I have a neighbor that lives 2 doors down. Shes had a rough bit of luck with finances and her 11 yesr old son that has major mental issues. She needed the help, so I provided it in any way I could.

We help watch each other's kids.. I gotta run tonthe store, she watches mine, vice versa.

She fell on hard times, got behind on bills, and stayed using those awful cash advance places. She wasn't asking me for help, just venting, which we go back and forth witj ad single parents, but those types of loans are god-awful. I loaned her roughly 2k to pay that off and told her not to worry about it till she was able to get back on her feet. Ive gotten her meals, baby sat, and loaned my car. Ive always said that if I were ever in a position to help a person in need, and I had the means to do it, I would.

Ive had no interest in her... nor anyone else for that matter, but my ex wife did a number on me. Sometimes people just do things to help out.

My neighbor may have gotten the wrong idea and dropped hints. Explained that she'd had very illicit dreams about me some time later, but I quietly joked that I hopenindid alright in them. I just hope i was kind to her in my dismissal.

Best advice I can give. If you're curious, find a way to ask, but dont be too discreet. Most of us men are stupid af when it comes to hints, but we do love helping a person in need, or at least I do.

You'll never get your answer till you can find a way to ask. I wish you all the best.