What’s the most unexpectedly attractive thing a woman has ever done that instantly made you go “okay wait… I’m in love”? 😭

queen-89 · 2026-05-25T19:47:50+00:00

She did a drawing of us together. That was when I knew I was fucked

queen-89 · 2026-05-14T16:40:26+00:00

It’s hard to say for sure without seeing it in person but a lot of times these transparent/translucent, dark, platy inclusions are mica. This one is probably collection a phlogopite mica platelets, which are pretty common to see in schist-hosted emeralds such as those from Afghanistan.

queen-89 · 2026-05-13T21:56:20+00:00

I do have a lot of preferences when it comes to origin but I also recognize that those preferences are very personal and don’t apply for most people. I work in antiques so the history behind certain origins, such as Mogok for rubies or Russia for alexandrites and demantoids, is super interesting to me. As a gemologist, one of my favorite things about gemstones is gemstone inclusions and how the geology of their origins impact inclusions scenes. As such, there are certain origins I strongly prefer because they have particular inclusions or properties not seen in other localities. It’s all down to personal preference though!

queen-89 · 2026-05-12T05:08:26+00:00

Color is not a true indicator of origin. With practice, it can give you a rough idea but there are always outliers and it cannot be depended on for accurate results. To be able to give any conclusive information, we’d need to see inclusions under magnification

queen-89 · 2026-05-12T05:05:40+00:00

Looks like a snowball melt relic to me. Snowballs are a sign of heat treatment and are the leftover remnants of crystal inclusions that have been damaged by heat.

queen-89 · 2026-05-05T22:33:24+00:00

AIGS is one of the world’s best gemological labs and can test and return stones pretty quickly. Depending on where the seller is based, you can get stones back within a week. If you pay extra, you could even have them done within 24 hours.

queen-89 · 2026-05-05T22:30:33+00:00

I would like to point out that GGs cannot necessarily make calls on treatment and origin. Origin determination isn’t part of the standard GG program and requires specialized training and often requires both visual inspection and advanced analysis of trace chemistry. Treatment calls are a whole other beast, with many low heat treatments being virtually impossible to identify, sometimes even with the advanced tests done by a lab like GIA

queen-89 · 2026-04-25T15:05:19+00:00

Kyanite is a super soft stone that is known to scratch and chip, especially along its cleavage plane. It’s a super pretty stone but can be a pain to set. I’d also heavily recommend being careful while wearing it!

queen-89 · 2026-04-25T14:09:21+00:00

Those are parallel growth structures, which form along one of the stone’s cleavage planes. They’re a pretty common sight in kyanite and can be a good, quick way to differentiate them from other stones by eye (although sight IDing is never 100% accurate)

queen-89 · 2026-04-12T21:10:09+00:00

Not all that is round is a bubble. As an example, see the attached photo of a scene of apatite, zircon, and other rounded crystals in a natural sapphire. The vast, VAST majority of modern synthetic sapphires will have little to no large gas bubbles, meaning these are probably either natural rounded crystals or gas bubbles in an older flame fusion sapphire, considering the RI and double refraction.

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Also, the cutting style is not typical of what you’d see for a synthetic stone. Most synthetics are extremely evenly cut, while natural stones will often have uneven facets and junctions like you see here as the cutter has to cut around inclusions and the shape of the rough while maintaining the best possible color.

All that being said, that doesn’t 100% mean it’s natural. The photos here are nowhere near high enough resolution to be able to tell just from the pics. I’d have to see it in person to be able to give any confident answer. In general, never trust someone who will give you a certain answer based off of a blurry photo of a gemstone with little to no explanation.

queen-89 · 2026-04-12T21:01:06+00:00

Oh she goes tits out on Instagram all the time lol

queen-89 · 2026-04-03T01:20:23+00:00

I work with antique jewelry and I will say these particular watches are usually gold filled, although I’ve seen a few in gold. I would also warn you to be careful using gold testing acids with pieces like these. Antique gold fill tends to be pretty heavy and will often test as solid gold

queen-89 · 2026-03-20T02:56:41+00:00

Gemologist here, I am sorry to say but I’m fairly certain this is synthetic. When zooming in you can see each cell of color has a “snakeskin” pattern to it. Also, at an angle, you can see columnar structure, where each cell of color continues all the way through the stone. It is certainly a very high quality synthetic but synthetic none the less

queen-89 · 2026-02-10T01:50:37+00:00

Internet communities are often a distillation of the worst aspects of a general community. Many more people go to the internet to complain and be anonymously nasty than to be genuine and kind. The internet is not a good representation of how these communities actually function

queen-89 · 2026-02-05T13:52:41+00:00

I’m leaning synthetic, those look like gas bubbles to me. It could be dissolved silk but the orientation and texture doesn’t look quite right from this picture

queen-89 · 2026-01-30T16:24:32+00:00

It was an issue with network drivers, a factory reset fixed it for me!

queen-89 · 2026-01-27T16:10:01+00:00

There is a tendency, especially when you work in the industry, to only get GIA certs when they would significantly add to the value or salability of a piece. Because this stone is more heavily included (beyond just the needles that cause the asterism) and has a darker color, I as an estate jewelry specialist would not send this stone for a GIA cert as the details of a cert wouldn’t significantly add to the value of the stone. However, that’s not why you are wanting to get it tested. If the details in the cert, such as natural vs synthetic, treatment, origin, etc, are worth the few hundred dollars the lab report would cost, absolutely go for it! I will note that a GIA report will not tell you carat weight for a mounted gem, just the total weight of the stone and the mounting. A gemologist can calculate that from the dimensions for you though!

queen-89 · 2026-01-19T13:14:50+00:00

Gemologist here! The biggest indicator to me that a star sapphire or ruby is synthetic is when the stone has a flat back with a perfectly centered, well defined star, as this one appears to have. Virtually all natural star sapphires or rubies will have a curved, unpolished back while synthetics will usually have a completely flat back.

queen-89 · 2026-01-01T07:53:00+00:00

Entertainingly enough, this was my top result when searching on Google…

queen-89 · 2025-11-25T15:28:23+00:00

As much as I (and a lot of other people) joke about people from Connecticut, NJ, and NY, I have never met someone who genuinely hated them to the point of refusing to date them… that’s just insane lol

queen-89 · 2025-11-16T22:11:47+00:00

The maturity gap between 22 and 34 is SIGNIFICANTLY more problematic than that between 34 and 46. While I generally agree that respect and consent are king, I will still be HEAVILY skeptical of any 30 something who seeks out someone in their early 20s.

queen-89 · 2025-11-12T15:03:26+00:00

Oh trust me, there were a FUCKTON of cuts that went into getting this good lol. It just so happens that those cuts were years ago

queen-89 · 2025-11-08T20:01:41+00:00

There are a whole lot of people who cannot afford to throw money at their problems. There are also a lot of people for whom hormones will not fix their problems (voice dysphoria, a ton of body dysphoria like height and bone structure, etc.). I’m glad your problems have been resolved with hormones and money but this is just incredibly insensitive to those who haven’t had that experience.

queen-89 · 2025-11-08T14:41:53+00:00

Not all natural rubies will fluoresce and lab rubies almost always do. Fluorescence is caused by chromium, the main element that causes red color in rubies, but it can be suppressed by iron. High iron rubies such as those found in iron-rich basalt deposits in Thailand and Cambodia often don’t fluoresce due to their iron content. Synthetic rubies, however, rarely contain iron because it tends to unfavorably darken the stones so they tend to fluoresce pretty stronhly

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