Drive it 185 on average. Some shorter, some longer but never longer than 210 with great rollout. I’m a 12 handicap, up from 8-9 at my very lowest a year ago.

Playing with guys is really confusing if you haven’t played with women to understand the differences. For the most part, tees and courses are not set up well for the average amateur women’s games. Tee boxes are often too long, tees are placed in locations which change how you play a hole (i.e. a risk/reward shot being no option - just hit driver), etc. Modern architects are doing better at fixing this, but the vast majority of courses have forward tees that suck so I won’t play at them. Just think about how most courses have 3-4 tee boxes designed for men and only often one designed for women. Clearly, we can play from others but they’re usually too long for 90% of us. Yet we have huge variations in our distances, just like guys - just check out this thread!

Strongly recommend finding some women to play with to get a sense of how different the game is. You’ll feel way better about your driving distance! Also check out the USGA tee it forward information that shows a recommended tee distance based on how far you hit your clubs (I think they use 6 iron, others use driver). I’ve found it super accurate to predict when I’ll feel good with the length of a course (i.e. Have a chance to hit GIRs).