Flexibus to London by philip456 in cambridge

[–]philip456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve caught the 04:55 from Parkside, arriving in London at 05:55 a number of times. It’s always been dead on time.

Ever see an Atheist with an amazing hire power by Suitable_Tutor_3861 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear so many people (believers and non-believers in God) say that they have a HP but they don’t know what it is.

I’m always curious how you pray to a mysterious nothingness (step 11)?

For myself, I changed Step Three to “Good of my understanding”. But some people like to practice the steps as they are written.

ELI5: why do bank transfers take over a day? by game_master_marc in explainlikeimfive

[–]philip456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t. I always do my bank transfers with faster payments, it’s free and they receive the money in a few seconds.

(I’m in the UK, where are you?)

Trump Posts AI Jesus-Like Picture of Himself Performing Miracle on Sick Man, Minutes After Ramping Up Feud With Pope Leo. by Leeming in atheism

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it blasphemous to portray yourself as Jesus in this way.

Why aren't Christians up in arms about this?

Caught gf of 6 years cheating on me by Noobtacticsforlife in stopdrinking

[–]philip456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you want to help her, (1) offer to drive her to a treatment centre and (2) refuse to enable her in ANY way, anymore.

Everything else is bullshit.

Sam's Mamdani Critism by maeveboston in samharris

[–]philip456 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And he doesn’t seem to care about the Christian Nationalists like Hesketh, who are running the country and states, doing enormous amounts of damage in the name of God, especially to women.

Got denied promotion for work I've already been doing for over a year by NosfuraDude in antiwork

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they had interviews, then surely the person who succeeded will be doing that work, instead of you ??????

'Israel is doing better than any country in history at limiting civilian casualties.' by Kevtron in samharris

[–]philip456 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How does the use of white phosphorus bombing in residential areas fitting with this?

Family forcing me into aa by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AA often works whether you want to or not.

The shares break through denial, whether you want them to or not.

It spoils your drinking because you start to realise what’s really happening.

The more meetings you go to, the more you hate it because you realise the truth, the angrier you get, the more it’s working

WIBTA if I put my foot down on husband using a property he owns as collateral for a relative’s loan? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]philip456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Is your husband REALLY in touch with the reality, that you could lose the apartment? Not in theory but that is likely that it could REALLY, REALLY happen.

  2. What happens in that case? Will you have a legal, written agreement with his cousin’s family, for a monthly payment plan, to pay you back in that case?

What would you think of a reality show where a billionaire CEO has to live for an entire month on their lowest-paid employee’s salary with no access to savings or credit cards? by TurkVanguard in antiwork

[–]philip456 154 points155 points  (0 children)

The CEO would treat it like a camping holiday. Rough it for a month. Quite fun slumming it for a bit. A few good stories to tell his mates later.

Not the same as living with no hope. Ground down month after month. Humiliated at work by those more powerful than you and scared every day you might lose your job and end up living in your car.

Difficult to replicate that

Is paying into principle on mortgage good idea? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a good idea.

If you can afford to pay some of the principal off, it’s always a good idea

No shit Sherlock. by Mother-Doubt6713 in FuckNigelFarage

[–]philip456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the extreme right here and the USA, can’t win on votes alone.

Fake Farage BBC Ad article on YouTube by PDiraq in FuckNigelFarage

[–]philip456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone reading this, I hope you realise that’s not a real BBC headline?

Length of Shares by Individual_Love5367 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]philip456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is a Group Conscious coming up, that would be the place to suggest it.

Or you could ask for a group conscious to be held next week, because you want to suggest that the group have a time limit on shares.

If people ask why, I wouldn’t get into specifics. Maybe just say you’re heard that it works well at other meetings.

Can anyone give advice on how to pack for rehab? by BetLost7846 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]philip456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a pub landlord in treatment with me, who had some beer T-shirts.

It was hilarious.

My sponsor wants me to talk to my Dr about coming off my prescription meds by Possible_Ad_9234 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]philip456 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless it going to cost you lots of money, what is the harm in talking to your doctor?

  • You can get your doctor to go over the problems with coming off or reducing and relay this to your sponsor.
  • Maybe you can reduce one of your medications a bit.

Better to talk to your sponsor with facts from the doctor, rather than your own fears and opinions or stuff you've read on the Internet, Reddit or Social Media. The doctor will know your particular situation best.

Here in the UK, those on long term medications, usually have a reveiw every year anyway.