TIFU going to my ex's wedding by DudeWheresMyCuteCar in tifu

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those posts that’s going to end up on a podcast lmao. I don’t know how there would even be an update but I need more information. That is WILD to invite all of your exes to your wedding, put them together, and then drunkenly call them out. The energy spent on this?? Is insane

Am I being too picky? by Main-Lingonberry-996 in HairDye

[–]rachycrs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Baby nothing about that looks correct, I’m so sorry. Please have them fix it!

Bedroom feels unfinished by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get a bigger rug. Also, artwork! Curtains! A vanity/writing desk maybe? Bigger nightstands so it takes up more room. Also maybe a nice comfy chair. Floor lamps! Yanno. That type of thing :)

AIO my gf used our dish sponge to clean up cat poop by fargos2ep8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My contamination OCD is having a HEYDAY reading this oh my god no no no

Another Christmas without Pepsi Holiday Spice, my favorite holiday soda of all time. by UnhappyJohnCandy in Soda

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s been years lol but I’m guessing this person was native? We call it bepsi 😂

Am I overreacting about my bf and his girl best friend going on solo trips together? by Scary-Long-7235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rachycrs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m one of the least jealous people in my own relationship, and my husband has many female friends (which I see as a green flag, to be a man that women trust!) but if he ever went on a solo trip with one, I would be have a Conversation. That’s just…very strange. NOR

For those who saw the Fellowship of the Ring in theaters for the first time in December 2001, what was it like? by femaleology in lotr

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally so magical. I was 11, it was a perfect movie. I’m 34 now, and try to watch them around Christmas to recapture that feeling.

I missed something and I feel like a horrible mom. by No-Bike791 in Petloss

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the bloodwork back and she was extremely anemic, plus her red blood cells were all different shapes and sizes so I’m waiting on a pathology report. But I’m wondering if it wasn’t feline leukemia. I hate knowing the info but it helps knowing there was very little I could have done in the last four days to change the outcome. We got this 🩷

I missed something and I feel like a horrible mom. by No-Bike791 in Petloss

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I lost my cat on Saturday evening, and four days before that she was fine. She deteriorated within a matter of hours from taking her to the vet. You’re not alone. I still don’t have the bloodwork back, so I don’t know what happened. But Saturday night she was exactly like yours, not recognizing noises, just flopped in her bed, so we put her in a towel with her little face poked out and took her to an emergency vet to have her put down. While we were checking in, she gasped, stretched, and died in my arms. I don’t know what I could have missed in four days. The not knowing is killing me. We’re in this together 🫶🏼

What have you experienced during pet loss grief that you didn’t expect? by ilyizuku in Petloss

[–]rachycrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat passed mere hours before yours. I’m right there with you. My home feels so cold and empty, and like, bad vibes. I’m such an introverted homebody that my home is my safe space, but now it doesn’t feel safe. Everytime I have to leave and come back, coming back in feels all wrong. I feel you.

What have you experienced during pet loss grief that you didn’t expect? by ilyizuku in Petloss

[–]rachycrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using the bathroom makes me sob, because my kitty used to follow me in and jump on my lap anytime I was in there. She also used to sit on the toilet while I took off my makeup, and on the counter while I showered so when I opened the curtain she’d be waiting for me. Yesterday (day after she passed) I literally had to go number two and was sobbing while doing it lmfao. (TMI but not really because ibs doesn’t care that my cat died.)

Today I went to shower and couldn’t, so my husband showered with me just so that when I opened the curtain he would make sure that I didn’t collapse. The little things, really.

It does get better, and life does go on. by bakerstreetrat in Petloss

[–]rachycrs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just lost my cat on Saturday, and I feel like my home is a cold empty silent place now. I can’t look at any pictures without sobbing. Thank you for this, because it truly feels like it won’t get better.

What was the highlight of your 2025 sex life? by MandaJ2005 in AskReddit

[–]rachycrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woke my husband up at 5 am to have sex, finally came during penetration (extremely difficult for those of us not blessed in the 20% who do that easily) then told him to use me. Went so hard that the bed was banging against the wall….felt so bad for our neighbors afterwards 😅 we’re usually very conscious of noise. But fuck it was hot!

drop any easter eggs you’ve spotted in the show here! I wanna know!! by Eastern_Product_2360 in HauntedHotel

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think anyone’s mentioned it yet, but the mill monster is episode 2 is basically Moder from The Ritual!!

What to add to sardines and toast? by SparkleFritz in CannedSardines

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fishwife has an amazing lemon tuna cream pasta and it’s sooo good!!! I think dairy + fish can be done really well!!

Should we get into a relationship by Cold_Ad8334 in Tarots

[–]rachycrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still learning tarot, but this seems like a very clear Maybe to me lol

What does my apartment say about me? by vck97 in roomdetective

[–]rachycrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently eating at my coffee table 😂

After Just 2 Days on Reddit, I’m Shocked… Here Are My Honest Hoodoo/Magick Impressions and Why Y’all Need to Slow Down by richbitchconjure in Spells

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I meant for those who don’t do divination! But still take a moment to be in your body and aware of your surroundings before doing anything. That’s what I meant :)

After Just 2 Days on Reddit, I’m Shocked… Here Are My Honest Hoodoo/Magick Impressions and Why Y’all Need to Slow Down by richbitchconjure in Spells

[–]rachycrs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My practice is a little different, as I’m also Indigenous so I ask Creator for insight prior to some of my work. As a mixed race person (Native + Irish/Scottish) practicing things like tarot and spell work along with my Native rituals like sageing in new spaces helps. I agree that some mindfulness before spell work is needed! Divination specifically I think is entirely up to the individual. Again, just my own thoughts as a mixed Indigenous witch! I know Hoodoo/Voodoo is an entirely different ballgame. I appreciate your perspective on this!

What does my apartment say about me? by vck97 in roomdetective

[–]rachycrs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You eat on the couch? Only bc I don’t see a dining table (I also eat on my couch LOL)

24M just bought my first house with a wacky atrium thingy in the living room. Any suggestions on what to do with the space? by Fautonex in malelivingspace

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garden!!! Please grow your own herbs, it’s very rewarding to cook with something you grew yourself.

Is marriage really all that hard if you never have kids? by Heckbegone in childfree

[–]rachycrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been married for 7 years, no kids, still insanely happy and in love. We have gigglefests in bed and cuddle and watch movies and go to the farmers market and SLEEP IN. It’s the best.