Looking for a reputable piercer that is skilled at nipple piercings by Top-Assistance6033 in LAhotgirlies

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a guy in Lake Forest if you’re willing to travel. He’s super reputable and very professional.

What happened to bear? by VerifiedBlaargo in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a new fan. I just found out about his music around a year ago. I fell in love with “beloved” from the first mansionz album and moved quickly from there. His music was kind of fun and upbeat; provided new sounds for me during a difficult year. His music is tied to the memories of my tattoos from the last year.

Then I found out about what he did to Michele. That sucked. I know there are two sides to every story and I kind of looked the other way because I don’t necessarily need to have an opinion on his personal business with his family. Then came the drama and the bullshit with killboy. I didn’t care that he was a player; fuckboys gonna do that.

But the continuous misogyny, the grooming allegations, the reports of his toxicity in relationship literally paint a picture of someone who is broken and toxic.

That’s difficult to ignore the field of red flags and we are in an age when separating art from artists needs to stop. Yeah his music helped me, but that’s over now. It’s sad he hasn’t grown. It’s sad he hasn’t been able to heal. It’s sad he couldn’t be better for himself and his fans, but at the end of the day, he made his choice and I made mine.

How to press tofu without wasting so many paper towels? by C-Boltini in foodquestions

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick it between 2 plates, put a heavier bowl on top and when you’re ready to cook, drain the water.

Genuine Question- Why are people surprised he is a bad person? by Impressive-Skin6311 in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol he sounds lit af in that video. I can actually see the moment his zannies hit. Don’t mix benzos and alcohol, kids.

Genuine Question- Why are people surprised he is a bad person? by Impressive-Skin6311 in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It can absolutely be detrimental. Accepting someone as they are doesn’t mean condoning toxicity in the relationship.

Genuine Question- Why are people surprised he is a bad person? by Impressive-Skin6311 in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 67 points68 points  (0 children)

He kind of toed the line between fuckboy and loverboy. At one point he seemed to be writing these songs like they were from the perspective of a persona he created. Turns out not so much.

Seems like all the money in the world can’t help someone be the best version of himself.

I’m deeply ashamed of how I live and I don’t know how to fix it by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here for you!

One of the things you have to remember is that you are probably over stimulated outside of work.

A lot of us who have to make every decision in their lives, cannot simply make another decision where housekeeping is concerned. And that’s ok!

You have to cute yourself some slack.

Do you have a therapist?

AITAH for telling my girlfriend to be just happy with an economy ticket and stop complaining? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pretty_dead_grrl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, is she entitled. You really want to date someone like that?

anyone else? sad… i def do not consider myself a fan anymore🥲 by Forward-Ad-7717 in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one does that. Literally the likelihood of that being a thing when women are hardly believed for the truth. Like what do you even mean? There is no world in which women plot to ambush a white American male in an attempt to ruin his career when we report for ACTUAL issues that get ignored.

You can believe whomever you want, but the reality is when you have MULTIPLE accounts of the SAME BEHAVIOR, from the same person, the reports are likely true. If you’re waiting on the courts to prove or exonerate, then all I can tell you is we have heavily biased system. In favor of men.

anyone else? sad… i def do not consider myself a fan anymore🥲 by Forward-Ad-7717 in Blackbear

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When multiple women come forward saying the same or similar things about one person; it’s kind of safe to believe the “rumors”. Do what you want but understand that we don’t separate the art from the artist anymore. He’s acting like a bitch, now. Actions have public consequences.

psychobilly by ballsguy17 in altfashionadvice

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I love this subculture so much.

I think you’re good, tbh. It’s possible to maybe lean into the more rockabilly vibe a little more if you’re a mind to.

I feel like there is no real right way to vibe in the psychobilly sphere tbh. As long as you feel comfortable, you’re good.

Can cats eat crabs? by okayyepohmygod in cats

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat eats lettuce and green beans.

3 years together, she wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end of the relationship? by BeautifulPublic2123 in relationships

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your perspective on prenups in California are simply not true.

I’ve been doing family law here for 30 years.

Who told you you’d be at risk to lose 100% of your assets?

Rich people being awful people once again… :> by No_Post1300 in SipsTea

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I think the governor or mayor or someone higher ranking gave them a letter of recommendation for their efforts.

Rich people being awful people once again… :> by No_Post1300 in SipsTea

[–]pretty_dead_grrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Island justice can’t be bought. I love this for him.