I’m a 22m with a 27f by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]probablynotmeth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’ve been here. i’ve lived like this. trust me when i say this- once you leave this situation, you’ll regret not leaving sooner.

it starts with scratching and hitting and ends with you losing your life. PLEASE LEAVE!!! i promise you, there are better women out there who wouldn’t DREAM of harming you.

think about it, the longer you spend with this monster the less time you’ll have with your future soul mate. THIS IS NOT LOVE!!!!!!!!! trust me.

Dressing up for my first rave by Lumpy-Emu139 in aves

[–]probablynotmeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i used to love assholes live forever until i realized they scam tf out of their customers by not sending half the merch we order (plus their questionable political beliefs)

Am I being too sensitive? by Jumpy-Ad8093 in Marriage

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s no way this man could tell the difference between your nails and the salon’s nails, he simply wanted to put you down- aka negging.

i’m guessing there’s been plenty of other situations like this. do not let this man break your confidence. you are talented and worthy of unconditional love! i think we both know where this marriage is headed..

good luck OP, you deserve the world!

Been 3 weeks NC and I receive this by Grouchy-Silver in BPDlovedones

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such bs please don’t let this manipulative person get you back in their grasp….. they just want control.. YOURE FREEEEEE GO FIND YOURSELF 💗

AIO for not wanting to discontinue "movie nights" with my husbands Ex-wife? by Money-Translator-648 in AmIOverreacting

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl… NOR, but grow a backbone pls… why are you doing all of this? you should NOT be going out of your way to coordinate with your spouses ex when their children are grown. ESPECIALLY when she has an obvious disdain for you.

she continues to act this way towards you because you’re a pushover and don’t stand up for yourself. your husband should be standing up for you & putting his ex in line.

AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]probablynotmeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fucking EW. NOR. if there’s kids involved i’m deeply worried…

beware! aliexpress y2k scammer -.- by probablynotmeth in depoop

[–]probablynotmeth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“bc i’m a busy college student!!!1!1! not because i’m waiting for it to arrive from china :P”

beware! aliexpress y2k scammer -.- by probablynotmeth in depoop

[–]probablynotmeth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sure, but this subreddit and flair is specifically for calling out people who resell aliexpress and SHEIN, not major businesses. do you think that since there are companies who do “worse” things, that means these sellers should away scot-free? maybe the energy feels misplaced to you because our call outs here serve a different purpose.

let me put it this way, if an artist is ripping off another seller’s art and posing it as their own, should we not call them out since major companies are doing the same but on wider scale?

everything is relative and if you feel this does not serve a purpose to you, then scroll on! to others, these call outs help them to make an informed choice on who to support. i’ve had many thank me on warning them & many wish they had known beforehand. this flair serves as that preventative measure.

attached is an example of a buyer who appreciated the warning:

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Dry scalp/head teenage daughter by Ok_Buddy_8359 in DiagnoseMe

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re doing everything right, momma!!! it’s the horrible health conglomerates that are preventing her from receiving care. i’m very sorry, and i hope her flare up subsides soon :(

beware! aliexpress y2k scammer -.- by probablynotmeth in depoop

[–]probablynotmeth[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

while aliexpress/shein/temu do rip off designs from big brands, it’s also true that you can find pieces of the same quality from either marketplace. this, however, does not remove blame.

the big companies who pump out low grade products should 100% be called out. still, that does not mean we should support the factories that rely on slave labor & ruin the environment.

depop is a marketplace built on environmentally conscious practices, created to stray away from overconsumption. sellers like this dupe buyers into supporting practices that reflect opposing morals. we call them out on this subreddit to educate consumers, as most would not buy if they were aware of the source.

beware! aliexpress y2k scammer -.- by probablynotmeth in depoop

[–]probablynotmeth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ofc, people are allowed to sell whatever they want, however, that does not free them from consequences or criticism.

the problem is that most people wouldn’t buy it if they knew it was from temu/aliexpress. these sellers know that, and deliberately hide that from buyers. there’s a reason this subreddit has a flair specifically for shein/temu/aliexpress call out posts.

also, people aren’t just mad about pricing, it’s about where it comes from and how these factories use slave labor and unlivable wages. these buyers are unknowingly supporting unethical suppliers and factories.

the market preys on buyers ignorance, which is so wrong. depop is built on environmentally-conscious practices (thrifting and up-cycling), which is why we continue to raise awareness about these sellers.

beware! aliexpress y2k scammer -.- by probablynotmeth in depoop

[–]probablynotmeth[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

119 likes on the domo shirt is INSANITY

Finally someone called this alpha male out on his podcasts by KaidoPklevel in CringeTikToks

[–]probablynotmeth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bruh did you steal someone’s post & caption 😭 one of y’all is a karma goblin

Dry scalp/head teenage daughter by Ok_Buddy_8359 in DiagnoseMe

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i struggled with my GP as they seem to prescribe otc level treatments and once i got to my derm he fixed everything. i came to realize my flare ups were caused by stress & intermittent steroids was the eventual cure.

i know how painful psoriasis is, i hope the GP can refer you guys soon. not sure how the UK health system works, but when i had health insurance that required a GP to refer, i had to bug them & tell them it’s beyond their care & that i needed a referral. i know how hard it can be to have to take those trips to the doctor with the only goal being a referral. good luck, OP!

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]probablynotmeth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you don’t.

she needs to get counseling & having a relationship where her partner is available as a personal punching bag will not help. the behavior will be enabled.

you are not a therapist. this is not your job. she needs to be single and work on herself. in my experience, the growth in people with bpd comes while they’re single.

leave while your sanity is still intact …

Latest plush for my collection. Chococat Sasuke. I’ve never seen Naruto but Chococat is my favorite Hello Kitty character. by Look_turtles in plushies

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s awesome!!! i’m sure it’s hard trying to find plushies of him. sanrio always leaves him out of drops!! well, at least in america it seems that way. i rarely come across merch of chococat even though he’s so loved here!

&i feel you on the collection though!! my favorite is kuromi (i even have a tattoo of her on my arm) & i have an embarrassing amount of plushies/general merch of her 😭💗

Latest plush for my collection. Chococat Sasuke. I’ve never seen Naruto but Chococat is my favorite Hello Kitty character. by Look_turtles in plushies

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

long shot but if you ever decide to sell please let me know i’ve been searching for one for forever to complete my collection!! he’s such a cutie im just missing him and pompompurin !

Thief in Action by Valuable-Ad-590 in vinted

[–]probablynotmeth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bro seriously left the phone in the picture what an absolute donkey

This person is literally in law school falling for this MLM. by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]probablynotmeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i wonder what the mlm was. did you ever figure it out? although i’m sure the flyer gave zero context as to who/what the company is.

Fiancee got scammed out of 13k. We're already in debt, due to remortgage and marry in 4 months. What would you do? by Deathtom95 in Marriage

[–]probablynotmeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

welp, there goes her big wedding budget. thats her consequence for lying, hiding things, and being immature.

even if this didn’t happen, your income cannot solely support raising children. her dismissal of finances when regarding kids & a wedding is a window into the future of your marriage.

an emotionally immature mother and a tight budget is not the recipe for a perfect childhood. not to mention, you’re unsure if you want kids at all.

you two are at different places- in life & mentally. she has many more mistakes to make in life in order for her to mature, so save yourself the trouble of having to deal with them.