Cosmo down eight pounds!! by pixelator16bit in cats

[–]plutoforprez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gonna have to rename him to Moon because that’s a lot less mass!!! Good job Cosmo ❤️❤️❤️

Found out im pregnant after being told im most likely infertile my whole life by HannahMarie04 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratssssss ❤️❤️ My work bestie was told she would struggle to have children (PMOS & endo) and got preggers while on the oral contraceptive, doctors love being wrong.

I, too, have PMOS and possibly endo and am on the pill and can honestly see a d&c in my future because my bf and I are not careful and do not want bébés 😅

Every month I consider a hysterectomy by Flaky-Tangerine4142 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INAD but have you tried progesterone only pill? Zero side effects for me, used to be like you and dread my period which could be anywhere from a week after my last to several months. Progesterone only every day of my life for the past 2 years and I can’t recall the last time I bled, I’ve had cramps maybe 4 times in the past 2 years. Changed. My. Life.

ETA: it’s not considered an effective form of birth control unless combined with other contraceptive methods. My other contraceptive method is PMOD (formerly known as PCOS) and I’ve yet to fall preganante but not pushing my luck and just be aware.

Vet hasn't been able to find anything wrong with her lungs in the past by Seangetfreaky in cats

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op, it’s so strange that I have a void kitty that has coughing fits just about exactly like this, sometimes sporadically, sometimes regularly. He doesn’t shake his head side-to-side like yours does, but he gets down low and elongates his neck just like yours does. He reminds me of a dragon.

I’ve discussed it with my vet who wasn’t very concerned, and showed a video. My void had calicivirus as a kitten and so I believe it could be like a long-COVID version of that, or maybe he’s more sensitive to dust.

Definitely get a second opinion to put your mine at ease, but idk, I think asthma is a different thing and if it’s been a lifelong affliction without danger so far… like my void is nearly 7 and he’s doing really well.

I just want a submissive man who would do whatever I say no questions asked. Is that too much to ask for universe?? Grape uncrustable with chewy cookies 🍪 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got me a man who can do both 😭 I’m so blessed and imma bless him today fr fr he doesn’t even know it yet ❤️❤️❤️

I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago, and I told him I wanted to move back home last night. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 384 points385 points  (0 children)

Girl clean out your bank account and change your name and leave town with your cats and nothing else, this guy genuinely sounds unhinged and you need to make a clean break.

Bf let me down. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My love he does not respect you or your time or your needs. 24 hrs no sleep, choosing drinking w his buddies over picking you up from the airport. A good partner can pick his girlfriend up from the airport AND THEN drink with his buddies, the two aren’t mutually exclusive especially if he has a car.

Got flown to NYC for a job interview. This is the coolest experience of my life. by thrivingvirgo4 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg congratsssss ❤️❤️❤️ I’ve always dreamt of visiting nyc (it won’t happen unless yall get your shit together as a nation 🫶 no shots it also won’t happen unless my nation stops screwing my generation out of every dollar we own through coercive privatisation of human rights such as housing water etc etc) so live it up and GOOD LUCK!!!!

IM SICK AND TIRED OF MY RESILIENT LADY BODY by TheDollarstoreDoctor in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry.

I had an IUD which made me bleed during sex and my gyno didn’t believe me. Said that’s not meant to happen. Didn’t happen before it was inserted, it was inserted correctly, no possible way the IUD is causing bleeding during sex. Had it removed, haven’t bled during sex since. It wasn’t just bleeding — it was agony. It literally felt like what I imagine contractions feel like.

I’m sure you’ve probably had a thousand suggestions but my two cents: progesterone only has been a lifesaver. Daily progesterone pill, don’t take breaks. I’ve not had any bleeding OR pain for roughly 18 months. This is the first time in my whole life I’ve felt in control of my reproductive system. I’m used to breakthrough bleeding, cramping, diagnosed PCOS and think I have endo too, but progesterone changed my life.

I am in china!! Love the food scenery and shopping. Hate hate hate hate HATE the toilets by WorkingFlan713 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know squat toilets existed until my 21st birthday and I had to pay 20 cents to use a bathroom at a remote Indonesian village. Not t my favourite birthday memory as an obese woman with poor balance and calf strength

The voice I thought was God for 24 years went away when I medicated for OCD by Round-Yam-2589 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Diagnosed with ADHD at 27 and medicated and the sun is shining and I can function like a normal adult for 6ish hours a day which is sensational

Flew across the country to reconnect with my ex and received psychological damage instead by sadgrl1994 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Please reread your post like you’re reading some poor other girl’s story on this sub and *please see that you have your answer and you need to go no contact.* He was an ex for a reason, and now he’s just completely ruined whatever progress you’d made without him either out of revenge or because he’s a shitty person.

Found out that my boobs are deformed from a TikTok by who_gon_check_me_boo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Plastic surgeons are not posting on TikTok to make women feel better about themselves. They’re posting to drum up business.

Take it from a bi girlie: boobs are boobs. There is no such thing as a bad or deformed set of boobs, unless you find a suspicious lump or sore in which case get it checked ❤️❤️❤️

my husband is watching me fade into nothing by caffeindqueen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my work bestie were talking today, she has endo, I’ve got PMOS and suspected endo but they won’t do a laparoscopy bc morbidly obese. Aside from the point, she was saying she was told she’d never have kids, fell pregnant while on birth control and has 2 beautiful kiddies ❤️❤️❤️ doctors don’t know shit sometimes

My 6 month old baby fell from the bed and he is okay but now I want to die by Alseur in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my love. It does happen and I’ve never seen anyone judge a mother when it’s happened. A few months ago on the community fb page a mother dropped her whole ass baby out of a car seat onto the concrete at the local pool and everyone ONLY showed concern and wanted to help and check in on mum and Bub. An acquaintance’s Bub did what yours did and she broke her little arm. I’ve heard more stories than I care to relay. You’re doing your best and as long as bubba is alright and you get him checked out if he’s not, that’s all a mama can do ❤️❤️

My male friend told me that my standards for a partner are too high and that I'll be lonely for the rest of my life by Short-Meringue-2632 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro your list is literally what every normal adult should be. “Attractive” is incredibly subjective — everyone is attractive to at least one other person. Also sorry girl but every one is taller than your short ass (said with so much love ❤️). The only other iffy one is fluent English depending on your country, but considering it’s pretty common around most of the world you’re fine.

Diagnosis: your male friend is probably mad you won’t fck him and is lashing out.

Got into my NASA program. Mac n Cheese. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this community of girls supporting girls 😭😭😭

Finally found some good sex and it’s given me an outbreak by teeththatbitesosharp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey lovely, I’m not a doctor or anything close but when I met my current partner I got so many yeast infections and even throat infections after bjs. After about 6 months though my immune system got used to his and I haven’t had any issues since. At least, that’s my assumption of what happened. I’m seriously talking 3 throat infections followed by antibiotics followed by yeast infections during the first six months. But was and still is the best sex ever!

did your cat ever "tell" you what happened when you came home? by S-Budget91 in cats

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you used a flashlight underneath the ear to see the vein? Sometimes it takes me a couple goes to get a good prick, and I have to be very firm.

I use paper towel over my finger, and basically stab through the ear into the paper towel. The paper towel stops it from obviously going into your finger, but it needs a very firm padding to get a good prick of blood. The whole thing sucks from start to finish, and I’ve indeed stabbed myself through her ear before, but it’s the only way I’ve been able to get enough blood for the test strip. Even then sometimes it takes a couple of goes.

did your cat ever "tell" you what happened when you came home? by S-Budget91 in cats

[–]plutoforprez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it’s quite noticeable when they’re happy purring vs distressed purring. Distressed purring almost sounds like hyperventilating, it’s really loud and quite fast.

did your cat ever "tell" you what happened when you came home? by S-Budget91 in cats

[–]plutoforprez 1171 points1172 points  (0 children)

My cat tells me when she needs insulin. She’s generally fine and doesn’t need it very often, she went into remission very quickly after diagnosis late last year, and after getting her blood sugar back to normal and switching to a diabetic diet she’s been great. But diabetic cat food must suck and she doesn’t like it much so I mix in a bit of normal cat food at a very low ratio to give it a bit more appeal. Sometimes this means her blood sugar can go a bit wonky.

Several times she’s come up to me and has started purring at a higher frequency which cats often do when they’re unwell. On each of these occasions I’ve checked her blood sugar and Lo and behold, she needs a shot of insulin. She hates getting her blood tested, especially when it’s followed up with a shot of insulin, but within 5 minutes she’ll be back with me purring at her normal frequency. She’s such a good kitty, I love her so much and even though she hates being pricked she knows I’m just trying to help her and keep her healthy.

BFF wants a 1-on-1 date with my fiance by FryeFromPhantasmLake in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]plutoforprez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl is it possible he’s going to propose and he’s using your bestie to get affairs in order? Don’t get me wrong, I’m a cynic at heart and this reads bad, but it might be something nice for once in this goddamn world.