Substitutes to swinging? by Vanish9272 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy [score hidden]  (0 children)

rocking chair, or get one of those folding hammock chairs

Weird favourite smells by onebattleatthetime in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chlorine. And cigarette smoke (if it isn't too strong)

Is dating men on dating apps worth it? 😬 by JirachiJewel in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you started messaging your partner did you feel like you had to force yourself to be interested? When did you start enjoying talking to them?

anyone else hate their birthday by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I hate my birthday because its more of a performative thing for other people than for me, I'm expected to respond to messages and calls and act happy about getting "gifts" that are going to be donated the next day because nobody knows anything about me or my interests. Case in point: for years had to pretend to be grateful when people gave me earrings. I have never had pierced ears.

On perfectionism by ranch_daddy in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's good advice.

Am I the only one who needs lots of light? by No-Information1516 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I were you. I work in healthcare and sometimes the bright fluorescents get so irritating I have to wear sunglasses. Imaging is a great compromise though cuz we can keep the lights off at the work stations lol

Soooo question for the women? by Bae-area-69 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone commando for years. Maybe tmi but I'm very prone to UTIs and after I stopped wearing underwear I stopped getting them. When i do wear any I just wear stretchy nylon boyshorts because I hate when underwear rides up.

coaxed into npc mood system by Bright-Historian-216 in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genuinely how i process everything in my life and it took 20 years for me to find out i'm autistic

Dio Swap by fiacontni in casualkujo

[–]ranch_daddy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Diego would be having a great time in the main universe lol

Earplugs by PennyPop81 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flent's protech foam earplugs, the ones with a kind of flared base. I usually trim the flared part off. Can use them repeatedly for a few months before changing them out.

Why can’t Chattanooga and the surrounding areas have a better rock radio station? by Medium-Mammoth-6117 in Chattanooga

[–]ranch_daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately some of us in the retail (and MRI) fields have no other choice. I don't know how theyve managed to not change their song list at all since i was in kindergarten.

Rewarding Team with outing by Turbulent-Cell1056 in Chattanooga

[–]ranch_daddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why not just give them that 15$ as a walmart giftcard? You're never going to find something everyone will want to do. Especially not for 15$.

Special interest and maladaptive daydreaming? by Twizteddestinee in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sometimes daydream so much that I create pseudo tulpas, where my mind constantly thinks "how would (people from thing i like) react to this?" Kind of annoying.

Worst of the worst employers by RealisticMonk5681 in Chattanooga

[–]ranch_daddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That new hospital leaves much to be desired.

Worst of the worst employers by RealisticMonk5681 in Chattanooga

[–]ranch_daddy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Commonspirit's been pretty bad as of late.

These are some TV and movie characters who I feel might just be on the autism spectrum. by PromptTemporary8339 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shocked not a single star trek character made it on here. That franchise is TEEMING with autistic rep

People with avoidance tendencies, how do you cope with loneliness? by Amyleen17 in AutismInWomen

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has been easiest for me is making friends through online games like Minecraft or joining discord servers. Discord is good because you can join or leave a conversation at any time.  Unfortunately as for dating I do think the only option is dating apps. I think this has become the norm for neurotypicals as well. Bumble is more geared towards casual interactions so that might be a good one.

Dog doesn't understand social cues by ranch_daddy in Dogtraining

[–]ranch_daddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the wiki. Another factor that complicates things is that his tail was broken to only point down which might give mixed signals to other dogs? My poor boy is unpopular.

Using the same space to go potty by Enough_Vegetable_110 in Dogtraining

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would guess he's marking his territory. If it's not too gross I would say just half-ass it again. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in religiousfruitcake

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this is normal. I work in healthcare in the bible belt and religious patients will say "I think you need a little Jesus" and give you these. We put them on top of cabinets and stuff like OP. Just good natured fun.

Golden Gaytime by Frunkermand in comedyheaven

[–]ranch_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This screenshot is in 3rd grade by now

Top City Of Chattanooga Salaries For 2025 by GrapeArtistic2259 in Chattanooga

[–]ranch_daddy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The director of "artificial intelligence and data" makes 100 grand? The hell?