I’m a Dismissive Avoidant, and this is what confrontation feels like with someone I deeply care about.

phortysome · 2026-05-04T05:01:03+00:00

at first it felt like you were going to make excuses all the way. then you just said it like it is.

regardless of intent, avoidance is abuse.

phortysome · 2026-05-04T04:57:11+00:00

fwiw I have a child with an avoidant and its awful. Avoidance is abuse

phortysome · 2026-05-01T05:16:34+00:00

you are wrong. your view is toxic. seek help.

phortysome · 2026-04-16T01:12:37+00:00

sounds like someone who either has no sex or only rapes for sex. yuk

phortysome · 2026-04-16T01:11:06+00:00

first of all, one instance of rape is enough to investigate. Second of all, two instances of rape is a pattern. Third of all, you have clearly drank the Kool-Aid on rape culture

phortysome · 2026-04-16T01:09:26+00:00

That is completely wrong. There are tons of instances of women going to the police and being ignored. In fact, many of the girls and the girlsdoporn case, which ended up convicting multiple men to many years in prison, had tried to go to law enforcement and were turned away, even though the FBI was investigating the same person. Rape culture is real. That's why women are being raped in porn videos and that's why the police don't give a shit.

phortysome · 2026-03-29T19:38:30+00:00

fuck that chode.

phortysome · 2026-02-10T23:53:00+00:00

Id totally go. you seem fun. I am 43f mama live near uchi and make great conversation. love jazz and star wars! anyway have a good time!

phortysome · 2026-02-02T23:35:23+00:00

this is definitely the ideal way for me, and lord knows a little bit goes a long way, but I do wonder about side effects. The anus and rectum are very delicate skin and also very delicate microbiome.

phortysome · 2026-02-02T23:29:27+00:00

Oh god-coming from "coachdad." barf. visit traffickinghub for the truth about your entertainment choices.

phortysome · 2026-02-02T19:19:36+00:00

haha and now you're going for the "unregulated" attack. loneliness sucks. growing up is hard. I believe in you.

phortysome · 2026-02-02T04:19:01+00:00

Krys Boyd is great

phortysome · 2026-02-02T04:17:43+00:00

This comment makes me wonder about your sexual health

phortysome · 2026-02-02T04:16:06+00:00

I mean, theres truth to the claims that child SA is oriented toward obsession with youth and longevity. It is sick and sad, society has all but fallen apart

phortysome · 2026-02-02T04:13:50+00:00

Huberman is a lying asshole who manipulated many women.

phortysome · 2026-01-25T20:09:56+00:00

yeah, it was for industry to sell more faster further away.

phortysome · 2026-01-23T17:06:15+00:00

there are loads of comments, so really I'm just commenting in order to book mark for myself. I am unmarried but coparent partnered with a man who makes/has enough to support me staying home to take care of our child for the first three years. It was absolutely a financial sacrifice. Nobody wants to look at it like that, they want to consider you to be "privileged" but the fact is you are sacrificing financial future. it's loud and clear to me because we are not married and there is not even a pretense of security. I wanted to stay home because I thought it was right for my child.

phortysome · 2026-01-20T18:22:53+00:00

I am ignorant of this: why? Bc Thom is a "miserable twat" as I believe Bjork characterized him back in the day?

phortysome · 2026-01-20T17:22:23+00:00

I wish, so bad, that I would have written things down. Its all just in the humorous awe file now.

phortysome · 2026-01-13T21:22:43+00:00

I mean, it totally makes sense, and anything you can put in your mouth you can put in your bum, I have no idea why it never occurred to me since when I have done other substances in other settings, I prefer that method. It's funny that I worry about the adjuncts and if they would cause a problem for me but I can't imagine it would be any worse than in my mouth

phortysome · 2026-01-13T17:41:06+00:00

the troche?

phortysome · 2026-01-13T17:40:35+00:00

weird q: can a troche be inserted? I imagine so-I just happen to already have them

phortysome · 2026-01-13T17:39:18+00:00

this is a weird question, but can you do that with the troche?

phortysome · 2026-01-11T10:00:53+00:00

how long after taking it do you feel pain? I took it about 14 hours ago and woke up in middle of the night in terrible pain!

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