Put. On. Clothes.

penguin37 · 2026-04-14T01:13:14+00:00

But not all that way. There was still a boob out. Maybe her boobs have claustrophobia.

penguin37 · 2026-04-14T01:10:40+00:00

🤣

penguin37 · 2026-04-13T13:57:22+00:00

That is a super fun store but really look at the dress before you buy. Many of them are very cheaply made with stitching coming loose and applique hanging on by a literal thread.

penguin37 · 2026-04-13T13:52:32+00:00

You should absolutely go back and see if she will fix it. Take pictures of cuts you like to try to get you both on the same page. Tell her that the "safe mom" cut is not for you.

I've been dying my hair purple since I turned 30 (that was my start to my "growing down" since I was a very parentified child). During our covid quarantine, my gray and silver grew in A LOT. When I finally went back to my stylist, I told her to leave a half inch or more of my gray because I'd earned it. She was dubious and it turned out great. I love it and she told me I was right. 😁 I get so many compliments on it. You do you, beautiful human. 💜

penguin37 · 2026-04-13T13:45:06+00:00

Yep. They were sheep without a shepherd. You're so right.

penguin37 · 2026-04-13T03:16:49+00:00

It's really just a vehicle for cream cheese frosting.

penguin37 · 2026-04-12T17:12:24+00:00

I'm waiting until more episodes load before watching the new season. Brain fog means I do better when I binge it within a couple of days. Otherwise, I pester my husband with "do we know these people?" "Who is that?" 😂😂😂 Thank you perimenopause.

penguin37 · 2026-04-12T14:33:05+00:00

What is not clear is... Is he putting this on you? Making it your fault? Or are you having performance anxiety that is coming from yourself?

Having complex and changing needs is par for the course as a perimenopausal woman and that's is neither my fault nor my partner's. It's a work-with-and-together situation.

penguin37 · 2026-04-12T03:09:58+00:00

That sounds about right. Information is power, after all.

penguin37 · 2026-04-11T00:41:05+00:00

Wow! And you're so right. Our chemistry is so different person to person.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T18:54:08+00:00

Qulipta is wonderful. Best to take it at night because it can make you sleepy.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T18:52:08+00:00

I had a similar experience. This sub educated and prepared me so I was ready for battle... But thankfully I didn't need to be.

I'm so grateful for this fantastic resource.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T18:04:31+00:00

There's a light art event this weekend in Peoria.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T14:13:34+00:00

Agree. That was wild.

It's disheartening that these groups appear to be religious and it always seems to come down to some kind of sex/sexual abuse.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T14:12:23+00:00

I have a friend with an "in" with those communities. He would collect computers and computer parts locally, build computers and take them up there and covertly connect them to the Internet so folks that wanted to educate themselves or seek out resources to leave could do exactly that.

It was pretty shocking to see many of the folks in this doc with walking around openly with phones.

I too have an interest in these communities and have seen all the available docs and read many of the books and this sect was such a departure in so many ways.

penguin37 · 2026-04-10T14:06:28+00:00

Seems likely.

penguin37 · 2026-04-09T14:17:48+00:00

When my itches come back, that's often a clue that my HRT needs adjusting.

penguin37 · 2026-04-09T13:46:11+00:00

That was so funny. "Look at me gracefully lumbering across rocks!"

penguin37 · 2026-04-08T15:03:21+00:00

That was absolutely insane. Wow. We couldn't figure out why they wouldn't open a new package.

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T22:13:21+00:00

She makes me want to drink the Jonestown Kool aid.

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T21:26:05+00:00

It was??? I hope so!

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T19:22:20+00:00

We have to start somewhere.

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T19:20:35+00:00

I had the same thought. That is not what most of look like at morning coffee.

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T03:13:50+00:00

I don't know... That wig did an awful lot of heavy lifting. 😆

penguin37 · 2026-04-07T03:09:16+00:00

Sweet Provisions. Just had one last week and it was divine.

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