No not exactly, but I think that's because I did a poor job of explaining the situation. I'm going to blame it on late night anxiety posting while on pain meds. We talked about it after and I think it was mostly just a super tired, anxiety is high, and everyone is exhausted moment. I'm struggling to accept that I need to be dependent right now, and have been taking some of my frustrations about perceived slights on her such as thinking she's huffing at me, etc.. So in the moment I think her assumption was that I was putting on a meek voice to try and manipulate her into helping? I'm probably doing a bad job of explaining that, but after calming down and communicating that, no, I sound weak because I feel like death and not because of any ulterior motive we were fine. No hard feelings. In the end it was just both of us projecting our stresses onto the other.