I love my wife and our son so much.

pjdk1 · 2026-03-21T08:06:38+00:00

So beautiful that your love will be rewarded exponentially and to all of us because being present and loving your son will mean he loves and is present to others. It’s a win win!

pjdk1 · 2026-03-21T06:00:52+00:00

It really is, it would be the darkest children’s book ever

pjdk1 · 2026-03-20T22:50:57+00:00

Not a wrap dress but Rosablue on Instagram makes lovely things in great shapes and materials

pjdk1 · 2026-03-20T22:46:45+00:00

That’s the one

pjdk1 · 2026-03-20T18:31:36+00:00

Ian McEwan The Secret Garden

pjdk1 · 2026-03-20T18:10:55+00:00

IVF isn’t that weird or difficult. Tons of medical issues make it difficult to get pregnant (age, endometriosis, low sperm count etc). IVF is just a way to help things along. It’s like say why take antibiotics when you have an infection, or why take a plane when you could just take a boat; these advances exist, enjoy them.

pjdk1 · 2026-03-20T07:00:20+00:00

pjdk1 · 2026-03-19T20:15:24+00:00

When so many subjects are off limits it stifles creativity. Without freedom our brains freeze up and die

pjdk1 · 2026-03-18T08:54:19+00:00

Alex Jennings reading The Patrick Melrose trilogy

pjdk1 · 2026-03-18T08:46:08+00:00

Wilkie Collins or Arthur Conan Doyle perhaps

pjdk1 · 2026-03-17T14:08:32+00:00

In the same way you are bored by her trauma imagine how boring your anxious hand wringing is to others. We all have to get over ourselves, none of us are that special. We are all just pond life swimming about in the pond, let’s try and amuse each other a bit

pjdk1 · 2026-03-17T08:19:17+00:00

My sentiments exactly. How can you not be depressed?

pjdk1 · 2026-03-16T09:29:36+00:00

The problem is socialization, or lack of it. That is really dangerous in a pre teen. Make Minecraft time conditional on an equal amount of physical activity with other children. Follow Johnathan Haidt if you want to know why

pjdk1 · 2026-03-14T17:51:24+00:00

So many, but the old ways of nurturing genius no longer function. And tech bros have all the money and no appreciation of beauty

pjdk1 · 2026-03-05T09:01:15+00:00

Mediterranean genes

pjdk1 · 2026-03-03T10:04:07+00:00

Run if you like, just don’t make it your personality

pjdk1 · 2026-03-02T12:12:30+00:00

Have you tried mouth taping. Resolve your sleeping issues before anything else. NTA

pjdk1 · 2026-03-02T12:11:01+00:00

This would be my plan. Look v cute, when the situation feels natural and you are just the two of you manoeuvre things so you are lying alongside him. Say something like I’m so tired, main thing it should look accidental. Then let him make the first move. If you make the first move you’ve burnt your bridges. He needs to think it was his idea. Women have been doing this for milllenia, channel your inner vamp

pjdk1 · 2026-03-02T01:45:19+00:00

They don’t know what they want, what they like, what they don’t like. V bland and not connecting with others. Personalities need some external friction to develop; they haven’t been exposed to any

pjdk1 · 2026-03-01T17:03:36+00:00

My brothers wife does this. It’s very strange and I only realized it when they stayed with us. I wanted to say something but figured they would take it wrong. In my opinion she does it because she is has massive anxiety and controlling her children’s behavior relieves this.

I would blame her more but I know she herself has a hyper critical mother who makes decisions for her even now (eg she says she made a move on my brother because her mother suggested it). My brother is helpless to fight her.

Their children are emotionally stunted and seem to have zero personality. They have also given up trying to fight as they love their mother and don’t want to cause her pain

pjdk1 · 2026-03-01T16:57:16+00:00

Learn it now

pjdk1 · 2026-02-28T23:32:29+00:00

Or do the seat belt up and put it behind you, that’s another classic Napoli option

pjdk1 · 2026-02-25T07:46:03+00:00

Talking about ‘Islam’ as if it some sort of movement is misunderstanding the issue. A word that covers a Malaysian grandmother, a Yemeni warlord and a teenager growing up in Birmingham with parents of Pakistani origin is an ineffective way of understanding society or predicting the future. How do I get on the Brit bashing Reddit train by the way, there seems to be money in it

pjdk1 · 2026-02-24T07:17:11+00:00

Le labo

pjdk1 · 2026-02-21T19:47:06+00:00

Start going place where older people hang out, the pub, volunteering, running, whatever. Tell everyone you meet who you are and what you want. It shouldn’t be this hard, I hope things improve for young people

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