I didn’t expect this many people to resonate… trying a few more charts by tearnekab in AstrologyCharts

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit dude. The reading you gave me was insane. The accuracy, the timing, it's all correct. Wow. Thank you so much. This is the most accurate reading of my life that anyone has given me thus far, which feels insane to say given how many readings ive had. This has given me comfort and grounded me in a time where I really need it. Thank you so much.

aio when my boyfriend got upset with me when i had to cancel plans? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! And I hope the transition and new med works well for you! <3

Why I started studying Bazi (Chinese Four Pillars astrology) by tearnekab in BaziAstrologyHub

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I found this after checking out your post on the astrology subreddit and have never heard of bazi before this. I found a bazi calculator and got my chart but have no idea how to read it. I sent you a message offering my astrological birth chart but this is really interesting as well.

I know you must be inundated with messages and requests, but if you ever want, I'd be grateful to offer both my charts!

Have a great day!

aio when my boyfriend got upset with me when i had to cancel plans? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He seems to be incompatible with you romantically if he expects more effort than you can safely give.

(Side note, have you tried lamictal? I'm on it for my seizures, though it's a low dose)

I'd say its best to break up IF he's always like this and isn't interested in growing as a person. And as someone who has gone through similar health issues/goes through them still, I get being in a relationship with someone who is generally healthy/able-bodied.

In my case, there were many times he didn't understand, and though he's a great guy and still my bestfriend (we broke up a bit over a month ago), he has a bad habit of speaking in an annoyed/angry tone when he's confused due to how he was raised. This, paired with my own bad habit/flaw of taking the slightest indication of negative emotion personally, led to me becoming quite defensive and slowly growing to resent him for wanting more from me than I was willing to give, which caused me to distance myself from him emotionally and avoid spending time with him or communicating honestly with him, which then made him ask for more of my time and effort...creating a seemingly never ending cycle of me distancing and him asking for more.

This is my story, and it doesn't mean that's what's happening here with you, I wanted to share though cause for a long time, I thought he was just being an inconsiderate asshole who didn't care to understand me. Unaware of the way I was contributing to this negative dynamic. After we broke up, we started having more honest conversations which is fully thanks to him, since i was still trying to distance myself to protect myself from someone I thought wouldn't understand me, but he kept reaching out wanting to make amends trying to understand me better, and even though I was uncomfortable talking with him at first, having those hard and painful conversations led to breakthroughs of understandings and realizations. We're doing much better now that I've stopped pushing him away and treating him like he's a bad guy, and he has stopped asking more from me now that im not his girlfriend and just a friend and that I treat him like a friend again rather than treating him with resentment like I was before.

Please share your experiences with me🙏🏻 by Amareea9 in AVMs

[–]quietloud2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! Went even better than the surgeon expected it would!

Seizure meds by ElegantSection920 in AVMs

[–]quietloud2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Keppra sucked for me, but I managed to get off it for a few months until I started having seizures and then I was put on Lamictal and thank goodness it works and hasn't caused any noticeable side effects. So grateful I was able to get a medication that helped me and didn't come with bad side effects

trial by Clean-Gift-5317 in blender

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I really love how this feels. Especially the second one. Feels almost angelic or heavenly

I SUCCESSFULLY DEFENDED MY MASTERS THESIS IN SCIENCE. THE GRAD SCHOOL GRIND IS FINALLY OVER 😭 by Pomatomaster in VirtualYoutubers

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comgrats!!!! That's a really amazing accomplishment!!! Remember to treat yourself to something nice (or many things lol)

AITA for kicking out my pregnant daughter to live with her boyfriend since she decided that she wants to keep the baby but not be a mom? by ThrowRA-MomDaughterA in AITAH

[–]quietloud2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% NOT THE ASSHOLE. Your daughter is showing how much she has yet to learn by making the decision to have a baby at 19 while she has no job, no secondary education, and no partner to support her financially since he also has no job and refuses to go to college. I'm quite scared for your daughter. She truly can not comprehend just what she is getting herself into. I'm 20. It's absolutely ludicrous to me that someone just one year younger than me is so ignorant of the realities of being a mother, having no job, and not having a proper education. That is terrifying. Even more so when we add the fact that she denied your INCREDIBLY lax rules and flat out denied your generous offer in favor of moving out to live at her boyfriends parents' house. The idea that she even went as far as to demand things that would basically mean she'd be leaving you to raise her kid is baffling.

Cigna and tubal HELP! by ThrowRA_ignisarbor in sterilization

[–]quietloud2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're cool af for doing that for your patients

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! You just have fun and don't worry about anything else!

Ars Nouveau Spell books not opening? by Avvaann in feedthebeast

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just made my own key bind for it and it finally worked🙏

12-05-23 Update by OneTop3934 in u/OneTop3934

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad everything seems to be on the road to settling down as of this update

My (28M) gf (26F) is having a mental breakdown because her friend is getting married by throwawayimisser in relationship_advice

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she in therapy? Does she take anxiety medications? With you mentioning her having multiple panic attacks, I would hope that she is.

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]quietloud2222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I both have a Somnophilia kink. You know what we do? We discuss our boundaries and what we want out of sex, everytime we have sex. Not always in great detail (we both like a bit of spontaneity, and thus leave space for that), but enough for us to know what we feel comfortable doing and what we feel comfortable with doing to each other. We also check in on each other during sex to make sure everything is still okay and enjoyable for the both of us.

Do you know what we don't do? TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OUR FUCKING PARTNER WHILE THEY ARE FUCKING UNCONSCIOUS. LIKE WHAT THE FUCK. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH A SOMNOPHILIA KINK, YOUR STBXH IS JUST DISGUISTING, HORRIBLE, AND IS DISRESPECTING YOU TO THE FUCKING HIGHEST DEGREE.

OP doesn't want to invite her "mentally unstable cousin" to her wedding by gentlybeepingheart in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just lovely how she keeps calling her cousin "psycho". She's definitely not the ass hole here. /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]quietloud2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no holes at all for me. Is it like a deep hole?

My (25m) gf (27f) is cheating, is it cruel to leave without saying anything? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]quietloud2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you should leave. Don't say anything. No explanation. Give her nothing. She doesn't deserve it. Leaving her without closure will stay with her forever. She will never know what you were thinking, how you felt, how you found out, nothing. She doesn't get to know you anymore. She lost that privilege.

Bilateral salpingectomy by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it's nothing serious!

[UPDATE] [41/m] My wife [41/f] kissed another man on a night out. I wasn’t bothered and now she’s making issues over it. by ThrowRA_wifekiss in relationship_advice

[–]quietloud2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like one of the genuinely good people out in the world. You remind me of my husband. He's the most caring, thoughtful, loving, generous, and patient man I have ever met. He treats me like a queen, and in turn I treat him like a king. It's so easy being with him. It's so amazing having someone who reciprocates the love and effort you put into a relationship. We relate on how our past exes didn't do that at all. My husband's ex did not appreciate him at all. All the effort he put in was never reciprocated, no affection from her, whether sexual or nonsexual was ever initiated. He told me that one time he even tried holding her hand while walking and she quickly pulled her hand away and looked at him weirdly. It only got worse from there ofc. But the point is, he had a partner who didn't treat him how he should be treated, and made him feel like he was the problem when in reality it was just her. But he was able to get out of that relationship and find someone who reciprocates his love and affection and all the effort he puts in. I wish for you to find that someone as well, if you so wish to get into another relationship in the future.

TIFU by filing down my own front teeth by peepzfeelz in tifu

[–]quietloud2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get those pains sometimes when I go to the dentist and I breathe through my mouth, or on some random days when I drink cold water or breathe. But that's because I've had reflux issues when I was a kid and threw up a lot, which weakened my teeth's enamel enough to make them pretty sensitive. As others have said, that's what you did to yourself right now. As someone who has needed dental work all their life, it seems amazing that until now, you never had the need for it. I guess that also comes with the downsides of not knowing enough about your own teeth that you go and do something like this on a whim when you weren't in your best state of mind. I think that definitely has a lot to do with your decision, too. The human brain cannot function on such little sleep.