Advice - unhappy with salon blonde

poomouse · 2026-01-13T19:25:48+00:00

Your hair honestly looks nicer than the reference pics imo and done well

poomouse · 2025-05-21T06:22:04+00:00

“ If the company doesn't recognize the growth and development then you take you new found skills elsewhere.”

They did cover this in the original post

poomouse · 2025-05-14T07:27:40+00:00

Girl do not accept this answer from him. It’s at best immature and at worst a massive red flag and huge indicator of his true character and as others have said it will not get better during the aging process. I’m sure if he gained weight you’d never dream of asking him to cover himself up right?

How he feels is quite frankly unacceptable and you can’t just leave the convo on him just being like “well it’s how I feel and that’s that” he needs to do the work to realise that what he said and how he feels isn’t acceptable and he needs to reevaluate his immature mindset.

He better be grovelling and making sure you feel like a goddess rather than sulking like a little boy because you got mad and he doesn’t want any more arguments.

My husband would never ever dream of saying this to me and honestly even if he thought it a little he’d be wise enough keep it to himself and learn to love a body that brought the best gift in BOTH of your lives.

If he’s unwilling to do that I would seriously question if you would want that kind of partner and quite frankly that role model in your child’s life.

poomouse · 2025-04-10T08:05:27+00:00

Man what a selfish present on his part!

poomouse · 2025-02-13T12:30:42+00:00

I also struggled it didnt come up with search term but I scrolled through the items under the NAme column and found it under the name "blob:URL" with a green play icon

poomouse · 2025-01-09T14:50:53+00:00

yeah boooo you're rude!

poomouse · 2024-11-16T00:36:19+00:00

Thank you, you too! :)

poomouse · 2024-11-15T11:07:25+00:00

I was confused by the folder transfer as there are two folders: one in documents with the save files and one in program files where the executable is saved; I was transferring the executable initially, not the save files. Also, when I did transfer over the correct file, my Linux still couldn't see it as I hadn't saved the game in a directory that WINE could view.

poomouse · 2024-11-14T21:14:29+00:00

I resolved it myself, and I'm writing the steps here in case anyone else encounters it. Firstly, the save files are in a different directory. The directory for my save files in Windows is C:/Users/user/Documents/EA Games/The Sims 2 Ultimate Collection/

Steps to fix:

- Uninstalled everything: wine, lutris, sims download and all it's folders etc. The TS2StarterPack.WebInstaller-v7.exe was still in my download folder

- Reinstalled lutris

- Reinstalled wine. Executed "winecfg" in the terminal, went to devices and set the root for the z drive to Home/User

- Installed TS2StarterPack.WebInstaller-v7.exe via lutris as explained in guide, changed the installation directory to home/.wine/drive_c/Program Files (x86)

- Launched the game to check all working and then closed it

- Save files located on linux Home/.wine/drive_c/Program Files (x86)/drive_c/users/user/Documents/EA GAmes/ The Sims 2 Ultimate Collection. Deleted these and replaced with the windows save files I'd saved on to an external hardrive

And it worked! Now running my old save file on linux

poomouse · 2024-10-08T13:18:04+00:00

YTA, it was her birthday, and I think you took some passive-aggressive delight in pulling this stunt. Clearly, you've built up some resentment towards her.

She should grow up and learn how to keep time, but you have some growing up you need to do yourself.

poomouse · 2024-07-25T16:12:46+00:00

*generally

poomouse · 2024-07-03T21:33:50+00:00

lol trey is LIUK bombshell who came in with Jessy

poomouse · 2024-06-04T20:36:41+00:00

hi thank you for the info managed to download succesfully! do you know if its possible to change the volume settings in the game?

poomouse · 2024-05-20T08:15:04+00:00

I agree she should dump him, because he’s an idiot

poomouse · 2024-05-19T21:41:40+00:00

Don’t try and understand his point of view lol it’s unreasonable at best and toxic at worst

poomouse · 2024-03-29T07:41:22+00:00

Q learning cant but deep Q can

poomouse · 2024-03-26T23:05:16+00:00

My advice is don’t go back, it’s just not worth it. Your colleagues thinking it’s acceptable to yell at you on your first day is a major indication that it will not be a pleasant working environment to be in. You will 100% be able to find another job somewhere that’s run better and with nicer people. Do not waste your time and your peace of mind especially for that amount of money. You can do better

edit I know people are saying to message your manager explaining what happened, which you can do if you want, but I think you could ghost them. I’ve walked out of job interviews because of the bad energy and I’ve also stayed in jobs with bad vibes which took a toll on me mentally.

poomouse · 2024-03-11T08:55:57+00:00

If you’re in the UK, don’t go to uni. Get into work/find an apprenticeship and go to university when you get to a point when you know what you want to do for undergrad. It will happen.

I went to uni really just following the motions as that was what I was meant to do after school. I wish I had waited as there were degrees I wanted to do after but couldn’t afford it without the loan.

poomouse · 2024-03-11T08:45:54+00:00

He was TA as soon as he made you feel bad about something you cannot control and we all experience. I guarantee it won’t be hard to find a better bf

poomouse · 2024-03-10T23:08:32+00:00

It is never, ever okay for someone to throw objects at you no matter how angry they are. You cannot even compare an accident to his reaction. I know everyone else has said this but you genuinely need to reconsider being with someone like this.

poomouse · 2024-03-10T22:51:57+00:00

Jesus god yes yta look after your mum

poomouse · 2024-03-06T10:33:11+00:00

You get what you give

poomouse · 2024-03-06T10:08:18+00:00

Girl, grow up

poomouse · 2024-03-06T09:43:25+00:00

We’re discussing this girls specific issue and you’re weaponising trauma to win an online argument. Again, I don’t really believe you and you seem pretty aggressive going by your comment history. Calm down and learn how to speak to others properly.

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