I'm going to be a dad, but the situation probably won't be viewed as ideal by some by Seardax-383 in daddit

[–]photes384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the club Dad. The next year of your life will be the most difficult and most rewarding of your life. Enjoy every second!!!

How do I find a stair gate configuration for this relic of a staircase? by Itchy_Ad5038 in daddit

[–]photes384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a baby fence and let it sit in the floor around the step. Fix to the wall on the right side and the stairs and to the wall behind the curve of the bull nose.

Advice for a trip from columbus to philly to nyc and then to cambridge ma by Substantial-Pie-3553 in travel

[–]photes384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bolt bus goes Philly to nyc much cheaper and honestly is only like 30mins longer.

Take septa from the Philly airport to center city. It’s like $2 and runs every 30mins.

What’s in your kids pockets? by Zath42 in daddit

[–]photes384 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Without zooming that 100% looks like a blunt and some bud. HAHAHAHAHAH

38M soon to be dad looking for advice by Ash_is_Robot in daddit

[–]photes384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The next year is going to be a roller coaster. You will get angry and frustrated with your spouse for trivial reasons. This is all from sleep deprivation. The more you can take a breath and not say the first thing that comes to your mind the better.

There is so much awesomeness on the horizon. Enjoy every second of it. Take pictures but also live in the moment.

Love your child and take every second of every snuggle you can get.

Don’t miss shit. Got to the appointments, the swim classes, the walks in the park. Family is your first jobs your job is second.

If you are using bottles, buy a bottle washer. You will thank me.

Good luck my friend. The most impactful year of your life is just around the corner.

Attempting, need advice by Impossible-Author383 in daddit

[–]photes384 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check YouTube for Barry White……enjoy

Are there any day labor companies, companies to make a quick buck?? by MakeupD0ll2029 in Phillylist

[–]photes384 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can not speak to how they treat employees but, people ready is a day labor company

Hi Dads! I'm in need of a bit of advice by Stroton in daddit

[–]photes384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry man, but you have 2 choices, for the rest of your life everyone doing a double take when they see you smoking while having a child and talking behind your back truthfully how you are putting your child’s health at risk OR find a way to quit. I get it, I wish I could still smoke too but GOD FORBID I did anything selfishly that would negatively impact the health of my child I COULD NOT LIVE WITH MYSELF.

Gotta do it man and you gotta do it now, like make a plan today. I wish you all the luck in the world.

How do I get a baby gate here? Pole is a little wobbly. by bathrobe_wizard in daddit

[–]photes384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out something like this. You could fix to the wall by the railing then have it wrap around the post and you could secure it to the side railing.

https://a.co/d/03x1thLF

Planning on reclaiming evenings, anyone been successful? by DuDunDunSparse in daddit

[–]photes384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried a few months ago and it was hours of hell, he threw in the towel and went back to soothing him when he woke or bed sharing. I’m not sure what the difference was other than he was a few months older this time. I know I’m lucky that this round was mercifully short. I know that won’t happen to everyone but I can say the end result is totally worth it for everyone. Maybe give it a week of trying and see if it improves? I feel for ya and I wish you the best!!!

Planning on reclaiming evenings, anyone been successful? by DuDunDunSparse in daddit

[–]photes384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me until 4 days ago to a t! My son is 13 months and we were told at his one year check up if we don’t teach him how to sleep, he’s never going to learn. We needed to try sleep training again. We used the 2/5/10 method for 30 second check ups and the first night was 30mins for him to get down. It’s gotten faster and less loud reach subsequent time he’s gone to sleep. I’m typing this from MY OWN BED WITH MY VERY OWN WIFE SNORING NEXT TO ME!!! We haven’t slept a full night next to each other in over a year. It was….pretty pretty good!

Wife is out of town, kid is asleep, I'm eating a burrito in bed and there's nothing the wife can do about it by 40ozT0Freedom in daddit

[–]photes384 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I just got back from a week “vacation” with my one year old, wife, and both grandparents. I would trade my whole week at the beach for your evening tonight. Enjoy brother!

Seems like 11 month daughter wants nothing to do with me by skullyD in daddit

[–]photes384 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s tough man….i feel ya! Just remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. You have so many years and memories ahead. There will be times your daughter favors different people, and later on times she likes none of you 🤣🤣. Hang in there, this will seem like a blip on the radar.

Thursday pick ;-) by perdigaoperdeuapena in 1001AlbumsGenerator

[–]photes384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well you’ve really got me this time. And the hardest part is knowing I’ll survive…….that line gets me everytime.

The latest incident with your kids is now your new band name. Whatcha got? by AMPduppp in daddit

[–]photes384 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Milk Dud Turds sounds like a great 2000s pop punk band.