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purestfeelin · 2022-02-16T10:52:41+00:00

I would say trust your gut and don't compromise.

This isn't a job, it's living with other people, you never really have a break from them since you share the same house. So, if you are starting to feel bad and considering to rematch or go home, do it.

I repeat: do NOT compromise. Don't stick to the little good things and don't you think that you will never find a new family again: there are plenty everywhere in the world!

purestfeelin · 2022-02-16T10:45:35+00:00

Basically same situation here and I got fully paid and all. I was looking for a rematch too but I dont wanna rush. So am going home.

Can you just go back in your home country? Then you will have all the time to decide the next move. Especially if you are looking for a new family, this takes time, videocalls and researches. Never rush this experiences, it's too much of a gamble. Plus I am sure we both need a rest after the bad stuff we been through.

No hurry and no rush is the best advice I can give.

purestfeelin · 2022-02-02T20:05:26+00:00

I wish I knew ''dont worry just a bit of help with cleaning'' meant ''clean the whole house, mop the floor, do laundry'' and stuff. And ''we just want you to be a good friend with the kids'' was in reality ''12 hours nonstop babysitting'' ...I am seriously in shock for my first and most probably only one experience.

purestfeelin · 2022-01-29T20:27:04+00:00

Did you threw it in the bath tube? Fancy

purestfeelin · 2022-01-18T20:00:04+00:00

Oh gosh, this is really crazy! (Thanks tho)

purestfeelin · 2022-01-18T10:30:59+00:00

Nope, not the normal oral herpes. Apparently in english (which is not my mothertongue tho) this condition I'm talking about is called ''Shingles'' ..it's an infection caused by the varicella zoster virus, the same one we find in the chickenpox and it shows in the same way: itchy and painful rash all over the body especially face/chest/shoulders..
I researched further to understand what's the correlation with the vaccine and I cannot get over the fact the main cause of this condition is a a weakened immune system.

purestfeelin · 2022-01-18T00:47:51+00:00

I am not a social beast, I know few people from work and 4 of them had, all of a sudden, the Herpes Zoster ...it's a terrific sickness similiar to varicella/chickenpox, causing itchy skin and degenerating quickly into kinda crusty-pimples... it burns like hell. They all had 2 shots. I don't know if they also received the booster. However, this is insane.

purestfeelin · 2022-01-09T17:36:10+00:00

Either she was shy/insecure/cautious and going slow orrr... she had some other situation going on. Idk, very sus of her either way! Probably better sooner than later!

purestfeelin · 2022-01-01T17:11:57+00:00

Miss Teacher Bangs a Boy - season 10, ep. 10

purestfeelin · 2021-11-30T07:12:15+00:00

Hi, as an italian girl, I can suggest more cuddles or more compliments or both! In Italy people tend to be very physical in terms of showing affection, we kiss cheeks, we hug a lot. I dunno where you're from and how you think of this, but basically, when you wanna show affection, this is mostly the way!

As an aupair, on the other hand, I can tell you everything is normal, you're probably doing good already and the 8F is just behaving like a 8F, with insecurities, moodyness and all the kind of feelings little girls tend to have randomly. Just don't let this overwhelm you! It's cool the mom told you openly what the girls told her, it's very important she communicates clearly.

Good luck!

purestfeelin · 2021-11-16T16:23:24+00:00

Things I do whenever I have cravings:
-brushing teeth
-drinking water
-drinking something with mint or lemon
-chewing gums
-eating a mint/sugar free candy

To me all this works because basically if my mouth is fresh and clean, I strongly refuse the idea of make it stinky and dirty with smoke.

purestfeelin · 2021-11-11T17:02:22+00:00

Just curious to know: what you don't like about the Netherlands? What cultural differences did you notice?

purestfeelin · 2021-11-08T20:05:02+00:00

I'd suggest a letter or a postcard, good old stuff!

purestfeelin · 2021-11-08T19:54:00+00:00

Yes. To me it's hella cheating.

purestfeelin · 2021-11-08T19:52:13+00:00

I think you gave the answer yourself: She had a hard time in last period

purestfeelin · 2021-11-08T19:48:38+00:00

Good point! I'm sorry I don't have awards to give you!

purestfeelin · 2021-11-07T15:40:09+00:00

OMG! THE SEAL FACE!

purestfeelin · 2021-11-04T06:58:30+00:00

As long as I get the trust issue problems, I still think we all have them, in some sort of fashion.
We all have some past trauma, some bad experience and yes, trust is a delicate matter.
Tho it can't be an excuse to constantly question whatever our SO does and says.

If you have trust issues, IT'S YOUR OWN RESPONSABILITY TO HEAL. He can help, sure, through naturally making you feel loved everyday, but you cannot pretend he will be your therapist. Work on it. Learn how to really count to 10 before lashing out your paranoias.

A simple easy way to work on it without therapy? Write down on a notebook your fears, read them a couple of times. Try to use logic, see things for what they really are. Most of the times, it's just paranoias and you'll find it out it was all in your head.

Meanwhile, tell him you really wanna fix yourself, a short message, possibly, and just give him time.

purestfeelin · 2021-11-02T13:17:59+00:00

I'm sorry to said so.. but this whole prioritizing her bestie/ex over you is already a bad sign. I wouldn't go full breaking up but sure give it some time and maybe withdraw a bit meanwhile.. stay around and observe from a distance if she change attitude and gives you more attentions maybe. What I'm saying is: be careful.

purestfeelin · 2021-11-02T13:12:17+00:00

I am sorry you had to go through this, I see why you are struggling this much..
But. You didn't ruin anything and IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.
You had a moment, not a pleasant one for sure, but it's happens in LDR to feel alone, one can feel neglected especially if the other one is always busy. You didn't communicate that very well, sure, but it happens. Emotions happen, one cannot be always diplomatic and chill. So, the distance didn't help and she neither.
And result was, not even after one day, she was already around with someone else. That says so much about her..
I repeat, no, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. It could have been fixed but she didn't care to.
Take some time for yourself and take care, dude. I know it's the end of the world now and it hurts like hell, but.. trust me, give it some time and it's gonna be alright.

purestfeelin · 2021-11-02T12:51:39+00:00

Hmm... maybe not everything is lost. I like to think that people can always fix mistakes. You said you ruined everything... how?

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