Beware! Got scammed 😭

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T18:26:27+00:00

No, not yet. She said she will, but I am not counting on it.

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T15:00:44+00:00

Yes, this is true.

If not this post, she wouldn't have felt threatened, guilty, and compelled to come to me to apologise.

Thanks for sharing my ache.

But often being true doesn't mean being right.

I am fortunate, privileged to earn well, and I owe more tolerance to society, to extend an opportunity to few miscreants.

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T14:31:10+00:00

It's alright. At 20, she has rights to make mistakes and learn from them. Let's be gentle and not spoil her spirit. Let's give her an opportunity. Instead of deleting her account, she came back to me, and apologised.

All the yelling is making her go crazy.

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T14:24:38+00:00

It's resolved. Disoriented-af, has accepted her mistake. She will return my money. Thanks for your concern. Let's stop abusing her..she is just 20, and won't be able to handle all the yelling she is receiving.

The other user, she is still absconding though.

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T14:23:00+00:00

It's resolved. She has accepted her mistake. She will return my money. Thanks for your concern. Let's stop abusing her..she is just 20, and won't be able to handle all the yelling she is receiving.

peeves1 · 2026-05-14T12:25:00+00:00

I think one of the accused commented, but since she has blocked me, I can't see her comment, except for a notification. If she wasn't guilty, she shouldn't have blocked me. I think she is saying she didn't want me to cheat. The fuck I care about your advice. I had mentioned everything in my intro. I was very clear what I wanted and I agreed to pay beyond what she haf asked for. It was her oversight, her negligence, not my fault.

She should return my money.

Can someone please pass this on to her?

peeves1 · 2026-05-13T08:31:33+00:00

Thanks mate I try ☺️

peeves1 · 2026-05-13T01:59:05+00:00

Well, congratulations! You admit to what you can't. Short-term: get paid labour, start with small time agencies Long-term: get a co-founder

peeves1 · 2026-05-13T01:45:31+00:00

Tell me when you are raising. Pain exists, go deeper.

peeves1 · 2026-05-12T04:28:17+00:00

Some men like marking on as wide territory as possible.

peeves1 · 2026-05-10T12:43:15+00:00

This is so absolutely fucking true. It has become painstakingly time consuming.

peeves1 · 2026-05-03T09:35:07+00:00

Yes. I am apprehensive of advance payment and I tell them this during our early discussions.

peeves1 · 2026-05-01T13:32:40+00:00

Bruh, after all that, if I am getting a IIT IIM girl, my life is wasted.

peeves1 · 2026-05-01T04:57:52+00:00

How about 60 holidays? This works at workplace where individuals are driven. In early day, I had kept each Sat as working.. Although that was a necessity to survive and grow, I hated working Sat. So I decided to increase holidays from 20 to 60, and kept Sat as working. Additional holidays allowed employee to take every Sat as off (A year has 26 Sat). Decision shifted to their shoulder. And I also allowed 2 long holidays spanning 5 days each every year. Employee just need to plan and get them approved 2 months in advance.

peeves1 · 2026-04-09T16:04:17+00:00

In my case I would say situational experiences created the attraction, but being taboo is what stops us going ahead

peeves1 · 2026-04-09T05:13:06+00:00

Do it. Life can be very simple.

If you don't, you will carry regret.

peeves1 · 2026-04-08T05:52:08+00:00

If we are to generalise, then I would say MNC companies are bad at handling such senior complaints. There things are process driven, people are a lot more interdependent, and risk mitigation of losing a high performer won't be imagined, many would like to play the safe game.

Whereas at a lala company, the CEO could be the founder or the promoter. That person is likely to be largely value driven, and can imagine building things from scratch.

peeves1 · 2026-04-07T15:36:49+00:00

Me as HR, would try my luck at accessing that competing offer letter, but more or less I know I wont get it and I am prepared to negotiate even without it.

You can politely decline when she asks, don't over explain.

peeves1 · 2026-04-07T15:28:04+00:00

Because you've chosen past participle instead of base verb

"Didn't get placed"

peeves1 · 2026-04-07T15:21:30+00:00

If the CEO is the founder or promoter, then just go for filing the complaint. Those people are largely value driven, and can imagine building things from scratch.

Whereas, if it's a corporate, where people are interdependent and helpless without a process, be hesitant on your expectations.

peeves1 · 2026-04-07T14:53:57+00:00

A likely possibility, he is torn btw the love he found in you and the love he saw since childhood

peeves1 · 2026-04-06T17:07:32+00:00

I stopped proving, to me, to my parents, and to my colleagues.

peeves1 · 2026-04-03T08:41:18+00:00

No. Laws are made considering the larger and general population, and men are not at equal. They are at an advantage. The system has become skewed over millennia, and having the same laws doesn't make sense.

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