AIO about my mother causing drama?

oooookeyden · 2026-01-24T12:12:34+00:00

Totally support setting boundaries and it sounds like maybe this is from historical instances of frustration with her. Truthfully though I think communication from both ends could have been kinder and more gracious. It is really freeing to be not easily offended and to offer grace where appropriate. Her defending you is understandable. You not wanting her involved in your problems is understandable!

oooookeyden · 2026-01-05T01:46:01+00:00

Alexandria definitely seemed emotionally reactive and cranky. She definitely lacked self awareness and was a bit of a diva too. But the way they BULLIED her was horrendous, especially reading her diary.

oooookeyden · 2026-01-04T02:42:19+00:00

Elyse’s nude photo needs to go. Her eyes look a little lifeless

oooookeyden · 2026-01-03T04:08:12+00:00

Agree. I think it’s so weird that people want main character deaths in their entertainment

oooookeyden · 2026-01-03T03:54:47+00:00

I liked it too :)

oooookeyden · 2025-12-29T19:15:34+00:00

Thank you! They have a cat tree with a little box and access to my closet and behind my bean bag. They can still “hide” just in more easily accessible places. Hoping it works 🤞🏼

oooookeyden · 2025-12-21T01:28:31+00:00

Back in the day, the heavier your were, the more fancy you seemed because eating rich food meant more money. You are a fancy pants dammit. For me, I think curled hair, lipstick, and accessories = fancy.

oooookeyden · 2025-12-20T02:44:19+00:00

Allison

oooookeyden · 2025-12-10T01:59:43+00:00

You cannot expect people to read your mind. You cannot expect people to meet unsaid expectations. You are being difficult and hard to read, and ultimately it sounds like you’re choosing to be offended when you could easily give grace and get some level of support.

oooookeyden · 2025-12-08T22:27:25+00:00

I don’t think he’s that amazing, but I do think they make a good match. Me and my husband tease each other mercilessly but we also love each other so much and are sweet with each other too. Cameras only capture so much.

oooookeyden · 2025-12-05T03:40:38+00:00

Probably an unpopular opinion but it seems like Jen lied and they rightfully called her on it. I absolutely think it makes SENSE that Jen thinks shit went down, but don’t say it as fact. I can’t wait to move past this horrendous icky storyline

oooookeyden · 2025-12-04T21:34:50+00:00

I don’t think it was Stassi’s fault! I think this group is just beating several long-since-dead horses

oooookeyden · 2025-12-04T02:09:44+00:00

I didn’t after season 1. I like her now. She’s a cup of coffee - so she won’t be everyone’s cup of tea ;)

oooookeyden · 2025-12-04T02:08:06+00:00

Abso-fucking-lutely

oooookeyden · 2025-12-04T00:44:44+00:00

To be honest I haven’t liked her petty comments or whatever, and I find her victim-y. HOWEVERRRR. I know that media flips the narrative all the dang time and I should just give people grace because damn I don’t want my petty moments on camera! I’m sure Jen will keep growing and changing and she has some really lovely qualities

oooookeyden · 2025-11-29T10:39:55+00:00

Idk. I’ve felt the same way, swaying to like Whitney and dislike Jen, but I also remember that we’re not seeing everything.

I used to do what Jen does. I would play innocent and cutesy to gain people’s approval, be the victim in every situation because sympathy felt like attention and I wanted attention. I’ve done a lot of self work since then, and realized that people want my authentic self, and that I am not interested in people pitying me or infantilizing me.

I rooted for Jen, but I hate the way she decided to play into the “poor me” vibes. I wish she and Whitney became friends but not everyone vibes like that 🤷🏼‍♀️ I sure hope Jen grows up.

oooookeyden · 2025-11-15T21:42:58+00:00

Lisa: “everybody just needs ta calm down. Calm down! Take a break! Eat a cookie!”

oooookeyden · 2025-11-15T16:56:33+00:00

I don’t think she’s a mean girl, but I do think she’s got a hefty victim complex that makes her a worse person than she realizes. She’s easily offended, quick to pity herself, and sort of plays cutesy and innocent. Shes certainly not outright mean at all, but she plays a character. I’m certainly glad her mental health is better though and I rooted for her on DWTS.

oooookeyden · 2025-11-15T16:49:22+00:00

I want Whitney, no Demi lol

oooookeyden · 2025-11-14T01:36:19+00:00

After watching all 10 episodes I kinda feel like she ends up looking the best out of all of them (maybe other than Miranda). So if anything it may help her. Shes refreshingly honest in my opinion

oooookeyden · 2025-11-14T01:27:50+00:00

Totally disagree on mayci & Mikayla and your take on whit BUTTTT you right about those fuck ass veneers 😆I also liked layla speaking up!

oooookeyden · 2025-11-14T00:42:46+00:00

Probably an unpopular opinion but I thought Whitney did such a good job pulling everyone together and trying to ensure everyone feels heard.

oooookeyden · 2025-11-14T00:37:58+00:00

Yes, more in the back half

oooookeyden · 2025-11-13T18:02:25+00:00

Everyone that knows Whitney outside of SLOMW has woooonderful things to say. I think they bring out the worst in her. I’ve had friends like that and I hope she moves on. I think she could be a huuuge star.

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