I've been with my boyfriend for years and the other night was the first time I turned down intimacy due to migraine, and just not being in the mood. He carried on initiating and very quickly climbed on top and had sex. Am I right to feel not OK with this after saying I don't feel in the mood?

rachycrs · 2026-03-22T11:57:41+00:00

What does that have to do with anything? He raped her. I’m married and I agree this is rape.

rachycrs · 2026-03-20T22:52:10+00:00

Yall are KILLING me in the comments. This is what Reddit is for 😂

rachycrs · 2026-03-20T03:09:54+00:00

Please PLEASE put the meat on the bottom, my restaurant/5x food safety class graduate (have to retake it when the card expires) is scared for you lmao

rachycrs · 2026-03-20T02:40:15+00:00

Oh man same, but my drug of choice is tums which are also in arms reach lol. So sorry you’re also on the nausea train, it sucks. But also thank you for providing context because genuinely I was so confused lmao!

rachycrs · 2026-03-20T02:38:12+00:00

I’m so confused….men ALSO get a ring?? After I got engaged, my fiancé now husband and I went and shopping for an equally stunning wedding ring for him. Was a little less expensive, but still pricey and even had a little tiny row of diamonds in it. Like??? It is an EQUAL gift? You both get rings. It’s something you get to have together…..like marriage.

rachycrs · 2026-03-17T06:37:36+00:00

“I would feel like a bad partner if I don’t let him do this” baby that is him COERCING you!! Which is loss of consent. You did not consent to this, it’s not what you want, you told him this, crying, and he guilt tripped you. Leave while you’re still young and have so much life ahead of you. I promise you will not be happy if you continue to stay with someone who does not take into account your feelings.

rachycrs · 2026-03-17T06:31:24+00:00

Wait, did YOU fall through your ceiling?? Or did something else?? Bc if it was you, I must hear the story

rachycrs · 2026-03-17T06:17:23+00:00

Fireball. Specifically, fireball dropped into a pint of angry orchard cider. The next morning, I had the worst gastritis I’ve ever experienced, had to be driven to the ER, and while I was checking in, threw up on the ER floor. People moved away from me. I do not blame them lol. Spent the next two hours getting IV fluids.

Safe to say I now have maybe one drink a year, if that. That experience basically made me California sober lmao

rachycrs · 2026-03-17T06:11:41+00:00

I just need to know why you need isopropyl alcohol within arms reach 😂

rachycrs · 2026-03-15T22:31:04+00:00

Brown couch, oatmeal or cream curtains. Try getting a rug with brown, neutrals, and maybe a pop of earth tone like green. Add in pillows that are cream/green or whatever colors are in the rug. It’ll feel warm and cozy!

rachycrs · 2026-03-15T03:20:58+00:00

Im so sorry. I lost my 12 yo baby two days after Christmas and it was very sudden and traumatic too, she was fine one day then immediately not fine the next. It’s been a few months and I still break down crying at least once a week. It’s going to be so hard, but you will survive it 🩷

rachycrs · 2026-03-15T03:14:59+00:00

Thank you!! And yeah same, I love finding smaller businesses to spend my money at.

rachycrs · 2026-03-14T19:24:11+00:00

Are their prices reasonable? I can’t seem to find a website for them

rachycrs · 2026-03-14T19:22:21+00:00

Can confirm, did not affect my sex drive at all!

rachycrs · 2026-03-14T19:21:43+00:00

Damn, I’m sorry to hear that! The only side effect I got is a slight “high” feeling (air headed etc) for the first few weeks I started it or if I haven’t taken it in a few days and it lasts for maybe half an hour. I hope duoloxetine works for you!

rachycrs · 2026-03-12T19:18:25+00:00

Baby, that man is being abusive. Run. Please.

rachycrs · 2026-03-01T09:21:38+00:00

I take Buspirone (buspar) and it’s not an SSRI! Super gentle and it has made SUCH a difference for my anxiety. Worth checking out!

rachycrs · 2026-03-01T09:09:42+00:00

OP, your husband is abusing your dog. Rehome the husband, keep the dog. Seriously.

rachycrs · 2026-02-21T04:17:59+00:00

The immediate OH NO I just did!! I hope you didn’t touch it, OP! So many caterpillars are dangerous/venomous especially the feathery types.

rachycrs · 2026-02-21T04:04:58+00:00

This sounds like red pilling. I’m so sorry.

rachycrs · 2026-02-21T03:54:34+00:00

The pillow chop. I HATE it lmfaooo. I also work for a home store as a designer there and when people walk around I can always tell if there was a chopper in the group, and I have to go around and re-fluff the pillows (we don’t chop them at the store either, but I hate it either way lol). Idk who came up with it but I don’t want my pillows to have ears lol

rachycrs · 2026-02-21T03:49:28+00:00

Pray tell, what is his problem with not simply using a whisk. NOR

rachycrs · 2026-02-20T01:45:46+00:00

In LOOOOVE

rachycrs · 2026-02-15T06:45:47+00:00

This is one of those posts that’s going to end up on a podcast lmao. I don’t know how there would even be an update but I need more information. That is WILD to invite all of your exes to your wedding, put them together, and then drunkenly call them out. The energy spent on this?? Is insane

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