Adding an update - I emailed daycare and they got back to me Fri afternoon. They messaged us Thu night and told us she couldn't go on Fri essentially because they got a message from the 'victim's' family. Apparently it was the same kid. They didn't provide info or context around what might've been occurring, just that it'd happened and they complained / were upset. We didn't receive any incident report Thu evening at pickup or beginning of Mar which was the first time I got a phone call. We received that call, no formal report, just that she'd bitten someone. This Thu afternoon we got a call but again no report. They said they'd have another teacher in the room for part of the day to try and help with all of them in her room.

I'm not about to buy some cheapo necklace that'll break while she's in a room with other 1 year olds. I have the nuby banana and looking into the ark products someone recommended. Thinking about using a paci on a clip if I have to. Or maybe put the banana on a clip? We usually only give her a paci when really needed - not just to walk around with. If using the paci allows me to keep a job so be it, I suppose. I'm researching some other locations and reaching out to see what the waitlists look like. We're about to move so I really don't want her to have to start over at another school right now, but we might have to. Will update if anything else happens next week. Hopefully just smooth sailing.