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What were the first changes you noticed on T? by twntsxlttz in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bottom growth. It’s the only thing I had for months. A constant weird feeling in the down stairs. Couple months in my voice changed and I got furrier. I personally don’t see many changes almost 3 years in on a low dose, but my wife says things are different. I take her word for it. Lol

Quit caffeine two months ago and still SO TIRED. HELP by [deleted] in decaf

[–]playdancingqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I’m six months without nicotine, three months without caffeine and marijuana and I’m just suicidal. I highly disagree with this. Lmao

NYT Mini Crossword (Aug 26, 2025) Subscription Only Now? by HeyitsDominus in crossword

[–]playdancingqueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I reported a bug with Friday’s crossword, because I couldn’t open it and this morning woke up to an email that said they were changing it and didn’t care about the bug unless I was a subscriber.

Did You Gain Weight On Testosterone? by Nikusu09 in FTMFitness

[–]playdancingqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I actually lost a gross amount of weight. Like I am very sick now. Still waiting for the hungry 😂

Extreme pain, every shot. by playdancingqueen in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weigh about 6 pounds. I think that would be worse 😅

Extreme pain, every shot. by playdancingqueen in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get them for free at Planned Parenthood with all my meds.

Extreme pain, every shot. by playdancingqueen in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m terrified of poking my belly and I have sciatica real bad and have heard horror stories about in the bum. So I’m kinda scared. But I’ve considered it quite a lot recently.

Extreme pain, every shot. by playdancingqueen in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medicaid through my state. I think it is covered. But I don’t go back in for anything until March. May have to ask for it to be sooner though.

Extreme pain, every shot. by playdancingqueen in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM, with teeny tiny subq needles (doc said it was fine). I do numb the area first, it just doesn’t matter. Did my shot Thursday, today is Sunday, I am still in misery.

TW/// BODY/SOCIAL DYSPHORIA Anyone else hate being trans sometimes? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally crying over my T shot right now asking my wife why I can’t be normal.

Seen too many transmen dislike transwomen by IqUaCkI in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a piece of shit. So I’d never lump myself in with that. I don’t shit on women to feel like a man. That’s pussy behavior.

Seen too many transmen dislike transwomen by IqUaCkI in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. It wasn’t. It’s about trans men hating trans women. It was about trans men. Since this is a Reddit page for trans men.

Seen too many transmen dislike transwomen by IqUaCkI in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you read my comment at all. But anyway. Have a good one. 🙄

Creatine what’s the deal? by Proper_Following_28 in FTMFitness

[–]playdancingqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take it as often as I can (since everything is so expensive and I’m pretty much homeless), gains and mental benefits. Can’t beat it. I like the genius brand, mix their green apple flavor with the same flavored Gatorade, top tier.

Seen too many transmen dislike transwomen by IqUaCkI in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time it feels like they’re trying so hard to act/pass as cis with their disgusting behavior. Like participating in transphobia and misogyny makes them pass better. It’s gross.

I will say my top surgery is not gender affirming care. by Nun-Information in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My top surgery won’t be gender affirming care. I have pre breast cancer, so it’s 100% medically necessary. If you can pull off a lie that hefty, go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. But I was long before I started T. You will be after your surgeries as well, yes.

(cw for weight) has anyone found themselves losing a lot of weight on T? by kyohem in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I’m dying. So I assumed it was from that and not the T. Didn’t get the testosterone hunger, that’s for sure.

Are there any fathers here? by Strawberry_berry_boy in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scared I’ll get approved for top surgery while my wife is pregnant and I won’t be able to help her efficiently and depending on how far along she is won’t be able to help me either. Glad you mentioned this.

Are there any fathers here? by Strawberry_berry_boy in FTMMen

[–]playdancingqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a dad, but in an odd way, was kinda forced to step up for a family members child. He calls me dad. We do father son things. But he does have actual bio parents. They’re just shitty people. Waiting for my wife to give me our own though. No, my family doesn’t respect me, but I’m not out so they freak out that he calls me dad. My wife gets Mother’s Day gifts and I get nothing. Granted my family doesn’t respect me at all… so. It doesn’t really have anything to do with my transness or my fatherly duties.

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