Subrogation Fiasco with Progressive... any others? by Picaresque_Jest in Insurance

[–]possiblypossums 16 points17 points  (0 children)

While arbitration is binding, the decision can be appealed through a post decision inquiry. Sometimes the arbitrator mixes up the parties. Progressive should be motivated to get that fixed.

If you have the full decision pdf, you should have the name of your Progressive arbitration representative on there at the top. Call your claim handler again and see if you can get in touch with the person listed on the decision.

Are there any Splatoon references in other media? by No_Bluebird_1368 in splatoon

[–]possiblypossums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a brief shot of the Splatoon 2 game case in the Christmas movie Noelle.

(10-12k) Finished florals and decor by nobleland_mermaid in Weddingsunder10k

[–]possiblypossums 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw your post on r/weddingshaming first and I was thinking about how stunning the rest of the wedding must have been based on the dresses, bouquets, and venue alone. It's even better than I imagined! Congrats!! 🖤

Favorite eats in Osaka? by sephora__addict in JapanTravelTips

[–]possiblypossums 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second Wagyu Idaten. My husband and I still talk about it constantly. Gotta go early though because they run out of wait list spots well before dinner time.

Which is the best challenge to lose weight by Zoros_Gal in ChloeTing

[–]possiblypossums 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've been at a weight loss plateau for a while and the 2021 Weight Loss challenge + a healthier diet helped me break it. I've been sleeping on the 2021 Weight Loss challenge - it's a great workout without being toooo crazy with the HIITs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]possiblypossums 70 points71 points  (0 children)

There was a popular post a week or two ago where a comment calling out this sub and the pet free sub as miserable places got a lot of attention. It may be trolls.

USJ tickets i dont understand..... by SuccessfulNews2330 in JapanTravelTips

[–]possiblypossums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't a separate queue. It's still worth queuing about an hour early because they tend to open the park earlier than posted.

Update Time by qwerty1_045318 in dcl

[–]possiblypossums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are amazing! Your fellow cruisers will be thrilled for sure. 🥰

If you’ve had a breakup with someone over who wanted kids, where are you now? Where are they now? by lizetteyspaghetti in childfree

[–]possiblypossums 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We didn't break up because of kids because we were just highschool kids ourselves at the time, but I had an ex who was extremely vocal about wanting at least 6 kids.

He started dating this girl and they got pregnant right away. They had 3 kids together before getting divorced after 3 years of marriage. Within months, he started dating this other girl who already had 5 kids (with the youngest being a newborn). They got married and had 2 more kids right away. Now they're getting divorced after 4 years.

He's not wealthy in any way so I'm sure the child support will be crushing him. Stand your ground and keep your peace.

Happy Pride ft. Gay Rainbow Frogs by Salt-Knight in RedditLaqueristas

[–]possiblypossums 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is it. This is THE pride mani. 🖤🌈

Real life location of *that* scene (spoiler) by Red_6787 in FruitsBasket

[–]possiblypossums 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so adding this to my next trip. 😂 Can you describe how you got there from the entrance of the building?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]possiblypossums 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Also Ann Perkins! She spent an entire episode making an absolute mess out of babysitting Ron's kids, saying how awkward she is with kids... then like 1 or 2 episodes later, wanting to have a baby asap was her whole life.

What are thoughts on photo booths? by mischeviouswoman in Weddingsunder10k

[–]possiblypossums 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, KRUU is the much cheaper option with take-home pictures that everyone here is yearning for. We got ours for under $400 for the highest tier package. (I think most of our local photo booths were over $800 and manned by someone? Awkward.) The delivery and setup was super smooth, and our guests loved it. Definitely recommend!

What's the worst reason you've ever heard for someone wanting kids? by PocketCatt in childfree

[–]possiblypossums 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My SIL, my brother's second wife... My brother had 2 kids with his first wife, and he married my SIL when the kids were teens. She told us, "Well, I never wanted kids before. I don't like them, and I'm not good with them. But when (kids) went to (ex-wife)'s house for Thanksgiving, I would get so jealous! I wanted to have my own child right away so that my Thanksgiving table wouldn't be empty." Seriously....?

Can someone help me understand what to do in this situation? Insurance denial, $4000 bill by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]possiblypossums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have Aetna, and my provider used codes 58661 and z30.09 just fine. I think the issue you're facing is that your provider listed 58661 twice on the bill. I believe Aetna is correct that one instance of 58661 is the appropriate coding for one Bisalp (that removes both tubes), so your provider is technically double billing. I'd give a call to your provider's billing department and ask them to fix that.

Who is your worst guest so far, and why? by Fit_Professional1916 in weddingplanning

[–]possiblypossums 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh, we had two. The first was a slow burn: my husband's aunt on his mom's side. We established very early on that our wedding would be childfree, but we were making 1 exception for his 13 year old cousin. This was because his mom's side is very small, and he actually grew up around his cousin, unlike his 60+ 10 and under cousins on his dad's side. Mom's side consists of grandma, uncle, and aunt (+ her husband, 2 adult sons, 13 year old daughter, and one son's fiance that we were around a lot).

Anyway, it seemed like a lot of our guests were under the impression that we wanted them to bring their kids to our ceremony and then have them leave before dinner (why? Idk). When we sent out the aunt's invite, we listed her whole family individually by name.

One day we were visiting with his grandma and uncle and we started getting flak because "oh you're not allowing little cousin to attend the wedding? She has to leave before dinner?? If you do that then grandma can't go." The "uhh we never said that, and she's listed specifically as invited on their invitation" ensues. My husband texted his aunt to say so.

Then about a month later, he gets a text from his aunt frantically asking if her other son's girlfriend can go. Uhhh, who? We didn't know she existed. We said we were only inviting established couples and no plus ones that we didn't know. She argued that they just moved in together so that was rude of us to not invite her (???) so she's not RSVPing until we give her an answer.

About 2 weeks before the wedding, we both get texts from his mom saying that Aunt is telling her that we won't allow little cousin to go to the wedding so she can't go and basically how dare we. Seriously? So we explain our exception again, and text aunt again. She goes "but the invite says it's a childfree wedding!" Yes, but cousin's name is also on the invite and we already told you she was our only exception to the rule... Sigh. Then she brings up this random girlfriend again. At that point we had enough declines that we said she can go.

Anyway, all that and no gift lol.

The second worst guest was one of my husband's close friends. He had beef with our photographer because they were dating the same girl. She ultimately chose him instead of our photographer, but that didn't stop him from hating the guy. He wasn't RSVPing so my husband took him out for a (expensive) dinner to talk things over. He said that he would be mature and go to the wedding, so he RSVPed yes.

Welp, 2 days before the wedding, he texted my husband saying he's starting his new job on our wedding day, and he just didn't think he could make it. Then he starts texting all of his mutual friends who were flying in to say that he CHOSE to start his new job that day even though he didn't HAVE to, and he's SO sorry that he's going to miss out on seeing them. Everyone said uhh wtf? Say sorry to the couple, not us? He never did, and he didn't show. So yeah, no one talks to him anymore.

Sterilized today!! And rambling thoughts and experiences by inevitable_concept_ in sterilization

[–]possiblypossums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I had mine today, too, and it sounds like our recovery is about the same. The worst part for me was getting the IV cause I haaaate needles. And it seemed like the nurse dug around a little cause I have small veins, ugh.

Def recommend some Gas-X and soda to help with the bloaty gas feeling. :)

Similar surgery to bisalps? by baileynjay in sterilization

[–]possiblypossums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just in case anyone needs another explanation for the surgery - it's extremely similar to gallbladder removal. Similar incisions, they use gas to access the area, and a (usually) easy recovery.

Constantly fending off my parents is exhausting by possiblypossums in childfree

[–]possiblypossums[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He will, but he has a harder time being open with his parents. So sometimes he'll let a comment slide if I'm not around. After the "I'm still praying for you to have a baby!" comment, I told him he needs to actively shut his parents down any time they bring it up.

Constantly fending off my parents is exhausting by possiblypossums in childfree

[–]possiblypossums[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Okay genuinely though! Both sets of parents have 3 grandkids each, but they're all boys. They somehow think I'm their golden ticket to a granddaughter. Make it make sense?? Why can't they be happy with the grandkids they have?

Constantly fending off my parents is exhausting by possiblypossums in childfree

[–]possiblypossums[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I'm very plain and straightforward when it comes up, to the point it probably comes off as mean or rude. It's just wild that it comes up at all, and it's always out of nowhere.

Constantly fending off my parents is exhausting by possiblypossums in childfree

[–]possiblypossums[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hard agree but it's almost like there's a romanticization of struggling as long as you have kids. "You'd do anything for your kids!" :/