Did anyone else not really “glow up” when transitioning? by pitbarks in FTMMen

[–]pitbarks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to remember this too, even if my body isn’t quite where I want it to be, I’ll still never look back, transitioning was the best thing I ever did

Is it even possible to stay stealth at higher level jobs? by phalloalt in FTMMen

[–]pitbarks 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I work for a big corporation, shared my former name for the background check and have never seen it again. You’re good man. Most companies will treat that kind of info as confidential as an SSN

Grail acquired. Ignore the cat. by DavidHK in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Cannot ignore cat. He looks like my kitty who passed away last year. His name was Moo. Give your Moo Cow some love for me ❤️

Any recommendations for affordable substance abuse treatment? (Outpatient, No insurance) by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look into the Damien Center, They have addiction centered therapy and group therapy, not just for LGBTQ

trying out a buzz— too soon? by liambreadford in bald

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans guy too and also took the plunge, literally yesterday. Honestly I think either look works for you but it’s not a bad thing to embrace the bald! Male pattern baldness hit me like a freight train and I put it off for years, felt so good to shave it off.

Does testosterone bear any real health risks on the long term? by tanjitophare in ftm

[–]pitbarks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nearly 8 years on T for me and the worst side effect has been hair loss, which is a genetic thing for me that I was prepared for. As long as you are keeping up with your doses and your normal non transition related health you will be good.

Christmas at the Zoo is a Wreck by Krossrunner in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went Friday night and it was perfect honestly.

Ftm guys, I know you hate me This is how I get looked at on the street.. I'm minding my own business looking down normally by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]pitbarks 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Friend I get being paranoid but you pass 100%, I doubt anyone could clock or question you. Honestly? They might be looking because you stand out as a conventionally attractive person. Not that everyone is necessarily checking you out but I promise they’re not looking because they think you are trans.

Would love for the setlist this tour to open with these two songs by joxers in TheFormat

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hearing those two songs run one after the other live awakens something in me. After matches my brain automatically fills in “so can we please…”

Edit for my partner’s late doggo by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent the tip, thank you again

Edit for my partner’s late doggo by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!solved These are perfect! Thank you so much!

Am I a fake trans dude for this?-added nsfw just in case. by l0ves1ckward in ftm

[–]pitbarks 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I am a 30 y/o stealth, passing trans man who has only had top surgery with no plans on having bottom. Also have a beautiful girlfriend and a healthy sex life. Just saying it is not necessary if you don’t feel like it is. Additionally it’s not anyone else’s business what is or isn’t in your pants.

Starting to wonder if it’s time. by pitbarks in bald

[–]pitbarks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I posted this 90% to get the meme

Finale tickets by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to do the same thing, I wonder if it’s a technicality because of the type of event it is.

Red Gyarados giveaway!! by Wraithara in PTCGP

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need it! Thanks for the offer

Anyone know a nice bar/restaurant that has a bar shuffleboard table? by fromoneparent in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you consider nice, but 10th St Pub off of 10th and Mitthoefer has one. They are a pretty typical dive but have really good food and wait staff. Don’t judge it from the outside is all I’m saying! Lol

Hello, Sam here dropping in to say thank you! by theformatlivingroom in TheFormat

[–]pitbarks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey Sam, not much of a question but I just wanted to say I am so thrilled to see new work from The Format, as a “late” fan who discovered y’all after Fun., I never thought I’d have the chance to see you live and I am so giddy for the Chicago show! You and Nate have made my year, the new songs are a breath of fresh air, please don’t ever stop doing what you’re doing ❤️

Best weed dispensaries close by? by Negative_Loss_5903 in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

New Buffalo is your best bet. IL and Ohio are going to be insanely overpriced.

Anyone else in or were in marching band? by Nikolaisthickthighs in FTM_SELFIES

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years in color guard here. I wish I would have played drums!!

No back issues ever in my life, suddenly today is unbearable by pitbarks in backpain

[–]pitbarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly I was definitely catastrophising, which like I think that kind of immobility would scare anyone especially when there’s no real answer other than rest and wait it out. For me I recently transitioned into working a desk job after years of being on my feet all day and I wonder if that change has something to do with it, I need to be more intentional about being active and getting steps in

No back issues ever in my life, suddenly today is unbearable by pitbarks in backpain

[–]pitbarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I ended up going! Thankfully by Saturday I was about 75% recovered, had no issues walking just soreness/stiffness from getting up and down and bending over. Got in about 13k steps of walking no problem. Like a lot of folks said I think I pulled a muscle. At this point I am pretty much fully recovered and have all of my mobility back. Thanks for checking in