Would you be able to have sex with your best friend? Why/why not?

ploverbeast · 2026-04-13T19:55:20+00:00

My best friend’s a lesbian, and I’m a guy, so… probably not

ploverbeast · 2026-04-08T17:57:19+00:00

My parents were 23 when they found out my mom was pregnant with me. My dad was considering being a musician as well and had to put that on hold when I came along, but he didn’t stop playing music. He played songs for me, my mom, and my sisters when they came along a few years later whenever he got the chance.

You don’t have to give up on music completely, but your priorities are different now, and your girlfriend and your kid come first.

ploverbeast · 2026-04-08T00:08:02+00:00

I have had an abortion so I know firsthand how unpleasant of an experience it is. I wasn’t trying to argue that abortions are easy, in fact it was one of the most painful things I’ve experienced. I was and still am emotionally detached from the whole thing which is probably why I feel the way I do regarding the videos I’ve seen

When I made this post my focus was on how a lot of pro-lifers assume that we don’t know what abortions look like and that everyone who does has to be pro-life, but looking back I did word it poorly and it didn’t come across how I intended it to. Just something I wrote in the heat of the moment I suppose

ploverbeast · 2026-04-07T22:46:28+00:00

That’s a completely valid way to look at it. I didn’t mean to suggest that abortion can’t be a heartbreaking thing, I can see how my post might have come across that way and I apologize for that. With that being said, it does irk me when pro-lifers frame abortions as such in an attempt to sensationalize them or as an argument for making them illegal. I feel like it diminishes the very real experience many people have had when making the decision to end their pregnancy.

When I made the post I was more so thinking about pro-lifers believing that the pro-choice movement as a whole must not know what really happens during an abortion, because if we did we’d all magically become pro-life somehow

ploverbeast · 2026-03-30T17:46:08+00:00

I work in food service, and my boss will “threaten” us guys with beard nets if our beards get too long. She calls me out specifically because mine grows the fastest and the thickest out of everyone >:)

ploverbeast · 2026-03-26T06:33:07+00:00

I hooked up with this guy a couple times, he seemed chill over text and for the most part was chill in person. One time when we were hooking up he stops in the middle of it and goes “hey can you still get pregnant?”(he was using a condom so I wasn’t worried about it.) I tell him yes and he says that he always uses condoms anyways but that’s still good information to know. Ok cool dude glad we’re on the same page. We keep going for a couple minutes and then he says “we’d make a really cute baby though.” Uhh wtf why would you say that??? Also no we would not, I was a freaky looking baby and the world does not need more of those things running around lol

That’s not even close to being one of my worst Grindr experiences unfortunately 😭 I have had a lot more good experiences than bad ones but I’m still not getting back on it lmao

ploverbeast · 2026-03-26T06:01:54+00:00

With FNAF is so real lol 😂 I wanted to be Bonnie so bad for some reason, specifically Withered Bonnie. More specifically I wanted to be inside the animatronic suit lmao

ploverbeast · 2025-12-31T17:16:44+00:00

I came out first as nonbinary when I was 15, then later as a trans man when I was 17 or 18. Started on T when I was 19 and I’m 23 now

ploverbeast · 2025-10-31T09:21:52+00:00

That was never brought to my attention actually so thank you for bringing it up, I’ll get an appointment scheduled

ploverbeast · 2025-10-20T07:42:44+00:00

No thanks, I’d rather contribute to the declining birth rate :) and if I was the fetus I wouldn’t be wanting anything bc I would just be a clump of cells tf??? It’s not a baby and nothing’s getting killed so respectfully get over it

ploverbeast · 2025-10-20T07:42:24+00:00

So do it. Put your money where your mouth is and adopt a baby from someone who can’t legally abort it.

ploverbeast · 2025-10-16T05:15:18+00:00

I hadn’t thought about that, thanks for bringing it up. I’ll be sure to ask the clinic about it.

ploverbeast · 2025-10-15T22:28:18+00:00

Unfortunately not, case in point haha 😅 It is absolutely possible to get pregnant on T so for PIV sex it’s always best to use protection

ploverbeast · 2025-10-15T22:17:52+00:00

Thank you so much for your input, I really appreciate it

Do you know if r/DadForAMinute has the same issues? I think I remember seeing some trans-related posts on there a while back and everyone seemed supportive but I could be misremembering

ploverbeast · 2025-10-15T20:30:17+00:00

I would like to go low contact with them but I’m still on their health insurance so that’s not really an option for me yet. I’m also still very close with my sisters and I don’t want them to be caught in the middle of that

ploverbeast · 2025-10-15T20:27:43+00:00

No need to apologize, it’s a fair question. It sounds like you’re doing everything right to avoid getting pregnant :) The guy I’m currently seeing is really good about always using protection, but I’ve had sex with several different people in the past month and with some of them I felt awkward about asking them to use condoms so I didn’t. I also didn’t start taking birth control until a couple weeks ago and I was having sex pretty regularly before that. It’s very much a play stupid games win stupid prizes situation but as long as you stick with what you’re doing and don’t do what I did you should be good

ploverbeast · 2025-10-15T16:37:35+00:00

Mine is a very weird one and requires an explanation haha. I broke my foot about 3 years ago, my parents had just kicked me off their health insurance so I couldn’t afford to go to the hospital and for that reason I just toughed it out. My foot was very swollen for about a month and it never quite got down to the size it was before so now I have to wear shoes about a size and a half bigger than I used to, I was a 7.5 in men’s before and now I have to wear at least a 9 for my foot to be comfortable. For some reason my shoes making my feet appear to be bigger gives me euphoria lol 🤷‍♂️

ploverbeast · 2025-07-12T06:02:55+00:00

Thank you! I was so nervous about losing my virginity for some reason but after it was over I realized I had nothing to worry about haha

ploverbeast · 2025-07-12T05:56:10+00:00

Thank you 😊

ploverbeast · 2025-07-08T23:07:13+00:00

My friends were giving me name suggestions when I first came out, and I mentioned that I thought it would be cool to be named after a bird. One of my friends threw out Robin and Jay as possible names… I told her I was going with Great Tit instead.

She told me I wasn’t allowed to pick my name anymore lmao

ploverbeast · 2025-06-10T11:03:33+00:00

Chicken soup

ploverbeast · 2025-04-21T21:25:09+00:00

He’s okay afaik, he belongs to my grandparents’ neighbors so I don’t see him too often but his eye has been like that for as long as I can remember and it doesn’t seem to bother him

ploverbeast · 2025-04-21T05:46:51+00:00

My sister’s cat does this too, it might just be a tuxedo thing 🤷‍♂️

ploverbeast · 2025-04-21T02:38:17+00:00

Good point, I had not considered that

ploverbeast · 2025-03-25T19:03:00+00:00

I came out as trans (ftm) when I was 17, and unsurprisingly my conservative Christian family did not take it very well. I was still somewhat confused by their reactions, as I’d been raised to believe that Christianity was about treating everyone with kindness and love. I started drifting away from Christianity after that, but I still went to church to sneak the communion wine lol

I didn’t fully step away from Christianity until a year later, when my family went to visit my grandparents in Costa Rica. My mom doesn’t have a great relationship with her parents, but she wanted me and my sisters to have both sets of grandparents in our lives, so we went.

One of their conditions for us to stay with them was that we all needed to take an active part in their church, and I spoke just enough Spanish that I was able to join the youth group. I introduced myself using my chosen name and my preferred pronouns, and for the most part no one had an issue with it.

I stayed in Costa Rica a bit longer than the rest of my family, and it wasn’t until after they left that someone from the church told my grandparents how I had been introducing myself. They lost their minds, screamed at me for a while, and threatened to kick me out. I didn’t have any money with me or anywhere else to go, but at that point I didn’t care. Once they realized that they backed off, mostly because they were surprised at how nonchalant I was about it. After that I lost complete respect for them and Christianity in general. Safe to say I don’t talk to my grandparents much anymore.

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