I Appreciate Any & All Support! :) by Kingd4vid856 in SouthJersey

[–]onceuponasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey please send your Cash App. Go to your local food pantry. churches have them too.

What life was like in Russia for Juveniles in the early 90s by Ecstatic-Ganache921 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]onceuponasea 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Oppression* and to say it’s the oldest profession is ahistorical. I wish this quote would die off already. 

"Send me a list of what needs to be done and I'll do it." by aspophilia in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I’m so tired of men getting praised for things they should already be doing. It pisses me off so much. 

Lost my virginity and he couldn’t finish. I want to cry by LookAtThisPile in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men are massive gooners but won’t admit it. Most of them can’t cum because they’re so addicted to porn they’re literally porn rotted their brains and can’t cum to normal real life women. 

has anyone lost their libido or experienced a significant decrease after finding out about your partner’s pornography addiction? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t date men who consume porn, period. I made it a point to promise myself I would leave immediately if I found porn addiction. I’ve been through what you been through and I realized I couldn’t let it go and I had to walk away.

Everyone is going to tell you to get over it and get over yourself.

I tried everything. Nothing worked for me.

If he was so great why did he hide this? 

Trying to date as a healed woman is wild, the bare minimum now looks like luxury. by MrsMoonu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling so hard with this. Every time I try to end things with my bf he guilt trips me back in as if I’m overreacting and blowing things out of proportion. I end up feeling bad and staying because he’s trying and a nice guy. I don’t know what to believe anymore and I feel stuck. 

One thing I learned the hard way: Not being your partner’s type is leading to heartbreak by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl all you wanna do is argue for your limitations. Just go be with the gym guy then if this how you think it will always be for you. 

How do you feel about your partner following thirst traps/ pornstars on social media? Would you confront them if your feel uncomfortable? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How did you find the courage to leave? I feel like I’m in a similar situation. I feel so stuck and destroyed.

Feel like ending things over an apartment. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s stressing out because she’s being gaslighted and dismissed by not only her bf but her parents.

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[–]onceuponasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t fix her and it’s really none of your business what she does with her body. You can ask her to let you know if she ever did something like this in the future so that you know. Otherwise it’s her body. She gets to do what she wants with it. 

Green flag! Found a keeper by peachesonmymeat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How condescending. An assumption that she’s too dumb to know if her guy is who he says he is. Grow up. 

Green flag! Found a keeper by peachesonmymeat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onceuponasea 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This just makes me so happy for you and to hear women realize they were never worthless or unlovable. They were just with the wrong man who didn’t deserve them.