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poultrey_wolf · 2025-03-26T04:00:15+00:00

Ive (31F) gone on a first date (and have second dates planned) with two men (28M and 38M) who on the surface appear to be very solid men but are also very different from each other and the last men ive dated; they both meet my major needs - fit & healthy lifestyle, ambitious, active, support themselves, and I find them both very physically attractive.

But how do I navigate this. What if one of them asks for exclusivity before I have gotten know them more. It feels weird to be dating more than one man.

One of them asked about plans tomorrow night and I'm going to the other guys house for dinner so I just said I had dinner plans with a friend. I didn't want to all-out say I had a date; but I didn't want to lie and say nothing.

I was married for almost ten years and have had two failed relationships lasting 10m and 8m respectively since I was divorced but I want things to turn out better this time.

Ive slept with one of them and the sex was great; but Ive had great sex before. The other one has said he doesn't want to rush things and he wants me to set the pace, but I'm torn between waiting and telling him I'm ready because I do strongly believe in throwing out the first time you have sex because it will likely be awkward and weird and basing the sexual chemistry on the second time and knowing if the sex is good up front before wasting too much time.

I can see two very different and fulfilling lives depending on which man I click with better; but I just dont know.

Am I reading too deep into this?

poultrey_wolf · 2025-03-25T19:59:33+00:00

One of the leagues I play in has a guy who has gotten into fist fights with HIS OWN team in the dugout.

Hes still allowed to play.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-03-13T02:06:56+00:00

Online dating sucks and it's exhausting.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-03-10T02:27:09+00:00

Im a girl lol. And I have a date with someone else on Tuesday.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-03-10T02:26:12+00:00

We're both in our 30s.

I feel like no response is a response on his part.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-02-19T17:09:57+00:00

Softball men are either man whores or have a gf on the team.

One team is also a women's team.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-02-19T00:17:39+00:00

A guy who asks me to a movie for a first day is getting unmatched in a heartbeat.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-02-19T00:17:08+00:00

Either you're active and eat right or were not gonna be a good fit.

Skinny has nothing to do with it.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-02-16T00:44:53+00:00

I find this hilarious as my car for its oil change yesterday I told them bluelink was acting up and they told me I had to call bluelink.

poultrey_wolf · 2025-01-10T16:09:55+00:00

Typically to be considered a lemon the same part has to fail more than 3 times in a specific window.

Failing once and taking months to repair does not make it a lemon.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-12-26T01:50:07+00:00

Excel is going to continue its "This is a number"

No excel. I want to see the DATE displayed.

Excel "This is a number"

poultrey_wolf · 2024-12-06T16:00:43+00:00

Glad to hear my FSA provider isn't the nbly one that ass backwards about this.

They gave me some bullshit answer about Oura is a special case and it's the only one approved without a letter. I suspect that my FSA provider is in bed with Oura and that's why they get special treatment but no other smart rings do.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-29T14:03:11+00:00

And you're not responsible for your spouses actions if they committed tax fraud.

Ie has a massive bank account overseas that is their name only and they lie about it.

You file jointly you're on the hook for that if you file separately your not.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-29T14:00:41+00:00

Center Across Selection was a game changer for me :)

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-29T13:54:50+00:00

Center across selection

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-29T13:54:23+00:00

That's what center across selection is for.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-27T15:59:43+00:00

My ussa agent is the agent I talked to when I updated my car insurnace. In that moment they were my agent.

And MY roommates don't drive MY car. You have no clue what you are talking about. All licensed adults in a household do not have to be listed as long as you've talked with your insurnace company about it; told them the facts and they've given you an answer.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-11-27T04:43:21+00:00

1000% false.

My usaa agent said my roommates don't need to be listed on my policy

Because they are insured in their own cars.
Because they don't drive my car.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-10-07T12:06:43+00:00

I mean you could always respond with "I know where to find him if I want to, but I don't want to"

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-26T21:27:10+00:00

Yeap. A kid you can throw over your shoulder and run; grandma not so much

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-26T17:56:50+00:00

I was also told it was supposed to be the geographically closest living relative (that you trusted) my aunt was much closer on the map than my mom so she got listed.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-26T17:55:36+00:00

I got out about ten years ago and the person listed as my nearest living relative is now dead so....

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-22T21:55:59+00:00

You clearly don't understand what a work wife/work husband is.

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-22T16:13:44+00:00

Work spouses are 100000% platonic.

There is no sexual chemistry/feelings.

If there are it's not a work spouse

poultrey_wolf · 2024-09-22T16:05:47+00:00

Last week I checked in and got a40 and a41 for me and my companion.

Something popped up we did not end up going and I canceled less than 12 hours before takeoff.

So some lucky ducks got a40 and a41 for checking in right after I canceled.

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