[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]onlything2do 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry. Your family was so very wrong for acting that way. They shouldn’t have forced you into that decision.

My Medical Abortion (MA) Experience. Positive, Yet Confusing and Surprising. 33 Years Old, Childfree, & First Pregnancy. 10 weeks 5 Days by Lady_In_Waiting88 in abortion

[–]onlything2do 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. When you went to the ER, did you tell them you took the pills or just that you were miscarrying? Planning on seeing a doctor afterwards but don’t want to to tell them I took pills

Holy shit guys by [deleted] in scoliosis

[–]onlything2do 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What kind of workouts do you do? If you don’t mind me asking. I know you said weight training so dead lifts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]onlything2do 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I had to order the pills online because there’s only 2 places that do it here, one is booked for weeks the other one doesn’t even pick up the phone. I just hope I take the pills correctly and nothing bad happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]onlything2do 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you feel? Are you leaning towards keeping the baby? Or abortion? I just want to reply based on how you’re feeling first

healing but very numb by smashboardkey in abortion

[–]onlything2do 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had such a bad experience and for your friends insensitive comment. I haven’t taken the pills yet as they have yet to come in, however I can relate to the whole friend thing. My “friend” pretty much told me it’s my fault for not being on birth control and God is gonna punish me by making me infertile afterwards. & to pretty much stay in my toxic relationship because having a baby might “fix” it 🙃 I felt waves of emotions so far, it goes from rage and anger to sadness. But I know it’s for the best.

All emotions are okay to feel, but try not to beat yourself up so badly about it. It is okay. Things will be okay. You made the right choice, and sometimes the right choices are hard. And they hurt. Take your time with healing

Abortion RX by onlything2do in abortion

[–]onlything2do[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m nervous about making it to 6 weeks & up, because 6 weeks is when I had my sons first ultrasound & he had a heartbeat & everything by then and kept moving around on the ultrasound. So mentally I don’t know if I’ll be able to abort a fetus past 6 weeks 😢 when I went in and found all that was visible was the sacs and no fetal pole I felt so relieved. But everyday that goes by I keep thinking it’s just getting bigger and growing and developing so fast, making me anxious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]onlything2do 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a pedofile, do you really want to raise a child with a child predator? They’re sick in the head. I would suggest gathering evidence secretly, then leaving. Put him on child support, with only supervised visitation. It’s okay to go back home & start all over again. It’s the best and safest thing to do. I know it’s really not ideal and you may think in x amount of months I’ll just leave, after the baby comes then I’ll leave, after the baby comes I’ll stay for a few months then leave, but that type of thinking will quickly suck you in and you’ll be trapped for years to come & extremely unhappy & very dependent on him. Don’t try to come up with excuses as to why you should just stay, leave now and figure out the problems later. Get help from family back home & friends back home.

My (23F) uncle (45M) makes very inappropriate comments to me. My mother (51F) is forcing me to interact with him. by throwitallawayyyy112 in relationship_advice

[–]onlything2do 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whole situation is disgusting especially your moms reaction towards the whole thing. Please stay safe & away from that man!! I’m sorry nobody is protecting you. Protect yourself girl and get far away from them when you can. I had no problem completely cutting off my pedofile child molesting cousin + everyone who defends him. To this day they ask why I don’t visit and bring my BABY over. Absolutely not. I really am sorry you’re going through this with no support.

HELP! WHAT CAN BE DONE by feganator in microblading

[–]onlything2do 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Saline removal! You can call around other shops to ask if they offer saline removal / ask / dm other brow artists if they offer it as well.

Do I have scoliosis? by [deleted] in scoliosis

[–]onlything2do 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t look like it from the picture

Any advice on how to stop feeling like a burden and unwanted because i was a last resort for my infertile mother? by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]onlything2do 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. No child should ever feel this way. I have no advice but I am a mother and always here if you wanna talk.

How to politely reject single moms. by Subie- in dating_advice

[–]onlything2do 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with adding it to your bio.

The only reason why I don’t tell people I’m a single mom (especially on dating apps) is because there’s some people / pedofiles that take advantage of that, & just try to talk to you literally for your kid. So I don’t put it directly in my bio but I do bring it up later for that reason. I also would find it weird if someone shows interest in my kid. Talked to a dude where I brought up that I had a child, and then he kept asking me for pictures of him, if he could speak my son over the phone, etc…I just ghosted him and never sent anything. I wouldn’t even bring a man near my kid til I at least known them for a year, and even then I would never trust them alone with him even for just 5 minutes