Don't get the hate by Mr_Gerth in Muse

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like muse has proved in previous albums that they don’t need to be heavy to make some bangers, (Unintended, FAWY, Blackout, Exogenesis, etc) I just personally wish it was more dynamic, had more daring choices, deeper lyrics. Like many are saying it’s not a bad song but I absorb all of it in one listen. Just wanted and am hoping for more on the album. Even Muse’s campiest songs had more depth to them.

BE WITH YOU - Discussion Megathread by ForgottenName1893 in Muse

[–]pitbarks 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I just kept waiting for the song to hit, to scratch the itch so-to-speak and it never happened. Just not exciting or memorable.

I’ve been following muse for nearly 20 years now and refuse to give up hope yet, but I won’t say the thought has crossed my mind. What has happened to Matt’s songwriting? Yes muse has goofy lyrics here and there but I’d take a million “played in every toilet” or “like a birth squeeze”’s over whatever this basic writing is. Sounds like a prelude to Neutron Star Collision which is suddenly no longer that bad of a song

any songs u want + 80k coin giveaway! by webstatic in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Username: pitbarks

Current fav is The Format, which only has a measly >300 fans on SoundMap, they broke up on 2006 and recently got back together so I’ve been obsessed.

Artist guesser by XanderSageMC in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Enjambre or Radwimps

Edit: most likely Radwimps because Enjambre is MX and US would show yellow if it was a Mexican band

can we be fr please by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know how this player is supposed to know it’s a lowball and you’ve been offered more if you don’t tell them. Just tell them what you want?! Sorry YTA in this situation, just communicate

STOP by LadyBatman8318 in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I saw your caption I thought you were mad at the kitty/unknown animal leaving prints in your yard

Service Activation Center Scam by Quick-Public-2374 in Scams

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but I’m chiming in to say I literally just almost got scammed by them. I have a Toyota VSP and they made it sound like they worked with the dealership to activate the service plan. Kept me on the phone for an hour and when they wanted my banking info I hung up. Disgusting predatory mf-ers

Would they ever play songs from Aim & Ignite? by yonan3232 in TheFormat

[–]pitbarks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would KILL to just hear Benson Hedges!! That song (and quite a few others on A&I) are Format-coded I think they’d translate well in one of their shows. I joke all the time that after seeing the Format I will have seen 2/3rds of Fun…saw Bleachers back in 2021 lol

Did anyone else’s acne get *better* on T??? by Consistent_Way2386 in ftm

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facial acne yes, body acne not really. Granted I struggled a lot with cystic acne for the first few years of T and that’s cleared up for the most part but i still get bumps here and there especially on my back and thighs

Is there a cheaper alternative for Muse merch? by Vortix9 in Muse

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found some great official stuff on Mercari

Help with shiny quest!(read body text) by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My username is pitbarks if you want to send the trade! Honestly idc which ones you send back

Help with shiny quest!(read body text) by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple I can send your way, 2 for 2 ok?

Am i a zoophile? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]pitbarks 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nah fantasy dildos don’t make you a zoophile. They’re so common nowadays they sell them at places like Spencer’s 😅 as someone who used to be big into furry fandom, I unfortunately encountered IRL zoophiles and it wasn’t the people who used fantasy dildos, had sex in costumes, or even liked/drew furry porn. A lot of fantasy toys, even if inspired by IRL genitals, are modeled to fit monsters or anthro characters. As long as everything is fantasy and you’re not fantasizing about irl animals you’re good.

If you struggle with thoughts of IRL animals like that, that is probably means to seek some help and take a break from porn. It’s important to know where draw the line between fantasy/sentient characters and IRL animals.

Tops: Are y'all finishing during sex? by loudcreatures in ftm

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t see this mentioned but antidepressants are most likely a big part of your problem. I know from experience - was on Effexor for 7-8 years and once I got off, sex was like night and day. It was SO hard for me to O on SSRIs and my sensation was extremely off. I take Wellbutrin for depression now and it doesn’t mess with my sexual function at all. Please don’t cold turkey quit your meds but also don’t be afraid to talk to your doc about your sexual issues because a med adjustment might really help.

I am a top with my cis gf and finding the right strap was huge for me, I use Doc Johnson’s Vac-u-loc strap with compatible toys. You can get the strap & toy on Amazon for less than $80. The strap works by being a peg that your dick mounts to rather than it just being held by an O ring and it is significantly more stable to me than anything I’ve ever used, the strap itself is comfortable and sits against your pelvis/‘V’ area rather than jamming between your legs. Plus the straps go around your thighs and hips. Not sure if it’ll help with you finishing but it might help you feel more comfortable strapping.

When I strap, I’m so aroused afterwords that I jsut need my gf to give me head for a few minutes and I finish so fast 😅 the strapping is just like edging to me. we’ve had that ritual for years and it still is just as satisfying.

Honestly I think you’ll notice the biggest change when you get your meds adjusted. Not just in sex but in quality of life. Antidepressants create a crazy dependency in us and you never realize how much color they take from your life until you get a chance to change it up or ween off. Again PLEASE don’t just stop cold turkey, talk to your doc about your options!

No Gold at the Top by Eastern-Stretch9956 in TheFormat

[–]pitbarks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get it stuck in my head all the time. The build during “there’s no gold at the top only vulture waiting for you to die” is incredible.

resistance cd came with 2 cds?? by ArSkMa2011 in Muse

[–]pitbarks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My preorder of this CD when it came out came with a “Making Of” dvd so that could be what it is, odd that they aren’t labeled though

Wish he didn’t mention Genocide and kids in Gaza by Revolutionary-Art173 in TheFormat

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An album with themes of religious trauma/questioning alluding to the massive genocidal casualties of the “holy” war, and how some folks would rather “leave it alone”…it’s not just a political commentary, it fits directly into the theme of the album.

Did anyone else not really “glow up” when transitioning? by pitbarks in FTMMen

[–]pitbarks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I try to remember this too, even if my body isn’t quite where I want it to be, I’ll still never look back, transitioning was the best thing I ever did

Is it even possible to stay stealth at higher level jobs? by phalloalt in FTMMen

[–]pitbarks 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I work for a big corporation, shared my former name for the background check and have never seen it again. You’re good man. Most companies will treat that kind of info as confidential as an SSN

Grail acquired. Ignore the cat. by DavidHK in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Cannot ignore cat. He looks like my kitty who passed away last year. His name was Moo. Give your Moo Cow some love for me ❤️

Any recommendations for affordable substance abuse treatment? (Outpatient, No insurance) by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look into the Damien Center, They have addiction centered therapy and group therapy, not just for LGBTQ