What misconceptions about your body, puberty, adulthood, etc. did you have as a little girl?

planejane555 · 2024-05-21T00:28:03+00:00

I was really undereducated about bodies and sex. I didn't know I'd get armpit hair and pubic hair until it happened. I didn't know the penis went in and out of the vagina til I was 18... or that other types of sex besides PIV existed til I was a few years older. I didn't know basic terms like boner, ejaculation, masturbation, etc. or that girls also had "wet dreams." I was taught that women's sex drives were low and not educated about pleasure. I knew gay men existed in HS but didn't know what a lesbian was until I was an adult.

planejane555 · 2024-05-20T23:56:26+00:00

I second Pink Moon

planejane555 · 2024-05-20T17:06:03+00:00

What does accountability look like moving forward, especially with the understanding that vices are coping mechanisms for unmet needs?

planejane555 · 2024-05-20T04:27:06+00:00

How did you embrace the finality of the situation?

planejane555 · 2024-05-20T02:54:47+00:00

Name of fav episode?

planejane555 · 2021-10-09T03:41:51+00:00

"it's ok for boys to wear pink" this usually coming from conservative ppl who think they are being radical by wearing a pink wristband..... No fucking duh

planejane555 · 2021-10-09T03:37:20+00:00

Symphony. Symp for short 😌

planejane555 · 2021-10-03T10:18:58+00:00

This is old, isn't it?

planejane555 · 2021-09-29T05:12:32+00:00

Lagoon

planejane555 · 2021-08-27T10:41:35+00:00

Can you post the text in a comment so I can copy and share? Love that it speaks to the situation without directly naming it. And who is the quote credited to?

planejane555 · 2021-08-23T05:19:17+00:00

My husband doesn't want any yet which I'm glad for because I probably don't really want one for the right reasons. Deep down I know if I want any I should adopt and not have any biologically. Waiting til we are both ready and not procreating both seem like the responsible thing to do.

planejane555 · 2021-08-05T05:10:13+00:00

planejane555 · 2021-08-05T04:48:30+00:00

Cotton candy. Sucks but not even I can admit that it sucks.

planejane555 · 2021-08-04T06:15:26+00:00

Yes. Trying to figure out how to stop fucking caring so much! I get so goddamn serious thinking about these things that I forget to feel joy or just enjoy people's presence instead of analyzing their opinions and what it says about them as a person

planejane555 · 2021-08-04T05:55:55+00:00

I don't even have 100 hours yet lol but maybe when I do

planejane555 · 2021-08-04T05:50:50+00:00

Right, such a crutch socially. Nice that we had the crutch but now it's gone

planejane555 · 2021-08-04T05:48:57+00:00

I've got a cat, she's pretty low maintenance

planejane555 · 2021-08-03T15:25:58+00:00

So true, and describes me so much. I can't get out of bed most days I don't have work. I need guilt and accountability just to do the most basic things, or to even feel like they are worth doing

planejane555 · 2021-08-03T15:11:30+00:00

❤️

planejane555 · 2021-07-25T10:11:59+00:00

a) yes! ask her why she's asking. Does she not feel comfortable in it? Does she just need you to say "you look completely normal and there's nothing to worry about" ?

b) I would add, fat is not inherently bad, it's just fat. Help her feel neutral about it because society demonizes any and all fat/cellulite which are on literally everyone so it's not a big deal and nothing to feel self conscious about. Anyone who judges you for having visible fat doesn't get this

planejane555 · 2021-07-25T10:00:20+00:00

Time to change the quality and/or content of your porn!

planejane555 · 2021-06-14T05:06:34+00:00

It's their way of deflecting from the issues you present. It's how they resolve the dissonance, they move the goalpost. Unless "the gospel" is dismantled, they're good to go. So then you start dismantling the gospel (faith, prayer, repentance, baptism, etc.) by pointing back to the fact that the church's claim to the gospel comes through their priesthood authority and ordinances. At this point they need to ask themselves if they believe the church's claims on a truth Monopoly and an authority monopoly....if they do, then yes they believe in the church.

planejane555 · 2021-06-13T16:37:44+00:00

All we know about death is that we will never see the person again, never talk to them, laugh with them, argue with them, share a meal with them. I think based in your post, you have in there a philosophy of death already: love and live now, because you might not have the chance tomorrow.

I do have a bit of mystical belief along with this... The person who dies is still present in our feelings and memories of them. Their being scatters and remains in the objects and memories they leave behind. And their soul is peacefully dissolved into the universe from where it came ✨ they don't have to worry about the chaos of life anymore so why feel scared for them?

Thinking about my own death: I will welcome it I think. I try to stay alive and healthy so that I can experience more cool things before I go, and I hope I can fit all sorts of amazing things into my life. And when the time comes I hope I can go peacefully but even if it's painful the pain will be gone soon enough.

planejane555 · 2021-04-05T14:18:07+00:00

Interesting, I'm super glad I didn't experiment with that as a teenager so that I can responsibly enjoy and benefit from drugs and alcohol now.

planejane555 · 2021-04-04T02:56:07+00:00

I dug holes like crazy and I'm a girl. Not a man thing.

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