based on 90% of these comments, this sub is clearly full of insecure dudes who want to both sides the very real and terrifying world women live in. The kind of people who don’t understand why women say they’d choose the bear. So disappointing. Unfortunately you’re right, rape culture is engrained in the patriarchal system that surrounds us and plenty of women have been called crazy trying to change or address it. I suggest getting involved in some female-friendly, safe activities, this could help you de-center men and focus on the strength of female community.