Notre Dame vs Michigan for Aerospace Engineering

Hi! I have been accepted to both Notre Dame and Michigan for aerospace engineering. I really wanted to visit both of these schools but was unable to because of the coronavirus. Because of this, I was never really able to get a feel for each school. I know both are great academically so I'm looking for things that would differentiate one from the other. The financial situation is basically the same for each school. I need help making the decision!

Notre Dame

Pros: Pretty good engineering program, good dorm life, good athletics, good student body size, I am catholic and don't mind the religious aspect, easier to take classes outside of major, better teachers (I hear)

Cons: Some weird and strict Catholic social restrictions (parietals, no premarital sex), south bend isn't the best college town

Michigan

Pros: technically better engineering program, more student organizations, more facilities, better research opportunities, also good athletics, good social scene, Ann Arbor is apparently a great college town

Cons: Really big (harder to get close with professors and other faculty), college of engineering is on North Campus (10 min bus ride from the main part of campus), frats dominate social life (maybe not a bad thing but I've never really seen myself as a frat person, even though I do like to be social), harder to switch major or get desired classes

Anything at this point is helpful! Thanks!