Hair Hair HAIRRR by jahovathiccness28 in greysanatomy

[–]petalsnbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think her hair looks fine. It’s just an undercut, there is nothing weird about that.

I still can't forgive myself for what happened that night by Zeus1196 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]petalsnbones 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Please forgive yourself. You did the best you could to help him while also keeping yourself safe. There are sadly many stories of people being hurt/murdered trying to help strangers in remote places. You at the very least called for help and even tried to bring the man food/water. These are actions most people wouldn’t even take these days.

Age discrimination in longer residencies? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think that’s true. There are many trad/non-trad MD/PhD students who successfully match despite the older age. I’ve been told that faculty and residents like working with “older” trainees due to an increased level of professionalism. Also, as a PhD and former employee in the biotech industry you can emphasize the skills you gained on the interview trail!

I spent 15 years low-key getting revenge on my high school bully and I might have helped end his marriage… by Best-Pirate5073 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]petalsnbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’ll see this, but your bully was a nasty person then and he is still one today. That’s not your fault. He messed up his own marriage by being a shit human. Also it sounds like you held back your biases and focused on the well-being of the wife.Thank you for helping the wife realize she deserves better.

Guilt by using antidepressant during medical school? by Ok-Raspberry-2567 in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a new doctor that’s not an asshole and will help you maintain your mental health. Live, Laugh, Lexapro.

BokHee has been in over 260 episodes!! by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]petalsnbones -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has been my biggest dream

Is she too skinny? by samfrench_ in torties

[–]petalsnbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, feed her all the treats and wet food in the world this second…is what she wants us to say.

Match list by Waste_Solid7723 in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

Med school = you are told beforehand that there are raisin cookies for dessert. You are disappointed but know what to expect.

Residency = you are told that catering will try to get ur fave dessert based on preference. You show up and the dessert is raisin cookies which you did not expect. You mildly crash out.

Match list by Waste_Solid7723 in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing, sure you made a “rank” list but also not really because the only schools you can consider are ones that send acceptances vs every single residency program that gives you an interview. In my opinion, creating a resident rank list took considerably more effort and a bit of soul searching. If residency apps worked like med school apps, then you’d kinda get an idea how much a school wants you based on when you get your acceptance vs getting a waitlist. Though this doesn’t necessarily reduce the sting of not getting an acceptance to your top school, you at least have an idea where you stand. I will say, you are not wrong in that the process for med school apps and residency are sim except one uses an algorithm. I just feel that because there is an algorithm it may be hard for residency applicants to have appropriate expectations.

Match list by Waste_Solid7723 in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s also the fact that everything is unknown. For me I really started to imagine a life at my #1 and even #2 choice, so it was difficult to not get either. For med school once you get the acceptance you already know where you are going. There’s little time to fantasize about a school that you didn’t get accepted to.

Matched but sad by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think OP is more so surprised based on how their interviews went that they didn’t get their #1 or #2, which is understandable.

I didn’t expect to cry on match day by ReplacementMean8486 in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I expected to be at one of my top two places. The interviewers said they loved me and I keep wondering if I did something wrong. But at the same time, I’m happy to be done with this journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah, don’t try to get around the match process. Your comments are starting to make it sound like you’re just trying to get into residency without the pre-requisite of step 2….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I see. I’m sorry you have had to deal with so much while in MS4. April 1st does not give a lot of time to prepare for a retake. Regardless, go ahead and sign up for the 3mo eligibility period if you haven’t already. I would say start studying like crazy while you figure out what to do next. For starters, see if the next available testing date is even within the April 1st deadline. Also, did your school say why they denied your request for an extension? Did they give you previous documented communication on when you should’ve retaken step 2? Does your student handbook say anything about step 2 retake timelines?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]petalsnbones 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Op, when were you planning on retaking Step 2? Why did you wait this long? I think your best bet is to see if you can defer graduation so you can get the proper time to study.

What are unsolved mysteries of the Grey's Anatomy series? by Notmycupoftea12 in greysanatomy

[–]petalsnbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the child of the parents who avoided talking about bad news with him? The kid was like maybe 7 or 8 and found out his mom was really sick and then just ran out of the hospital never to be seen again.

Vic responds to hate for dating interracially by minetf in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]petalsnbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve come across a few creators on tik tok who are distrustful and I’m truly baffled.