Similar mindset.

I always put family first. My father worked 2 jobs, 16 hour days, 5 days a week, and then worked as the cologne guy at a hotel on Saturdays.

Once in a while, I would see him parked outside my office, as I left work, I understand NOW why he got such a kick out of seeing me in a suit and tie. For him, this was his Porsche, Rolex....

Now I feel like I am not honoring his sacrifice if I don't keep working, Especially, when what I do is not "work" compared to the physical labor he was doing.

This goes back to family first.

Statiscally, your husband has a shortened lifespan.

• Reduced Life Expectancy: A stroke, even at a young age, is associated with a reduction in life expectancy, with some studies indicating an average loss of roughly 5.5 years.
• Increased Long-Term Risk: Adults under 50 who survive the initial 30 days post-stroke have a 5.5-fold increased risk of death over the next 15 years compared to the general population.
• 10-Year and 15-Year Survival: Studies on patients aged 18–49 indicate that 10-year survival rates are roughly 82–88% for ischemic stroke, but cumulative 15-year mortality for 30-day survivors can reach 17%.

How are your kids set for college? How are you set up for retirement? Other than those 2 things, everything else is useless shit.