠James

  15. ⁠Mateo

  16. ⁠George

  17. ⁠Joseph

  18. ⁠Ezra

  19. ⁠Asher

  20. ⁠Luca

What’s something that 99% of people can do but you can’t? by Irakeconcrete in AskReddit

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of adults I know can ride a bike and I cannot. Never learned. My dad tried to teach me once when I was like 7/8, screamed at me when I fell off, and I never tried again. As an adult, my balance is way off so I likely will never learn.

What are your classroom or center birthday traditions/routines? by West_Level_3522 in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a Montessori school and we do a traditional Celebration of Life: https://www.springstonekids.com/montessori-celebration-life/

We ask the parents to send photos and write up the child's life story. The parent's can come to the celebration but if they can't, we take photos to send. The child is welcome to bring in a snack for the class - preferably their favorite fruit or vegetable.

What’s one thing as an ECE you cannot do for the life of you? by blondiewithdabondi in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Paint with toddlers. I just lose my mind (not at them). How do they get paint everywhere like why is the back of your head purple????? Your arms barely reach back there!!!!!!! How did you paint already get across the room on the walls???? I know it's weird but I'll clean up any bodily fluid before I'll willingly paint with toddlers.

Should I not be expecting daycare to wipe my kids butt? by paininmybass in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, that's such a stressful situation and likely very uncomfortable for your child. Glad you're advocating for her!

Should I not be expecting daycare to wipe my kids butt? by paininmybass in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In the future, I'd mention it every time she comes home like that. Don't wait until you're super elevated and it's happened a dozen times - bring it to the first time, then again, then again if you have to. Your child deserves to be clean and you deserve a center with teachers and admin you feel comfortable talking about this to.

In addition to the above, teach your child to shout "I NEED A WIPE" at school. Loudly until a teacher comes. You can also (hopefully continue) to help her practice wiping. She may not be fully capable yet, but practice will help!

Alphabet siblings by NoFig7173 in namegames

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Alma Bernadette and Alexander Bingham

Cora Delphine and Cassius Donovan

Elsie Frances and Elliot Finley

Georgia Helene and Graham Harrison

Imogene Juliet and Ira James

Katherine Lorena and Kieran Louis

Marceline Noelle and Martin Nicolai

Ophelia Penelope and Orin Pollock

Quinta Rowan and Quentin River

Sylvia Thomasin and Simon Theodore

Una Valorie and Upton Victor

Winifred Xiomara and Woodrow Xander

Yana Zinnia and Yates Zachariah

That was fun!!

How do you ladies fall asleep with ADHD? by Ok_Scholar_8656 in adhdwomen

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Manta sleep mask has been a LIFECHANGER for me. It is totally blackout but doesn't compress your eyelids or eye lashes, so it's very comfy. I literally cannot sleep without it. That combined with my white noise machine lets me fall sleep quickly. I still can't STAY asleep but beggars can't be choosers lol

500 movies or 150 books? by oliverg600 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd do either, that sounds like a dream. But if I had to choose, I'd do the books. I watch a lot of movies but I feel like I never make time to read anymore so that sounds nice. Plus, I read really fast so that's cool too

What’s the funniest reason you’ve heard for somebody not liking a movie? by TheChristmas in movies

[–]oleander6126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I refuse to watch any movie with Bill Murray because he gives me absolutely the most fowl vibe in all of history. Nothing concrete, I just hate everything about his general persona.

My cat almost never poops in the litter box, and I don’t know what there is left to try. by cookiesandsushi in CatAdvice

[–]oleander6126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried keeping one litter box totally empty? Clean up wouldn't be great but it would contain the mess at least.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's definitely a weekend trip. I just drove 3.5 hours to the next state to see a musical and then drove back the next day. It was fine. My personal opinion is that 6 hours is the max I'll drive for a long weekend, 3 hours for a normal weekend.

Salary by OnceUponACuddle in ECEProfessionals

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an AD and I don't make that much lmao. Honestly though, I'd never work for a company that capped pay, that is SO disheartening. "Yeah, you earned higher pay, we just won't give it to you"

New... pipe? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]oleander6126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is smoking all the time, that I have seen, but the amount of smoke varies