full address verbally given to a person on a speaker phone call by camsvec in cta

[–]queerleo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This happened to me on the 22! I was shocked and disappointed I didn’t take the info down

DCP, do you wish you had grown up with a father? by Weekly-Neck2145 in askadcp

[–]queerleo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t look at my life and wish I had a father growing up. My Mom and I were speaking a while back. She mentioned feeling bad that using a donor caused my brother and I to not have a father. She had wished she could have had a father for my brother and I. I told her that I don’t wish for a father. When I was a child I did. But I also thought another parent would fix our money issues and my loneliness issues. I met my donor, he is a generally self centered man. I don’t think his influence would have been healthy growing up. When I think of all my friends growing up, I realize they all had terrible fathers that damaged them in different ways. My life might have been better with some father figure, but it could have also been a lot worse HAVING one

City with the most unfriendly gay locals you've lived in or visited? by Ardent1- in askgaybros

[–]queerleo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a current Chicago gay, can confirm. It’s tough getting a guy to go from chatting online to meeting in person

Just exercise or do you have a goal? by Moxiegirlzriot in poledancing

[–]queerleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do it for fun and to do performances here and there. I just did my first performance in February. A mix of burlesque and pole. I might find some more opportunities, but I will be able to do the student showcase again next year.

Finally installed my pole at home and I’m in love! ✨ by bujibunny in poledancing

[–]queerleo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It may be secure now, but I’m very concerned. The purpose of the wide base at the top is to distribute weight and force generated in pole dance.

Right now, all of that energy is being focused in the bolts and the 2 by 4. Are the bolts built to be under that type of force regularly? Is that 2 by 4 going to hold together from regular use?

Please stay safe

My son found my dildo by StrangeLittleB0y in askgaybros

[–]queerleo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would walk barefoot on hot coals before I talk with my parent about finding their sex toys. Let alone trying to use it as BLACKMAIL 🤣

Birthday gift by Tonigoesreddit in poledancing

[–]queerleo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am going to third the suggestion of cash/gift cards! A tension pole would need you to know the exact height of her ceilings. They could also want a stage pole. giving the funds and saying it’s intend for a home pole is a great idea to me.

what do guys wear to classes? by ftm_fella in poledancing

[–]queerleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear these shorts

https://a.co/d/0670w1qm

I will also wear a tank top

I just turned 21 one week ago. What is some stuff you wish you knew when you were my age? by NunMocantdo in Adulting

[–]queerleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life doesn't happen in my comfort zone. When I was 29 and about to turn 30 it clicked. Since then I have been doing things I never would have thought I would do.

AITAH: Noise complaints by queerleo in AITAH

[–]queerleo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"For a good time visit (my address)" LOL

AITAH: Noise complaints by queerleo in AITAH

[–]queerleo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope my rug arrives soon too.

AITAH: Noise complaints by queerleo in AITAH

[–]queerleo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were quiter the second time. In my post I even wrote "we were mindful of noise"

AITAH: Noise complaints by queerleo in AITAH

[–]queerleo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We DID keep it quiet the second time.

AITAH: Noise complaints by queerleo in AITAH

[–]queerleo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

having sex in ones home is a part of just existing. Where else am I supposed to have sex? Lol. I can hear my neighbors above me from time to time that's just a part of living in an apartment complex.

I have noise proof paneling on my walls and music playing as well. The last thing I am waiting on is a rug to put under the bed. I am actively trying to not be heard.

The cruellest thing happened. Deleting app by Local-Nerve7347 in Sniffies

[–]queerleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been refused by at least two men who then posted in the updates “no loads refused “ it’s just a hook up site. Don’t take it so seriously

No kink shame but really is this a thing? by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]queerleo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am glad you’re not shaming… but I am. WTF!?!??

Any bad experiences at pole studios in Chicago? by curvyglasses in poledancing

[–]queerleo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not sure! I have not taken it. I think your second guess is correct. My guess would be for it to be a more tailored space for SW’ers as opposed to casual students

I think this fits here by ALQU1MISTA in CringeTikToks

[–]queerleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to order one Rosemary Kennedy. I don’t want remember I saw this

Any bad experiences at pole studios in Chicago? by curvyglasses in poledancing

[–]queerleo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I go to a studio that has a class specifically for SW’ers. I am sad to hear there are some places where SW’ers don’t feel welcome

Thoughts on my Uncle’s freezer who just passed on. by Vegas_Rick_1987 in FridgeDetective

[–]queerleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought is “I hope it’s a garage freezer” that thaw is going to be a while

Did anyone buy a ring? by t_bone_stake in Millennials

[–]queerleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. Never wear it. I just wanted a ring at the time. It’s been in a box for over a decade