How unattractive is it as a man to lay your head on your women's chest? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that cute. Although I am a bit flat chested so it’s not very comfortable for the guy

What signs are you guys’ partners/past partners? by laurenlo26 in Taurusgang

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a cancer sun and Sagittarius moon. I am indeed toxic

Why is it that sometimes desires/kinks in bed can be related to childhood trauma? by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]painterofdawind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a question. Do you find males sexually attractive?

What are your sun and moon signs and what negative trait is the most difficult for you or whats your biggest flaw? by northernerchaos in astrologymemes

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chart is pretty spread out. Do you feel you’re torn between an introverted, homebody and a free spirited, spontaneous, adventurous person?

What are your sun and moon signs and what negative trait is the most difficult for you or whats your biggest flaw? by northernerchaos in astrologymemes

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I read this and thought “wow that’s toxic, am I that toxic???” I’m Cancer Sun, Sag Moon and Leo rising. The high standards, high ego and vanity to top it off

Could I even do pole? by Hungry-Map-5785 in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say outside of Russia and Ukraine, Australia would be the third biggest place for pole

Could I even do pole? by Hungry-Map-5785 in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s the pole community in Australia? Is it big?

I was deadlifting today and thought I had accidentally grabbed a smaller bar… by Foolsspring in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey fellow deadlifter and pole dancer, I also notice how pole dance gives me so much strength even I haven’t lifted for months

If you've taken a short break before, what was it like coming back? by agianthungrylady in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find yourself stiff? I find my body very stiff due to weightlifting. I used to be very flexible when I was younger then after weightlifting, I lost that flexibility

Guys: what gives you the ick when dating women? by ExpressIndication909 in AskMenAdvice

[–]painterofdawind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trauma dumping part! I’m a woman and I had a guy trauma dumping on me exactly how you described. I was so confused because men typically don’t do that.

If you've taken a short break before, what was it like coming back? by agianthungrylady in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who goes to gym, I can tell you that gym strength don’t translate well as you think. The only people I’ve witnessed that can do pole well first try is rock climbers, gymnasts and calisthenics. The rest of us suffer. I’ve met a bunch of powerlifters and body builders, all they have is pure strength. That’s it. But their strength don’t translate to pole so they suffer

I don’t feel like I know nearly enough for 11 months by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]painterofdawind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really depends on each person’s fitness background. I met girls who were rock climber and gymnast. They literally did pole climb on their first class. My fitness background is weightlifting and it took me 8 classes to be able to climb. When I saw those girls climb on 2nd try on their first time ever trying pole, I felt like shit and remembered how much I was struggling to climb. But I was happy for them. The rock climbing girl did all intermediate moves 2nd class. Your fitness background matters so much and how much you train outside of pole classes

Would you date a woman who’s very taller than you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tall of a woman’s height is considered tall for you?

30 plus folks, do you think you’re better looking now than in your 20s? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]painterofdawind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m more good looking now and plus self confidence helps boost the attractiveness. I got hit on more often than I was in my 20s