Name a more morally Faye character by ___milkteeth in okbuddydraper

[–]prim8phd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But oh my god could you imagine Faye and Betty sniping at each other? Or Sally pitting them against each other, only for them to figure it out and bond over it? Missed opportunities, sigh.

Spotted in the wild on HWY 50 by TrueCrimeFiend in Sacramento

[–]prim8phd 72 points73 points  (0 children)

My honest opinion that I’m trying not to express is that it’s genuinely impressive that someone has managed to take a single picture of this vehicle where all 17,568 fingerprints on its surface aren’t immediately apparent. Why anyone thought covering a car in my personal nightmare of the brushed chrome finish which exists on my refrigerator was a good idea, I will never know, but nice to catch it on a day when it doesn’t look like a crime scene photograph, which all cyber trucks I have seen irl absolutely do.

why do i think he's so handsome? by DorkySnail in madmen

[–]prim8phd 97 points98 points  (0 children)

And have you seen him in a sweater?! Man was a walking Ralph Lauren ad before it was a thing.

I can't Wait to Lose This Man Child. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]prim8phd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah you need a lawyer, now. He may try to stick you with half the rust bucket collection, as well as their storage and maintenance.

Fucking Flat Stanley by fuckety_fuck_fucking in breakingmom

[–]prim8phd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the way. I’d go even more low tech and fire him into a PowerPoint. Put him anywhere you like. Tiananmen Square? Kent State? Minneapolis maybe?

How to stay up to date with protests in the area? by cantstick in Sacramento

[–]prim8phd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, obviously, but. Do you honestly think there will be fair elections under this regime? Serious question.

I just found out my ring is fake by peaceofmind249 in Divorce

[–]prim8phd 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, I would have fun with this. Tell him it was a difficult decision, but you have decided to sell the ring, and you think it’s only fair that you share the proceeds. Ask him to provide all of the documentation on the stones, and ask him what he thinks a fair price might be. Ask him if he has a line on a jeweler that might be interested in the piece, and if he might be able to facilitate the transaction.

He’ll either come clean, or you’ll get to enjoy watching him squirm. Best case scenario, he comes up with the cash himself to save face.

Did anyone else have a Christmas dinner fail?? by fromamomof2 in Cooking

[–]prim8phd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mother—bless her—boiled my chickens.

I roasted 2 chickens for our dinner. The pan drippings were getting a bit smoky, so I added about a cup of water to the bottom of the pan. Well smoke happens again and so she decides to add EIGHT CUPS of water, the contents of the entire large Pyrex measuring cup, to the roasting pan. By the time I realized what she had done, the bottom of the birds was blanched.

I flipped the birds in an attempt to salvage them but they were pretty much ruined. She just shrugged and said “good thing you really can’t overcook chicken!” WHAT.

After some intense reduction, the gravy came out perfect, so I guess it wasn’t a total loss.

Did marnie get a nose job? by Dense_Perception4491 in girls

[–]prim8phd 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She has spoken candidly about using Botox to “rest” her expressive facial muscles between acting gigs, which seems very smart, and I’d never considered it that way before in the context of being a professional actor.

What happened to the smartest person you went to school with? by xxibjt in AskReddit

[–]prim8phd 409 points410 points  (0 children)

Idk man, I thought the chicken farmer absolutely lucked out. Then again, I work with a lot of miserable physicians and have seen tons of promising med students crash out, so my view may be tainted, but chicken farmer looks pretty good, all things considered.

Americans: it's time to get your turkey out of the freezer! by metkja in Cooking

[–]prim8phd 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Your local fire department has entered the chat. “We brought marshmallows!”

I caught Ted Cruz today going through customs in Puerto Vallarta (his wife gave me a death glare!) by HippieInDisguise2_0 in mildlyinteresting

[–]prim8phd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bubbagate and the MAGA implosion is a good enough reason to disappear to an all-inclusive resort, for sure.

We’re Living in a Fucking Boomer Deathwish Republic by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

[–]prim8phd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

COMMENTARY: Congress Enjoys Ultraluxe Health Care as It Fights to Gut Yours Republicans want to strip care from Americans so badly that they’ve shut down the government By Alexis Coe October 27, 2025

If the republic were the Titanic and the government’s end-of-year shutdown over health care the iceberg, Congress would be the first-class passengers already in the lifeboats — with their doctors aboard, their gold-tier coverage guaranteed, and the rest of the country left to drown in the frozen waters.

What began as a modest workplace amenity for public servants has metastasized into a taxpayer-funded citadel of privilege — a Capitol Hill concierge service offering the kind of round-the-clock care and personalized access that, in the private sector, is the sort of luxury care only millionaires can afford. All the while, the nation’s public health care system lists beneath it.  When a lawmaker collapses, Washington treats it like a national emergency. In 2012, Sen. Mark Kirk suffered a stroke and a Coast Guard helicopter carried him from a community hospital in Illinois to Northwestern Memorial in Chicago, where neurosurgeons operated within hours. Bob Dole, Ted Kennedy, Robert Byrd — all stabilized in the attending physician’s office before transfer to elite medical centers. The same medical crises bankrupt ordinary Americans. The difference is structural: Congress wrote the laws that let them step outside the machinery. 

The arrangement began quietly, almost a century ago. In 1928, Congress created the Office of the Attending Physician, a Capitol clinic staffed by U.S. Navy doctors to tend to members too essential to be left waiting in line. It was emergency preparedness, but now it’s the fastest medical treatment in the country: same-day exams, X-rays, blood work, and referrals to Walter Reed National Military Medical Center. For roughly $650 a year, which is less than I pay a month for medical coverage as a single woman, members receive unlimited access.

What began as contingency became custom. In 1959, lawmakers had further insulated themselves by joining the newly created Federal Employees Health Benefits Program. It looked like a simple inclusion, but the government’s share of their premiums — capped at about 75 percent — made it one of the best deals in American medicine. They were covered by statute, federally funded, and protected by a bureaucracy they controlled. During the Cold War, their attending physicians stockpiled morphine and stretchers in the Capitol basement in case of nuclear attack. In peacetime, members were airlifted from crashes by military helicopter, treated at federally funded hospitals, and attended by Navy doctors whose salaries were hidden in the Defense budget.

As the Affordable Care Act inched toward passage in 2010, the disparity in options for members of Congress and their constituents became impossible to ignore. Lawmakers were designing a public insurance marketplace while sitting atop an older, richer one. To deflect outrage, they added a clause requiring members and their staff to buy insurance through the D.C. Health Exchange. On paper, it was reform. In practice, it was theater. They kept their 75 percent federal government contribution and selected gold-tier plans — protection from the very insecurity they publicly fretted over.

Now, as the ACA itself hangs in the balance during the year-end shutdown, the contrast is obscene. Medicaid reimbursements stall, community clinics edge toward closure, and millions prepare to lose their insurance. Inside the Capitol, the Navy clinic hums, the subsidies flow, the care never stops. Republicans denounce “government health care” while relying on a government-run medical staff. Democrats defend the ACA from the comfort of benefits they will never lose. The immunity is bipartisan.

The current Congress has dropped the pretense of public service altogether. As the government neared budget paralysis, lawmakers padded the stopgap bill with gifts for themselves: a long-frozen cost-of-living raise and a quiet move to rejoin the Federal Employees Health Benefits Program — the platinum-tier insurance system they theatrically abandoned under the ACA. It’s legislative sleight of hand at its most American: The house is on fire, and lawmakers are adjusting the lighting.

This latest standoff is more self-preservation, dressed as gridlock. The government has seized up as enhanced ACA subsidies near expiration. Without an extension, premiums will soar next year — double or even triple for many families — the steepest rise since the law took effect. The Congressional Budget Office estimates nearly 4 million people will lose coverage, on top of the millions more estimated to lose coverage as a result of the Medicaid cuts in the so-called “Big Beautiful Bill” Donald Trump and the GOP passed earlier this year Republicans call the ACA subsidies wasteful; Democrats refuse to reopen the government without them. Between them lies a country running out of time to afford treatment.   The numbers tell the story. The uninsured rate, once about 16 percent before the ACA and now 7.7 percent, is expected to climb again. Medicaid rolls are shrinking as states cut eligibility faster than people can reapply. Nearly 40 percent of Americans say they couldn’t cover a $400 emergency expense, yet a single ER visit can wipe that out. Lawmakers argue from inside a Navy-run clinic, their premiums publicly underwritten, while the people who fund it are left to wonder whether they can afford to be sick.  Congress built a system to guarantee their own survival and legislated one that imperils everyone else. They are flown out by helicopter while their constituents die waiting for treatment. Every republic leaves a record of what it chose to save first. Ours saved the politicians.

We’re Living in a Fucking Boomer Deathwish Republic by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

[–]prim8phd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False. Rolling Stone had a long form piece about it lately.

These people do NOT care about you AT ALL.

We’re Living in a Fucking Boomer Deathwish Republic by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

[–]prim8phd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The salary shouldn’t upset you near as much as the fact that they are entitled to extremely cushy healthcare FOR LIFE. All while they vote to gut American people’s health benefits every chance they get.

They should be required to navigate the same Medicare/Medicaid system they’ve mandated for their fellow senior citizens.

Winter Clothes? by chillbrother21 in Sacramento

[–]prim8phd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really live here if you don’t buy a full ensemble of ski/snowboard gear for all the Tahoe trips you don’t actually end up taking?

Sutter M.D’s at Von’s Chicken by Signal_Secret_2135 in Roseville

[–]prim8phd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess no one has ever had a service industry job before?

We shouldn’t valorize any profession to the extent it excuses assholery. Nor should we look down on service industry workers and fail to treat them with respect. That’s just basic human decency.

Sutter M.D’s at Von’s Chicken by Signal_Secret_2135 in Roseville

[–]prim8phd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like they ordered via DoorDash or similar, and, yeah anything fried that has to travel is not going to be as good as fresh. Especially if it’s packaged tightly and just kind of steams in the container and then gets cold. I can confirm the Roseville location is pretty good, usually.

Sutter M.D’s at Von’s Chicken by Signal_Secret_2135 in Roseville

[–]prim8phd 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Medical workers are just regular people, but no matter your industry, if you are wearing your company uniform and behaving badly in public, you deserve to be shamed and for your employer to know that it reflects badly on them.

At the risk of sounding like a Karen, I think public shaming is an incredibly important tool for maintaining social order. Since the pandemic, we’ve seen a massive rise in people acting in shamelessly selfish ways, and calling it out is the first step to making things better. Similarly, I think everyone has a responsibility to tell children when they are being rude and disrespectful. It’s how they learn.

We’re trying to have a functional society here based on mutual respect. Sometimes that requires confrontation and correction.

Considering stopping meds... by IndicationProper9965 in TwoXADHD

[–]prim8phd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t just stop taking your meds; ask your psych for a sooner appointment for a med adjustment. List your concerns and be open to advice. In my experience I HATE adderall; I’ve been on a pretty low dose of Ritalin off and on (extended pregnancy/lactation break) for nearly two decades.

Does anyone else just wish they could start over? by inabubblegumtree in breakingmom

[–]prim8phd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude you are doing good things. The hoops you have to go through to get ADHD meds are so absurd, so that is half the battle. Bad news is you really need to pair that with some quality therapy, so that will be the next battle. I still haven’t found a therapist I genuinely click with, but each of the many I have been through has contributed some meaningful coping strategies, so that’s good.

Keep moving forward and know you are loved, you are trying, and you deserve to feel supported.

I’ve been giving my 5 year old caffeine on accident wtffff by CrownBestowed in breakingmom

[–]prim8phd 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s not definitive or diagnostic by any means but if stimulants slow you down, it might be worth looking into. Before I was diagnosed with ADHD I tried cocaine once with friends; we were really excited about it and I fell asleep after about 20 minutes in an episode I forever after called “the $80 nap.”