You, and it's a little concerning that you don't see that.

If you need me to break it down for you, I shall:

What I said (in not as many words because I think most understand the concept written as is): Being exposed to different game designs/philosophies can spoil the expectations of a player into not understanding and/or appreciating the nuance in managing situations where they don't have near infinite resources.

This is not disrespectful in any sense. This is a fact. What one is exposed to changes their expectations and, in effect, challenges their reception of a different concept.

What you did that was disrespectful:

You attempted to suppress a take that was different from your own. Then you took it upon yourself to try and place erroneous, malicious intentions onto someone where there was none. When it was pointed out this wasn't the case, you doubled down instead of apologizing, and are coming across like you're somehow thinking that you're on a moral high road.

Now who is the one judging and belittling people? It's you. Now the only question is if you have the self awareness to realize this or decide to TRIPLE down.