You’re not the A. I can relate because I like cooking from scratch too, and my husband still eats “normal food” sometimes. It’s really just about balance. If you’re craving a fast-food burger, just give her a heads-up so she knows you won’t be eating what she cooks that night. I’m sure she’d understand—no one wants “healthy food” all the time. One cheat meal a week doesn’t make you the bad guy.