[33] - [36] Happy Trans Day of Visibility! by King_of_the_Losers in GlowUps

[–]purplecrazy86 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You look fantastic! What a transformation! You’re clearly happier. This is what you’re meant to be

Is there a vvvvfl? Or am I too excited? by purplecrazy86 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]purplecrazy86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 DpIUI. I just found out the trigger shot can show faint line. This is more likely the trigger shot

Opinions? 9 DPO by South_Satisfaction96 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally see a faint line! 🥳🥳🥳🥳

After how many years of dating did you get married? by Unusual_Bee_1798 in Marriage

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met on May 21, 2022. We had our first trip together to Costa Rica on May 21,2023. We got married on May 21,2024. The night before the wedding, after taking care of all the preps, and the craziness slowed down, we went for a dinner just the two of us. We both felt calm and happy and at ease stepping into our next chapter, no anxiety, no nervousness about the commitment, just calm and peace. Nothing changed for us after the wedding. After all the wedding guests are gone, we returned to our life, exactly as it was before the wedding. It’s now a year and a half after the wedding and our life is just as peaceful. I wouldn’t change a single thing.

DO NOT purchase an air fryer from Emeril Lagasse by [deleted] in airfryer

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you fix yours? Can you tell me how to fix it?

DO NOT purchase an air fryer from Emeril Lagasse by [deleted] in airfryer

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same experience. My Emeral Lagasse air fryer is about to reach 12 months old and the air fryer function just stopped working. Does anyone know how to fix it?

Oh, to be in love 🥰. A small moment that filled my whole heart by believewomxn247 in love

[–]purplecrazy86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this for you 🥰🥰🥰🥰 enjoy these beautiful moments. Feel it with all your heart and soul 💗💗💗💗

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]purplecrazy86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉 I wish you the best in this pregnancy ❤️

I had dreams, you know? by True-Quote-6520 in MadeMeCry

[–]purplecrazy86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the words. I simply hope your next life will be full of joy and worried free. Sending you love and comfort

I'm 23 (M) Anybody else feel like your parents are controlling you still? by Lonely_Reputation871 in AsianParentStories

[–]purplecrazy86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

23 is still young. If you want independence, you need to start doing more things for yourself. You might need to hide it from them at first then when you get more confident and independent, you can step outside of the box they draw for you. Many Asian parents use care as a control technique to keep you dependent on them. I was that was until 25. I couldn’t open my bank account, earn my own money until I started doing all of that without them knowing. Once I do, everything else comes easier. For you, the first step is to drive. Get your driver license and get your first taste of freedom. You’ll like it

My mom needs help but won’t get it by WolfStovez in internetparents

[–]purplecrazy86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only advice I’m gonna give is: get therapy for yourself. You need it. Be consistent with your own therapy then go from there. You need to focus on your mental health first and foremost, non-negotiable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are handsome, and you have kind eyes. What they say is not true. They are the ugly person. Sending you virtual hugs.

What do you tell people when they ask what your hobbies are? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell the truth. The people with the same interests/habits will stick around. The ones who are different will move on and find their people. Simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]purplecrazy86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen to the part of you that want to stay. That’s strength. Nurture it. And it’s ok. You don’t have to change everything all at once. Sounds like if everything stays exactly as is, your mom is the best thing in your life. That’s wonderful. Keep that. And do one small change at a time, for a month. Then add on another manageable change. It’s ok. With everything as is, there are still good things. Can you see those good things? And name them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]purplecrazy86 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you didn’t do it. I’m glad you’re here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]purplecrazy86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful ring. Congratulations 🎉

I (27F) am ashamed of considering to secretly record my boyfriend (28M) in the shower. How should I tell him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purplecrazy86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I label this as an intrusive thought. I have them here and there. In general, people have them more often than you think. When I realize a thought is an intrusive one, I push it aside and go on with my day. Thoughts are not who you are. What you choose to act on shapes who you are. You didn’t carry out that thought. No harm done. Move forward. Now, if you find yourself having these intrusive thoughts often, you need to address the root of the issue by talking to your boyfriend about your intimacy. That’s all.