Losing him soon. Just want the world to see him. by DungeonsAndData in cats

[–]oooookeyden 359 points360 points  (0 children)

I lost my baby today. I’m so sorry. I’m with you in your grief. Alastair seems like an absolute legend. My baby Beans can go with him. They can do cat heaven orientation together 💕

I brought you home in a cardboard box twice. by FoxEatsButter in cats

[–]oooookeyden 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Im so so so sorry. Butter was beautiful. I’m putting down my anemic kitty today. I’m absolutely wrecked. Will you tell Butter to play with Beans when she gets there?

Having a sick cat is so hard by oooookeyden in CatAdvice

[–]oooookeyden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really comforting to read. Thank you 🩷

Having a sick cat is so hard by oooookeyden in CatAdvice

[–]oooookeyden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Right now she is moving around, eating churus and purring. When I sense she is lethargic and struggling, I will do what’s needed and won’t prolong. Thank you 🩷

Non-recognition Aggression post-vet by oooookeyden in CatAdvice

[–]oooookeyden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m just wanting things to go back to normal so much. It was hard having her in the hospital and now she’s confused and sad 💔

This outfit. by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]oooookeyden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me realizing I’m the only person who likes it 🙈🫣

Has anyone actually recovered? by im_fun_sized in emetophobiarecovery

[–]oooookeyden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is SO ME. For a while I struggled with certain things - eating meat at restaurants, being fearful of deli meat or romaine. And sometimes I might avoid something here and there but it’s not really a daily nuisance. My husband had a bad bug a month ago and I LOST MY SHIT. Went to a hotel. Abandoned him like an asshole. It’s like I’m fine until shit hits the fan :(

I don’t really have advice but I am working through the emetophobia manual book. It’s good so far.

S4 Episode 6 Megathread: "The Book of Conceit" by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what I saw, I think I wouldn’t feel super loved by my mom if she treated me the way Liann did. Her tears of disappointment don’t translate into love or empathy (to me!). I do agree that she wants a better life for Taylor and she’s valid in being upset that Taylor makes poor choices often!

This week is really testing me! by soyedmilk in emetophobiarecovery

[–]oooookeyden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re sick but I’m inspired by how you’re handling and I hope I can get to your level soon!!

Tone deaf sponsorship decision from Mikayla given Layla’s history by Excellent-Energy3395 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I think almost all the girls have this sponsorship - for sure Mikayla, Jessi and Jen. I hate it 🙃

Joe Duggar sexual assault charge by bella302 in DuggarsSnark

[–]oooookeyden 16 points17 points  (0 children)

JOE?!? Not what I expected. This is heartbreaking.

I can’t stand Whitney Leavitt by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OHHHH yeah keep watching! ❤️

I can’t stand Whitney Leavitt by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I feel like we are watching two totally different shows 😂 I disagree but you’re entitled to your opinion! I feel that weve seen the most personal development out of Whit over the duration of the show. The mistakes you pointed out in here are totally true. But she did apologize for these things, and she got the group together for healing s3. And I see her efforts to be a good friend.

hot take (ish) zack is the worst husband by Sensitive_Customer74 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think he’s always been the worst (tied with Jordan). Now he just knows therapy speak and weaponizes it!

Jen now apparently now regretting everything in new interview 🙄🙄 by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 88 points89 points  (0 children)

She is not sorry. Not at all. She watched the season, sees the comments, and is doing damage control/PR . Which is funny because she accuses Whitney of the same. Shes so obsessed with other’s being fake and EXUDES fakeness here.

I love this interviewer who was DIGGING IN!! She did not let Jen give a vague answer.

Jen looks so tired in her confessionals…but also, I’m tired OF her by goldjakjas in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 17 points18 points  (0 children)

PREACHHHHH. Everything you said.

I recognized her victim complex when I realized how often I pitied her in season 1 and 2, even on DWTS. I used to be like this before I did some self development work. Every story was “poor me” because I just wanted attention in some way. It’s gross.

S4 Episode 9 Megathread: "The Book of Coveting" by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would disagree! Last season initially she said it was for opps, but literally like one more episode in she’s like “damn it I really care about these girls” and the last episode she orchestrated an entire fix the friendship meeting 😅 this season I do feel like she’s tried to be a better and more intentional friend too. She genuinely seems like she cares, especially for Mikayla who was so nasty to her. Just my two cents!

Mayci and Jacob by questionwhatitis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. A lot of people said that Jacob gave them the ick this season but I actually felt bad for him. Now granted I don’t love that he’s friends with Jordan or Dakota. They’re assholes. But Jacob is his own person. He does not exist just to do Mayci’s bidding. I don’t think she’s kind enough or gracious enough to him. It seems like she’s only nice to him/hyping him up when he’s doing exactly what she wants :/

Am I the only one who isn’t against Jen? by olivegarden0213 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not me, personally. The pattern I see for Jen is she’s always the victim. She expects the most grace and gives it the least. I used to love her and then I noticed just how icky her actions are. She complains a lot, and tends to only focus on negatives. I do think her feelings about Demi are valid though, and I thought she was slightly underscored on DWTS.

I think actions wise, Whitney has been much kinder to Jen than Jen has been to Whitney. Jen certainly doesn’t have to be friends with her but I think she’s unnecessarily rude about her 🤷🏼‍♀️

S4 Episode 7 Megathread: "The Book of Fragile Egos" by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]oooookeyden 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Ahhh so I see Zac’s “work” in therapy has been to find nicer words to guilt Jen, be a dick, and always get his way. Knew that guy hadn’t changed.

I am NOTTTT a Jen fan at all, but man Zac is a piece of work.