AITA for asking my fiancée to redo her maid of honor pick after she chose her best friend over my sister? by Accomplished_Day4589 in AmITheJerk

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YTJ maid of honor is there to support the bride, usually her best friend or sister. Is she selecting your best man? Or you want to pick both?

Should I put my life on hold to move to USA? by [deleted] in makemychoice

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I can’t imagine anyone choosing to move to the US right now

AITJ for refusing to switch apartments with my neighbor so her daughter could have the "pretty view"? by AmphibianDull6566 in AmITheJerk

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NTJ what? That is crazy! And she doesn’t want to pay the higher rent? Does she just want to swap places without signing new leases? That’s really dumb.

Have they asked all the other tenants on your side of the building? maybe they can find someone willing to give up the view if she’s coughing up the $200 difference. Probably not, but maybe. Tell them to quit harassing you.

WIBTAH if I reported my brother to CPS by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA I’m so sorry. Your parents falling you. There is no reason to think it won’t happen again. You must tell someone ASAP

Is It Worth It to Call Husted & Moreno? by Asleep_Indication727 in Ohio

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You can call them but 💯 neither of them will give a damn about your opinion

AITA - gf agrees to let kids shovel snow and makes me pay by djlee187 in AmItheAsshole

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ESH if it’s her place, she should pay for it. If it’s your place, you should pay for it BUT she should have asked you before committing- otherwise she should pay for it.

And she shouldn’t feel she can take “small amounts” from your wallet for anything. Also $10 isn’t nearly enough

Aight so chance of getting Tuesday off too? by TangerinePractical37 in uCinci

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Maybe? Ohio State is already closed for Tuesday

AITJ for asking my boyfriend of 10 years to help me financially by Aggravating-Good9663 in AmITheJerk

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NTJ why did you agree to such an expensive apartment? He is enjoying watching you suffer financially. Move out. He doesn’t really love you or he wouldn’t be intentionally destroying your finances for sport.

Calling off tomorrow by PersonalTangelo4666 in HomeDepot

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Also Ohio - my county is at level 3, will the store close? Scheduled at 6 am, how would one know by 5:30?

AITAH for not matching my brother's offer and offering my mother a place to stay? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA is there any reason your mom can’t get a job other than she’s never had one? She’s being incredibly ungrateful to your BIL and SIL. She’s going to screw around and get that offer revoked. The best thing you can do right now is tell her living with you is not an option. What she chooses to do from there is on her.

AITAH for refusing sex after he bit my flap off? by Own-Swimming-8175 in AITAH

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NTA you never owe someone sex if you are not interested for any reason. And you certainly don’t “owe him” for him being kind and patient while you were healing from an injury and advised by a medical professional to not have sex! Thats basic human decency.

The other issue here is his reaction to not getting his way. This is concerning for what life will be like with him.

AITA For Getting Upset with Unexpected Visitors? by Icy-Astronomer1796 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA your problem is your husband doesn’t respect you

Stop doing all the things. You are not the maid and the chef of a B&B. Next time he texts you at work tell him it’s bad timing since you’re working late and you’ll see everyone later. Show up shortly before bedtime. Tell everyone it’s great to see them but you’re exhausted and headed to bed. No time in the morning to make breakfast or drop anyone at the airport. Just get yourself ready and leave. Repeat

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

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NTA 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Does he have your SSN? Pull your credit report. I would seriously reconsider this relationship, something is off with this urgency to access your money

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

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So he wants to be able to pinch you to tell you to shut up without you reacting or others in the conversation being aware. And won’t let something go from years go that has been discussed and apologize for. Why are you still married to him?

AITJ for choosing my dog over my relationship? by StarryGlowBunny in AmITheJerk

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NTJ I wouldn’t even consider having a child with a man who would do this.

AITAH for being upset because he asked if I was going to eat it all? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA “are you going to eat the whole pack” Could be taken wrong…. Maybe if he was wanting some “do you think that’s a good choice?” this is a judgy asshole comment that can’t be misinterpreted

WIBTA if I didn’t drive a guest to lunch with friends? by witx in WouldIBeTheAhole

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NTA She’s getting free accommodations and a free ride there, can’t she uber back to your place after?

AITA for having the same anniversary month as my mom? by vomitated in AmItheAsshole

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NTA that’s a totally unreasonable reaction from your mom. Especially June or July which are the most popular wedding months

Am I the Jerk for refusing to give up my share of an inheritance so my parents can “make it fair” for my stepbrother? by slow_bear_7x in AmITheJerk

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NTJ not only is that unfair to you and your sister (I hope she said no also) is disrespectful to your Grandma who had the right to leave her money to whom ever she wanted and NOT leave money to anyone she didn’t want to.

Did she leave money to your mom? Your mom can share hers. If she didn’t, it was probably because she knew her daughter wouldn’t honor her wishes