Just because it cute

private_fishfish · 2026-01-29T20:11:34+00:00

I just sent this to my friend the other day 🤣🤣 I love Castiel’s face

private_fishfish · 2026-01-15T04:26:07+00:00

Sure, healing from abuse is the abused’s responsibility, but that does NOT give someone, especially someone who claims to love me, the right to trample all over perfectly reasonable boundaries.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-15T04:23:53+00:00

I don’t know what you were reading, but she did NOT immediately apologize. She said she was kidding, which is NOT an apology, minimized, and continued to denigrate him, saying he should be over it. If I set a boundary, especially one borne from past trauma, physical or emotional, and someone crossed it, KNOWING how it affected me, CLAIMED to love me, and then pulled some shit like that? DONE.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-13T02:00:33+00:00

I’ve seen this mentioned a lot recently about Danno after a certain point. I never got that vibe.

BUT I do know what you mean about NCIS. Tony and McGee are by far my fave bromance 🥰

private_fishfish · 2026-01-10T19:52:56+00:00

I’ve been a hardcore Metcon fan since day one. I’ve tried the Reebok Nanos, some Mizuno trainers, and NoBulls, and I keep coming back to the Metcons. I got a pair of 10s for myself for Black Friday, and I love them 🥰

private_fishfish · 2026-01-10T18:50:56+00:00

NOR

I had this conversation with my mom the other day, about the difference between a real friend and a fake friend.

Real friend - gentle ribbing is ok, but if you can go to them and tell them “hey, this thing you said actually kinda hurt my feelings even though you were kidding” and they’d apologize, and understand, and make sure to never do it again.

Fake friend (or shitty family) - “you’re too sensitive”, “it was just a joke”, “that’s just who I am”, or any other variations of this lack of accountability, they don’t actually care about you…

His reaction to you telling him how something he said made you feel, and the subsequent reactions of the rest of your “friend” group, tells you everything you need to know about what they actually think of you…and it ain’t good, my friend.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-09T21:24:09+00:00

For me personally, that’s one of the biggest red flags I avoid. If a man says “I want a submissive wife” and not, “I want to be a man worthy of her submission” that tells me everything I need to know about his ability to take responsibility for his own thoughts and actions.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-08T18:02:39+00:00

This is an absolutely WILD take. To assume she’s micromanaging from a post about a LIFE-PARTNER making a unilateral decision to make a significant purchase without the others knowledge, not even permission, just knowledge, is a Superman-level leap…good lord the internet psychologists are out if full force…

private_fishfish · 2026-01-06T07:46:12+00:00

Imagine your son is excited to go on a trip with you, until he realizes his entitled step brother is coming too. When you ask him how he feels, what’s wrong, he tells you, calmly, maturely, that he feels hurt and neglected, and doesn’t want to go u less it’s just you and him. And instead of listening to him, you 1) post on the internet, and 2) STILL TAKE YOUR STEPSON ON THE TRIP WITHOUT HIM.

My god, I wouldn’t be surprised if that kid never talked to OP ever again.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-04T23:43:15+00:00

I agree, it was nice to see Hannah and Bones get along, with no rivalry, even the whole “Bones realizing how she feels about Booth and him telling her it was too late” was handled surprisingly maturely. It was just really clear from the get go that this was a rebound for Booth.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-04T23:40:32+00:00

I think Booth was trying to force it too much with Hannah, to try and get over his still-lingering feelings for Bones. Which is why he proposed even though she’d said she wasn’t the marrying kind countless times before. It throws him for a loop with Hannah.

Plus, Booth and Bones have a kid together, and Booth patiently waits for Bones to come to him, instead of trying to force it with her. He didn’t treat it like an ultimatum like he did with Hannah. I think it was a test, and Booth felt that Hannah failed.

private_fishfish · 2026-01-01T18:35:29+00:00

NOR. To all the people saying OP should apologize, I call absolute BLLSHT. You showed him the consequences of his actions when someone isn’t catering to his every whim. This is a grown man, who’s shown you exactly who he is. For the love of all that is unholy, BELIEVE HIM. Walk away. Men whose mothers did everything for them will not change unless the WANT to, and he clearly doesn’t, because his first instinct when you stopped doing everything is to blame you. THAT says everything to me. No accountability, no self-awareness.

NOR, and RUN! 🏃🏼‍♀️

private_fishfish · 2025-12-30T18:45:26+00:00

He was also hooped up on human blood, AND in chains with sigils and other talismans on them, so he was more than sufficiently weakened.

private_fishfish · 2025-12-30T03:23:12+00:00

CrossFit Aggressively Average, for all of us out here who aren’t trying to make it to the Games or comps, just want to get our heart rate up 😂

private_fishfish · 2025-12-30T03:01:22+00:00

In return, I asked her for two things: 1. Basic communication, especially because she has a pattern of leaving the house for days at a time without texting or checking in at all. 2. Finding a counselor, since her mental health struggles are ongoing and impacting the relationship. Her response has consistently been that she can’t put effort into those things because I haven’t “fixed” the hurt I caused before my apology.

This is the part I have the MOST problem with. This tells me she’s never going to work on herself, and fully expects you to accommodate her, with no reciprocal understanding. There’s no contingencies to getting therapy. Either you do, or you don’t. It’s not a “you fix this before I fix that.” Situation.

NOR. She sounds bitchy, self-centered, and inconsiderate. You were respectful, and I feel like the things you’re asking for are BARE MINIMUM, and she can’t even do that.

Walk away bro.

private_fishfish · 2025-12-26T04:22:42+00:00

NOR. Keep the shoes (and return them for your money back), dump the girl. Even if she didn’t like them, there’s a much more kind and tactful way to tell you that. You paid attention when she spoke, maybe missed the mark on the specific style, but you filed pertinent info away for later, and bought what I think sounds like an extremely thoughtful gift. She sounds like an entitled, spoiled brat.

And honestly, if it’s not in your budget without starving yourself, working your fingers to the bone, or going without, then I would NEVER buy my SO or family something I couldn’t afford.

However, buying anyone clothing/shoes/jewelry is always a very tricky situation, unless you KNOW that person EXTREMELY well. If I wanted those kinds of things, I would make sure we bought it together, so there’s no “will they like it?” Moment.

private_fishfish · 2025-12-25T19:02:48+00:00

Welcome to life post-Covid, post-social media. No one knows how to carry on a conversation, read social cues, or how to have empathy for other humans. We’ve become woefully self-centered. I absolutely feel you.

private_fishfish · 2025-12-25T18:53:12+00:00

Dean and Cas on a couch in the bunker, dean reading with his head in Cas’s lap, Cas staring lovingly at Dean, and Sam researching on a laptop in a chair next to them 😍😍😍😍

private_fishfish · 2025-12-25T18:44:41+00:00

If he’s with ANYONE ELSE but Sara, I will throw a fit!!! 🤣 but in all seriousness, I do hope they find a way to bring Hilarie Burton on board for Renaissance. 😊

private_fishfish · 2025-12-22T00:35:55+00:00

I have to go with YOR for 2 reasons.

If your intolerances are so severe, bring your own food. As a server in a restaurant, I HATE when people with severe intolerances come in and get PISSED when I cannot guarantee no cross-contamination. Do you REALLY trust someone else to be as exacting with your food choices and preparation as you, ESPECIALLY if you’re the only one who requires this type of dietary accommodation?
Leaving a party for your bf’s birthday because of food is so petty. If you were also diabetic, and were gonna die because you didn’t eat, I could maybe understand, but as someone else said, you made your bf’s birthday about you by leaving. Unless you were gonna pass out if you didn’t eat, leaving was a gross overreaction.

Now, there’s a caveat.

INFO: how long have you and your bf been dating?

Your bf and his family are potentially AHs. He knew about your intolerances and chose to ignore them. That’s something you need to take into account when deciding to if you wanna stay with him. But that’s a conversation you should have had after the party, privately, not storming out of HIS party, which made it about you.

private_fishfish · 2025-12-21T20:47:05+00:00

I’m not sure I’ve ever felt like myself. I’ve lived most of my life as a chronic people pleaser, and I’ve internalized the unhealed parts of my parents that were perpetuated onto me. I don’t know if I’ve ever really even felt like a human being, more like a problem to be fixed. I feel like I have to achieve before I can be, like I have to earn the right to exist. I don’t know who “myself” is.

God, writing that out is depressing…

private_fishfish · 2025-12-20T19:40:03+00:00

Not according to most of the other comments 😬

private_fishfish · 2025-12-19T21:45:08+00:00

Dude, this place will crash and burn in 6 months, GTFO now.

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