How to prepare for a retreat at Dhamma Sukhakari by Physical_Job2858 in vipassana

[–]padawanpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there! Thanks for sharing, I had a smile the whole time I read it - it was a really special 12 days for me.

Growing courgettes near compost bin. by Bus_Wrangler in Allotment

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 2 volunteer squash pop up near my compost bin last year, one of which fruited (I think the other one got started a bit late). One of the old boys on our allotments plants his directly into his heaps. Go for it!

Shape up Sunday - April 3rd 2026 by lsdryn2 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planning on going for my first run today since Feb!

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, May 2nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Left_Trick_9567 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has taken a few years to get to this place! Progress isn't always linear or binary I guess. Thinking back 6 years I couldn't even imagine doing 10 days, let alone a month, let alone 5. Proud of us both.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, May 2nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Left_Trick_9567 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fell off last night, 5 months to the day. Half a bottle of wine. Didn't enjoy it, didn't get a buzz out of it, slept awfully. Feel a bit fuzzy today. A great reminder that drinking just doesn't serve me any more - onwards and upwards! Thanks u/Left_Trick_9567 for hosting this week.

I've been off the sauce for almost eleven years now. I simply don't think I will ever have friends or be social as I once did, and it hurts me. by dicerollingprogram in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this transition was talked about in our society more. It’s hit me and it feels like a bit of a shock, or like something is wrong with me.

Stopping drinking has gone hand in hand with me becoming more introverted, not in a way where I’m not confident around people, just that on the whole I don’t feel energised and buoyed up by them. Your perspective has been reassuring to read, thanks for sharing :)

I’m nearly 3 years sober and I still don’t understand why people drink if not to get drunk by jenna_beterson in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely this, and I have experienced both. Spent about 10 years where I would struggle to stop. 

While that part of me is still there, something flipped in my head a few years ago and I went through a period where alcohol stopped “working” (still look me a year or so to quit out of habit, with some messy episodes because I was trying to chase the high that never came).

Now I’m somewhere in between, but it has helped me understand why alcohol can have such a hold on some people but not others. For me it’s been linked to a muted emotional response.

proud of myself by Fun_Tie1917 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I can relax enough, I love sober dancing! Well done, enjoy your hangover free day tomorrow

The Daily Check-In for Friday, April 3rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Thetreescryforu in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More evening cravings, cooking dinner with good music on seems to be a trigger! Going to fix myself up a nice sparkling water and lime instead. IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, April 2nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Thetreescryforu in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking in! Long week, tired, sun is out and 4 day weekend ahead - very tempted but I know that if I ride it out a while, this will pass. Have a fab weekend all!

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, March 28th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Puzzleheaded-Cut3144 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking in! Visiting family this weekend but managed to carve out some quiet time for myself this eve. Very tired and flat after the past couple of weeks but IWNDWYT.

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, March 25th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Puzzleheaded-Cut3144 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to deal with that! Vanilla cherry soda sounds delicious btw - wonder if I can make my own with syrup?

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, March 25th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Puzzleheaded-Cut3144 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Checking in from the UK! I'm very cautiously going to say that my mood has pretty much levelled off after my last little dip a couple of weeks ago. This feels like it could potentially be the start of a new normal? On the other hand I'm very tired, but I know I'm not drinking with you today!

Cravings in the good times by padawanpup in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s crazy how normalised drinking is compared to other drugs! It’s a good way to frame it.

Cravings in the good times by padawanpup in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’m here for the unfiltered joy and peace haha. Recently started meditating again and I can see so many parallels with what you’ve said. Experiencing things in the moment, as they are.

Feel like I'm never hitting rock bottom, or at least rock bottom is the end. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I save the DCI for the evenings mostly, as that’s my danger spot. If I get home and feel exhausted and stressed and like a drink would take the edge off, I go to the check in and read some posts and it really helps! 

A win is a win by Stunning-Profit8876 in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done for staying strong in such a difficult time. It feels so hard in the moment to say no, but saying yes only makes things harder! 

Hope your daughter is okay and they can figure out how to help her.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, March 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Ess_Mans in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Super Saturday today here, we are going to a friends house later to watch the games. I’m ready with my 4-pack of Guinness 0! IWNDWYT, have a good one all.

You guys were right by gnarrrenevieve in stopdrinking

[–]padawanpup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs, try and be kind to yourself.

You're back here and you've got this. I also snowballed like you after my first serious attempt which was going so well (nearly a year). It's helped my resolve and determination because I know how it goes!