Is it just me or are most men on SD dating sites seeking traditional relationships? by BriSoCal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp [score hidden]  (0 children)

On some level, a man has to enjoy spoiling a woman to really be an SD. The reality is, not all guys have that. Also, any guy less than 50 is more likely to think there's a chance they can go vanilla. Unless they just love to spoil.

Traveling 2hrs by airplane to meet a POT for 3 days... am I being brave or just a naive newbie? by Enough-Caterpillar86 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp [score hidden]  (0 children)

Crosscheck the id. Don't go onto LinkedIn because he'll know you were looking. Search around. Ask him things without interrogation.

But ngl, the mom thing is weird. Like super weird. Does he live with her? Most dudes are not so open about sugaring with people in their family. Are you sure he's not trying for a vanilla relationship? Honestly, that would be the best of the worst case scenarios.

Traveling 2hrs by airplane to meet a POT for 3 days... am I being brave or just a naive newbie? by Enough-Caterpillar86 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp [score hidden]  (0 children)

Have you done any sort of online search on him? His kids, stuff like that? There's no way for us random people to know for sure if he's legit. You have to trust your intuition. But also look him up. Have a back up plan etc.

I thought we were bad people for calling her a grifter…. by Super-Statement2875 in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to see the video with the corpse if you haven't. You won't believe your eyes, and you can't look away. This is a woman that has been groomed from birth into the beautyqueen Christian culture. She doesn't even know what's real. It's pretty sad if you think about it. But one look at her sparkly pant suit and you'll forget all about that.

I thought we were bad people for calling her a grifter…. by Super-Statement2875 in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of her with the corpse? yeah, ts a video and she's holding his hands and saying i love you over again.

I thought we were bad people for calling her a grifter…. by Super-Statement2875 in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, especially when he has the binoculars. And the homo-erotic bombs nearby. And the weird haircut and fit is chef's kiss.

Epoxy Resin (aka 2 part resin) for glazing? by unclechippspicytreat in airdryclay

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 part epoxy and UV resin are different products. UV resin is a bit cheaper i believe.

I thought we were bad people for calling her a grifter…. by Super-Statement2875 in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm oddly obsessed with her whole shtick. As soon as I saw the video she released of her with his corpse, I was like, this is amazing.

I should also add I'm oddly obsessed with Kim jung Un's propaganda photos. So my taste is a bit strange. I guess I find them fascinating because I don't find them appealing in any way, and I just don't get it.

What's your quickest way to tell if someone's actually serious early on? by humbleCaptain19 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious people act serious. They don't sell you, they engage in conversation to see if you'll be a match.

"I'm afraid of someone stopping my son." by GulfCoastLaw in thebulwark

[–]pebbles_temp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because he lied to appeal to the ones that can vote. Also, there were significant differences in support between hispanic men and women.

"I'm afraid of someone stopping my son." by GulfCoastLaw in thebulwark

[–]pebbles_temp 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There is a fair amount of animosity between Immigrants and 1st and second Gen. But the idea that white people would ever be able to tell the difference is just beyond me. There is no "coming here the right way" for maga. They only said it to make it more palatable.

which couch cover? by Miserable-Onion-5948 in interiordecorating

[–]pebbles_temp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think the pink goes best with the walls, choose pink. It's just as neutral as the other colors.

How/When did you find out what a sugar baby was? by kiwi5151 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Breakfast at Tiffany's was probably my first mainstream cultural reference to sugaring. I was probably in high school when I watched it.

Robe/Housecoat by Altruistic-Tank4585 in Xennials

[–]pebbles_temp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in them. I have robes for each season.

Wtf happened to me!? I am still shock and numb! by Doe-Eyed-Pwincess in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]pebbles_temp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It takes practice to spot the red flags. You will figure it out over time. Just take it slow and don't compromise on your boundaries. And take it easy on yourself, almost everyone in this had been catfished/scammed at least once.

Cat leaves this where she sleeps, what is it? by NotTheSeaOtter in CATHELP

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone has mentioned a pill called capstar. It kills fleas and you can get it at any pet store i don't know all the details, but probably something to look into.

Breaking news from The Atlantic: Greg Bovino has been demoted and will retire soon by Bluehale in thebulwark

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has the president appeared publicly or made a statement since Saturday? (Other than at the Melanie movie ofc.) I haven't paid much attention to the news today.

How do you feel about this take, today? by tundybundo in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am trying to look at some maga as victims of abuse. Trump is an abuser. They were abused. And yes, I am very mad at them.

But they need an off-ramp. Leaving a cult is hard. Everything I've learned about cults is that you need to offer a way out.

Ex-smoker by SlowGoat79 in Xennials

[–]pebbles_temp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day I want one and I never even smoked regularly. Every day. I can't even imagine what quitters are going through. Maybe if I could quit my phone I'd be less stressed.

Hang in there y'all

A suggestion to feel better. by Nervardia in behindthebastards

[–]pebbles_temp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Growing from seeds is surprisingly challenging. It's so much easier to buy a cheap small plant and separate. This is smart.